Lesbian safety on dating apps

DreamyLesbian:
Allowing lesbians to not be seen by men would prevent actual stalking, no fat fetish site tries to prevent it. Many cruel men are planning in silence, actually locating eomen they see on here to try and "turn them straight" please allow lesbians to hide themselves from men.

Letters And Numbers:
This website isn’t gender segregated, but you can make your profile non-public (so only logged in users can see it) and there is a block feature to block individual users. I wish it blocked more things, but it does work. But like I said before, if you’re ever being harassed, send in a report with information so we can investigate.

Gushloader:


KlondikeBar:
The problem isn't UI difficulty. The webmaster doesn't bother with his website anymore; MIA. Only the staff are the pillars of the community but I don't think they have the power to make these web dev changes. I am assuming they have to talk to the big boss to do implementation.
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It's not true at all that the webmaster is MIA, there are updates to the site on a scheduled, rolling basis. But it's absolutely true that other staff don't have the ability to touch code. That's true for most web forums, I hope.

Not every suggestion from users or staff will be implemented, though. They all get heard, and I've seen many user suggestions put in place, but not every suggestion is technically feasible or is in line with the design goals of the site. And some get added, but just not on the schedule one person might want. It's a process.
3 days

Lesbian safety on dating apps

DreamyLesbian:
Allowing lesbians to not be seen by men would prevent actual stalking, no fat fetish site tries to prevent it. Many cruel men are planning in silence, actually locating eomen they see on here to try and "turn them straight" please allow lesbians to hide themselves from men.


This website isn’t gender segregated, but you can make your profile non-public (so only logged in users can see it) and there is a block feature to block individual users. I wish it blocked more things, but it does work. But like I said before, if you’re ever being harassed, send in a report with information so we can investigate.
5 days

Lesbian safety on dating apps

DreamyLesbian:
I seriously got banned off feabie because i received a rape threat, as a lesbian by a straight man, this happens all the time here too. Why does society hate lesbians? Why do fat fetish spaces hate lesbians? Is there an alternative to ff and the even more cursed feabie?


Please report any kind of threats you receive on here. I know sometimes the instinct is to delete stuff like that and block the offender, but please take screenshots if you can, too. It’s much harder to figure out what happened if there’s no evidence. This goes for anyone reading this, of course. Report threatening behavior from other users.
5 days

Making a dress.

FatVixen:
I am wanting to make a dress for a fancy ball that I'm going to hopefully this summer.

The issue is I don't know if my chest might grow if we are successful in getting me pregnant. The bottom part I can use silky material.

the chest area I need the material that is shiny like silk but stretchy.


Do you sew a lot? Is making a fancy ball gown with a stretch fabric top block something you’re comfortable with?
1 week

Why can i not upload a video

Fatjoned:
11 mg as I say just recorded and tried to upload. Happy to try shrinking the size if you let me know how


That’s pretty big. I’d suggest googling whatever software you’re using and find out the best way to compress a video for web streaming. MP4 is a pretty standard format. You can make it shorter, too. Most videos on here are probably 15-30 seconds. Longer than that is rare.
2 weeks

Why can i not upload a video

Fatjoned:
Every time I try it gets stuck on processing. Using a new I phone to make the recording. Any ideas why it gets stuck processing


What’s the size of the video?
2 weeks

Conservatives and fat


M00fint0p:
I do hope you're able to research this topic a bit more rather than going off of assumptions... I do kind of worry this line of thinking has to do with feederism being tied to the LGBT+ community and the stereotyped disdain that American Conservatives (stereotyped as being more straight) have towards American Liberals (stereotyped as being more in the LGBT+ community). At the end of the day, political affiliation means very little - it's the behavior of the person that means the most. Generalizing a large group's behavior is rather reductive.
Do correct me if I'm wrong though! I also am politically unaffiliated, so I'm just rebounding of what I took from this statement. Would love to start a dialogue and get a stronger sense of what you mean.

Letters And Numbers:
It’s a thing. RFK jr coding right is a symbol of it and the parallel shift in the health and fitness influence culture taking a sharp rightward turn. And CrossFit. That’s always been far right. But you can go back more than a generation to see conservative pundits arguing against socialized healthcare because of all the fat people who would mess it up for everyone, so of course it can’t be done. Or saying SNAP (or other entitlements) should be cut because you can buy (insert kind of problematic food) and people who qualify for assistance are fat or might become fat or should just be living in austerity anyways because they’re fat. They might also mean “and women and minorities” but they usually feel ok about saying the fat part.

M00fint0p:
Thanks for letting me know! I'm still very new to this lifestyle so I'm learning the ins and outs of what's too taboo to talk about 😅 Thanks for clarifying! I'm trying to stay as far away from hot topics of debate and conversation and stay as unbiased/unaffiliated as possible... I know that's quite a privileged thing to say, but I'm choosing to use this space as some place safe for me not to worry about such topics. I guess I didn't quite think that through before responding. Sorry, and thanks again.
you didn’t do anything wrong! Some anti fat bias is as old as the hills, but I think some of it is newer, too. The health and fitness/wellness industries being swallowed up by political, right wing voices is newer. It used to be more diffused. Still political, maybe.
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