Theme of the month - august

1. How long have you been writing?
>well for over a decade now, since college when the internet was still fledgling and new. Stories were not as they are now, nor were forums, so I wrote things that interested me. Some of which I have updated and published here.
2. What genre would you say you write?
>Fiction mostly with a twist of a reality that could or could not have happened IRL.
3. Have you taken classes or received instruction for creative writing? What did you enjoy, and what did you dislike?
>no formal writing, just hoping spellcheck and I continue to get along.
4. What are some of your favorite writing reference books?
>I usually incept anything that I read. My brain tucks away ideas that eventually bubble back to the surface and then I am off writing a new story.
5. What do you think is the biggest problem you need help with in your writing?
> time. I work fulltime, so keeping pace with my story and ideas and writing / editing / continuity policing gets time-consuming. Love it though; the struggle is real, but rewarding.
6. What are your writing goals for the next 12 months?
>To continue to write what my subscribers are interested in. I am blessed to be able to receive a little money back, and so I want to continue to provide value for dollar spent.
4 months

Improving subscriber value

Hey gang,

I hope this is the appropriate place to post this.
It is an open question to everyone, but would be geared towards my current and past subscribers.

I want to thank anyone who is a current as well as past subscriber of my content. I exclusively write stories, and am looking to help improve your experience with me.

I appreciate you sharing your hard-earned money with me and would like to ensure you feel you are getting best value with my content.

That said, if there is anything you'd like me to focus more on, I would welcome your feedback. For example, shorter stories? Focus on existing characters? New characters? Certain genres / themes you would like me to focus on.

I do this part-time, and really enjoy writing stories that stimulate the mind and give you the warm and fuzzies.

Drop a line here, or private messaging works also.

-runningsoft
4 months

Difficulty with masturbation

Depending on your age, testosterone does dwindle as you get older.
With that, libido declines as well as firmness and length of erection time.
Happens to us all.
Methods to improve it would be to enjoy yourself when you have a lot of energy as opposed when you are dead-tired.
Further, taking up low-impact cardio can help improve heart-health. Low impact will burn fewer calories and preserve joint health. Meaning, better blood flow below your waistline without worry about weight loss. Good luck.
1 year

Got to vent a little

Not an armchair psychiatrist here, but finding out the 'frustrating' part of your fetish is a good place to start.
From there, it may make sense of what it is you are looking to explore/solve/learn about yourself.
Good luck.
1 year

Deep fryers? worth it?

ILuvChubbyChix:
Okay so, I've seen some electric deep fryers for sale for pretty cheap, and I'm wondering if it's worth it. Surely there's others here who use deep fryers.

Thing is, I really do love fried boneless chicken strips. I also like fries, but only when fresh. But, going to Cane's gets expensive fast, so I don't get to do that as much as I might like. And it's not like any of the other fast food chains that specialize in fried chicken are any cheaper or better. For reference, the 25 pack of strips at Cane's is something like $38-40, and that's gone in a day or two at most, though damn if that sauce isn't delicious.. but I digress.

The cheaper ones have what look like a pretty small capacity of around 2-3 L or so. But, I don't hold huge cookouts and I live alone, nor am I going to run a restaurant, so hopefully that's enough?

It's easy enough to determine the financial impact for the most part. I know how much the frozen strips at the grocery store are, how much vegetable oil is, and that you use can use the oil 5-10 times or so.

But here's what's harder for me to figure out.. how high maintenance or time consuming is it? How much of a mess would it make? How difficult is it to clean? How long does it take to warm up the oil? For that matter, how long can I expect an electric deep fryer to last?

I have this silly dream of being able to eat more fried food. Probably not every day, but more often. But what's the reality? As I live alone, I do have to place some premium on ease of use, but of course there's always a trade off. I'm trying to figure out what that trade off ultimately is.


That is a tricky question. Obviously, food has gotten quite pricey. Deep fryers are fine, if you have the space for them and the upkeep to dispose of the oil.

What we do, is what someone already mentioned, which is to use a cast iron pan or skillet and learn a few easy recipes that fit your tastes. This way, you get the time to prepare your food and eat it with reduced costs and keep your kitchen space freed up. Good luck.
1 year

Gay/bi men

Lardass89:
If there's any slimmer men who want to tease me for being a fatty, flirt or just chat.message me or pop up on chat
Equally if there's any bigger men who wanna get me to their size, do the same thing smiley


you might want to check out Grommr for what it is you seek.
1 year

Further exploration

Larpus98:
Hi! I’m just bouncing my personal experience off other like minded minds, thanks for humoring me.

So naturally I’m here cause I love fatness, have my entire life, both on myself and others. Pretty straight forward. I also have a wildly deep rooted padding fetish that I have never shaken sense childhood, in fact it’s even more intense that I have my own private living space lol.

While I have a pretty solid understanding of what my kinks are and why I like them, I’m starting to wonder further. Like, when I pad really huge, I love the feeling of being massively fat and waddling around, but I’ve noticed I really like the tigress and pressure of it. Laying on my back and feeling almost crushed. I also like face and body sitting from lovely large ladies behinds smiley. Even a step further, I enjoy wearing very very tight and form fitting things when I’m kinky, spandex that’s way too small, underwear that’s way too small, there is a running theme of “tightness” that I like that isn’t necessarily directly related to any form of fat enjoyment, and that they have hybreded together somehow. Do I have a crushing fetish? Do I explore more BDSM and raise my bar? Do I let someone else make these choices for me? smiley

I’m having a crisis, a good one tho lol…WHAT AM I hahahah


Thanks for sharing, and it sounds like you already know what you like and are into. I would say continue down your rabbit hole and further explore.

There are forums on Discord that you can look into that might further stimulate your thinking.

Something as simple as buying the heaviest possible weighted blanked (#25) or perhaps two of them (Totaling #50) might be an easy fix. Good luck with your endeavors.
1 year

Are there fa/bbw relationships that developed into a feeder/feedee one?

What a good question!
I think it depends. Since you are married, you might consider trying ways to approach the subject with her without running towards her with a wheelbarrow full of cakes and pastries.

You guys probably know each other well enough at this point to have a conversation where feeding can come up.

You can try doting on her with additional items to eat that are her favorite things and see if she is open to enjoying a fuller stomach. Hope that helps break the ice.
1 year

Dimensions magazine link excluded from wayback machine...

That is an older website, so perhaps they do a little purging every now and then?

Possibly reach out their Admin and let them know what you are looking for. They should be able to help you find those stories / an active link.
1 year

Covid-related weight loss

I think many people went one of two ways on the scale.
If you are looking to regain the weight and your health metrics are stable, do whatever you did to hold onto the weight the first time.
If you have any lingering symptoms, or significant changes to your health where added weight might make you ill, you might want to consider holding onto your current weight until your health improves. Hope that helps and good luck with the scale.
1 year
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