Thank you. Sometimes it helps to have a female voice.

I don’t know. She won’t really tell me. I love her and have even tried to suppress it but it usually just comes back even stronger. She doesn’t like the thought of me looking at porn. And a lot of people on her want something more than just some playful role play. And some just want you damn money.But what kinda of games?

Well she’s not into feeder/feedee stuff. So I try to get some role play or dirty talk or even wearing smaller clothing to set a mood. The older I’ve got the harder it is to finish without some feedism play.

I believe she is. She just doesn’t understand the kink no matter how I explain it to her. She has know about it since the beginning of our relationship. She has gave it a try a few times. I’ve told asked her a lot about what I could do to help her enjoy herself more while still satisfying my side. I want to compromise and give her whatever she needs. But can’t get anything from here on how she feels sexually.

Foreplay and role play mostly. But with the occasional over indulgence if possible. I just want to share it together. She seems to not even want to try at all. I’m would be willing to do anything for her to feel sexual satisfied.

I’ve asked her what she likes, or fantasies she has. And she says she has none. So it leaves me feeling like I have nothing to offer her back. But I would do anything she asked for. Just to make her happy and fulfilled sexually. I try to repress my kink for her but that’s extremely difficult. I’m willing to compromise on anything.

My wife has always known about my fetish, but she’s into it herself. I’ve always had a had time explaining it to her. I was wondering if anyone had some realistic suggestions for incorporating it into our sex life. Or how to come up with a list of compromises for her to counter with her own .

It’s really hard sometimes to try and explain yourself to someone who doesn’t understand your kink. I would like her to switch to a more dominant role sometimes. And feed me or at least feed each other. I’ve told her this but I know she has no idea what she should do. She has always been very willing to indulge me but this is different. I told her I want to be the sub feedee more. I try so hard to describe what I want. She’s always let me feed her and gain in the process. But she looked at me like I have three eyes, when I said I want her to do to me what she’s aloud me to do to her. I get it this is not her kink. So I do understand. Any thoughts? Title is supposed to say how to involve you non feedist partner or spouse. Sorry

It’s really hard sometimes to try and explain yourself to someone who doesn’t understand your kink. I would like her to switch to a more dominant role sometimes. And feed me or at least feed each other. I’ve told her this but I know she has no idea what she should do. She has always been very willing to indulge me but this is different. I told her I want to be the sub feedee more. I try so hard to describe what I want. She’s always let me feed her and gain in the process. But she looked at me like I have three eyes, when I said I want her to do to me what she’s aloud me to do to her. I get it this is not her kink. So I do understand. Any thoughts?

It’s really hard sometimes to try and explain yourself to someone who doesn’t understand your kink. I would like her to switch to a more dominant role sometimes. And feed me or at least feed each other. I’ve told her this but I know she has no idea what she should do. She has always been very willing to indulge me but this is different. I told her I want to be the sub feedee more. I try so hard to describe what I want. She’s always let me feed her and gain in the process. But she looked at me like I have three eyes, when I said I want her to do to me what she’s aloud me to do to her. I get it this is not her kink. So I do understand. Any thoughts?