The good news is that a lot of feedees perception what constitutes fat evolves as they gain weight. Goal weights change.
But some don’t some stick to hard lines and boundaries it’s completely on the feedee. And doesn’t make them any less.
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JN_TumLover56:
True, I mean someone had to call out the spade in something to help this place to become more ordered. In which I do respect.
Also I’d like to kindly ask anyone to keep the “beef” of Munchies out of this topic? Yes I know I brought it up, but that’s NOT what this thread is about.
It begins and ends with creeps bigots and weirdos being called out.
you’re the one who mentioned your one sided argument with the “tyrant” munchies. And seeing how she isn’t here to defend herself I guess I’ll be the one to defend her
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I have no idea why you think you have beef with munchies, as I can tell it was a completely one sided feeling. all this arguing was making this place a bit more inclusive and less yucky; people used to post about how they wanted to fatten their wives/gf without their consent, people talked about fattening their family members this is disgusting gooner slop, and it’s a postive thing that half the forum isn’t that anymore.
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I can’t say that it’s super common. I think it’s diminishing returns that brings feeder men to being feedees, but there’s something that evolves in us. I started out being a feedee but overtime I developed an appreciation for plus size women, it wasn’t there before.
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I don’t think you should wait for someone who might come and focus on who’s in front of you. It’s hard enough to find someone you vibe with.
1 week
I would like a way to “save” my spot in a story there’s times where I’m reading and have to do something else and I’ll completely lose where I was. There’s probably not much can be done about the exact spot on a page but the page would be nice especially on some of the longer stories.
It would also be nice to have a history of stories read or a little spot that says read if it, or a history of liked stories if that makes sense I know these aren’t probably easy but something I thought of recently
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KlondikeBar:
Aside from the incel comment. Beast has scapegoated posters in the past in regard to his self-esteem problems. Which is probably considered manipulative behavior. I actually do still remember the threads in question but I personally don't like digging up past drama.
Of course, I don't know him personally. Only had a few conversations with him here and there. But from what I've gathered from his vent comments about loneliness, it sounds like he struggles with self-compassion. Which I think one needs to have in order to start a serious and healthy relationship. I myself don't love myself either but his way of thinking is very concerning and he should see a therapist. I mean the last part genuinely.
I want to say I’ve only had pleasant interactions with you and most people on the site. People have different opinions on entire hosts of issues and that’s fine, but bigotry of any kind shouldn’t be acceptable in a kink space, borderline like incest rape and like sexual harassment are also not okay. Don’t psycho analyze something you can’t even read because I give a different opinion. We’re all “lonely” to some extent being on the internet, and in this kink space.
It is what it is. 6-7
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There’s no need to feel “escalated” or whatever, it’s called a disagreement. And I don’t appreciate being insulted and psychoanalyzed because I don’t like we’re using bigoted and inappropriate language towards people who didn’t do anything wrong.
Incel is not an okay word to swing around anytime some man has a dogshit opinion.
If someone is a racist call them a racist if someone is a Nazi call them a Nazi if someone hates women call them a misogynist.
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Heaven forbid people who don’t have sex are against being slandered against.
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And what’s the self-report? That I don’t like that people use derogatory bigoted language towards people who don’t have sex? Like look around you really think all the people on here are sexually active? Half the people on here struggle with relationships/meaningfull connections yet I’m the bad guy for saying “maybe don’t say that word as a slur”
You can honestly shove your condecention where the sun don’t shine, little anon cartoon drawing.
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