Is a fat man a man?
Urchie:
Yall are such eggs
Harleen Zaftig:
Let's not shove our opinions about gender and sexuality on other people when they don't invite it, maybe?
I absolutely am all about genderqueering etc, but I cringe when someone calls other people eggs or the like without them inviting it.
If you want to quietly muse about how they might be unaware they're trans, do that to yourself.
Speaking as someone who has been upset at being called an egg *while I am 100% aware that I am genderqueer*.
LGBT+ labels are delicate things, and people can explore their gender without being an "egg" or "trans" or etc etc
KlondikeBar:
While I understand people being upset with that comment. I wouldn't take it too personally. I think Urchie was just trying to be cheeky as usual. Their comments have that blunt sort of humor if I worded it right. I would just block and maybe take a break if your mental health is affected.
Yall are such eggs
Harleen Zaftig:
Let's not shove our opinions about gender and sexuality on other people when they don't invite it, maybe?
I absolutely am all about genderqueering etc, but I cringe when someone calls other people eggs or the like without them inviting it.
If you want to quietly muse about how they might be unaware they're trans, do that to yourself.
Speaking as someone who has been upset at being called an egg *while I am 100% aware that I am genderqueer*.
LGBT+ labels are delicate things, and people can explore their gender without being an "egg" or "trans" or etc etc
KlondikeBar:
While I understand people being upset with that comment. I wouldn't take it too personally. I think Urchie was just trying to be cheeky as usual. Their comments have that blunt sort of humor if I worded it right. I would just block and maybe take a break if your mental health is affected.
I have no reason to excuse it and your advice is dismissive. Just don’t call people eggs uninvited is the solution.
1 week
Straight coded but gay for fat
On a real note I say "mostly straight" with a grin because while my life has been 98% women as partners I have absolutely no loyalty to the label straight and have always known there's at least a chunk that's open to guys - it's just very hard for them to compete visually with my attraction to bloated female forms
That being said, this post was actually pretty low information and I wanted to give a little more:
I'm a feedee, but I'm also just looking for a relationship guy or girl where gaining is central. Mutual is cool but I'd love to be the focus (for once)
I guess i'm a "side" except that's not entirely true, i will go farther or less far depending on who i'm with and how they make me feel. Obviously safer and loved is better!
So either a relationship or a feeder/feedee dynamic but either way I'd love to connect and grow (pun intended) with someone.
Genuinely demi. My visual attraction weighs higher with women and I access all of the straight stuff with no impediment, but male stuff is a little harder to access.
Not difficult though I'm just picky. I also don't always know what I like until I see it.
That being said, this post was actually pretty low information and I wanted to give a little more:
I'm a feedee, but I'm also just looking for a relationship guy or girl where gaining is central. Mutual is cool but I'd love to be the focus (for once)
I guess i'm a "side" except that's not entirely true, i will go farther or less far depending on who i'm with and how they make me feel. Obviously safer and loved is better!
So either a relationship or a feeder/feedee dynamic but either way I'd love to connect and grow (pun intended) with someone.
Genuinely demi. My visual attraction weighs higher with women and I access all of the straight stuff with no impediment, but male stuff is a little harder to access.
Not difficult though
I'm just picky. I also don't always know what I like until I see it.
1 month
