My sexuality and my kinks are exclusively around the big bellies, and nothing else

Stockylove:
I'm writing this because I don't really know how to name what I have, but as the title suggests, my sexuality and flaws are all about big bellies and nothing else. And I have a lot of problems with big bellies. I absolutely cannot be sexually attracted to a skinny or thin man. It's like my big belly fetish takes up so much space that it overshadows everything else. If it doesn't involve the belly, it often doesn't excite me. I sometimes wonder if I'm asexual or graysexual. Perhaps if this belly fetish and its procession of other oddities that accompany it had never germinated in my childhood brain. Maybe I would have had more standard sexual desires or maybe I would have remained potentially Ace. I don't know, but this "mono-obsession" with the belly means that I have a very low percentage chance of finding a person who has the right body and shares the same fetishes as me in reality. And that's part of why I signed up for sites like grommr. Because I have no choice. I think a lot of people reading this will recognize themselves. In any case, it’s not necessarily simple.

Munchies:
Good luck on Grommr. All my gay friends say they crazy over there.

But I feel you on the belly thing. Although I'm attracted to many things, big bellies are the sexiest to me. Nearly every guy I've gone after in the past 10 years has a big belly.

Hell, my partner knows if he wants to get me in the mood, all he has to do is lift up his shirt and wobble his belly. I'll be on him like white in rice.

That said, are you struggling to find someone?


I also heard that people were crazy on Grommr. Honestly, I encountered them very rarely. The problem is people who ignore you, people who chat with you and end up ignoring you for no reason, and people who ask you out and then ignore you. There are really a lot of them. and yes I have a lot of trouble finding someone for that. I once managed to get an appointment with a client for a feedism session. But he lived very far from my town, he came to my town to see a friend, do a feederism session with me, then returned to his town to the north afterwards. There is another feeder with whom I get along very well, he would love to do a feederism session with me but "of course" he lives very far from me. I've known people on grommr who haven't managed to get a single review even though they've been on grommr for several years. As for looking for a relationship, I remain quite flexible, I already see the person in real life first, I chat with them, and I will see if they simply remain friends, if we no longer speak afterward, or if it can be a future partner. For me, everything is done by feeling. But yes it's very hard to get an appointment on grommr apparently. for many people.

Absolutely anything a big guy can do with his stomach drives me crazy, as does you.
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My sexuality and my kinks are exclusively around the big bellies, and nothing else

Fat Dreams:
I can totally relate to your frustration and used to feel guilty about this but honestly everyone needs to find their own unique balance between attraction and compatibility. It's totally okay to have "musts" as long as you respect potential partners as human beings and let them make decisions about their bodies for themselves.

As for whether or not you're asexual/greysexual, no one can answer that for you. I've talked to two different therapists about this over the years about a similar issue myself, and one of them suggested I was asexual but the other one said I can't be because of my fetish. Idk. Either way, it may not be something you can change, and life is too short to try to guilt yourself out of finding happiness. I'm sure there are partners out there that are complementary to you in both personality and attraction.


yes, that's the only thing I can do, I think. find that balance. This may surprise you, but I have never fallen in love in my life. (if this ever happens and if I'm not aromantic) Maybe I'll fall in love with a skinny man and my love for him will go beyond the physical. regarding respect for other people's bodies, I don't like making people gain weight, even if I like big bellies, I find the concept a little unhealthy if the person doesn't want it, so I think it's not should not pose a problem. Otherwise, I don't experience this problem as a frustration or as something that is ruining my life. But rather an annoying problem.

But yes, life is often a balancing act where you have to know how to make concessions.
5 days

Finding belly gainers before the existence of the internet and social networks.

Can I sound like an ignorant and naive young man compared to other people born in the 60s and 70s or before/after by asking this question but..... yes ultimately I don't care. Just How did you go about meeting people with the same kinks and fétichs as you before the arrival of the internet and dating sites?
I obviously suspect that there were fetish communities. But how did you know that it existed in a specific place for example?
5 days

Roll call! any other autistic feedist in the house?

BBWcreator82:
Honestly, I'd say most of us have some kind of thing like this going on.

Let's face it. We're weird.

Stockylove:
I love being a weirdo 😆

Fat Dreams:
lmao. The biggest compliment I ever received from a partner was that I'm a lot of things but normal isn't one of them.


I think he shouldn't be bored with you then 😁
5 days

My sexuality and my kinks are exclusively around the big bellies, and nothing else

I'm writing this because I don't really know how to name what I have, but as the title suggests, my sexuality and flaws are all about big bellies and nothing else. And I have a lot of problems with big bellies. I absolutely cannot be sexually attracted to a skinny or thin man. It's like my big belly fetish takes up so much space that it overshadows everything else. If it doesn't involve the belly, it often doesn't excite me. I sometimes wonder if I'm asexual or graysexual. Perhaps if this belly fetish and its procession of other oddities that accompany it had never germinated in my childhood brain. Maybe I would have had more standard sexual desires or maybe I would have remained potentially Ace. I don't know, but this "mono-obsession" with the belly means that I have a very low percentage chance of finding a person who has the right body and shares the same fetishes as me in reality. And that's part of why I signed up for sites like grommr. Because I have no choice. I think a lot of people reading this will recognize themselves. In any case, it’s not necessarily simple.
5 days

Roll call! any other autistic feedist in the house?

BBWcreator82:
Honestly, I'd say most of us have some kind of thing like this going on.

Let's face it. We're weird.


I love being a weirdo 😆
5 days

Roll call! any other autistic feedist in the house?

I suspect myself of potentially being autistic, with the ADHD package and the other disorders that go with it. (As if it doesn't seem very difficult on a daily basis to simply be autistic if nit is not funny )
5 days

Just some vore text that i have rwote.

These are texts that I wrote on my vore videos. But I decided to bring them all together on one page. And maybe they can make other fans of yours fantasize on this site. We never know.

Text 1

( vore ) the burp of the satisfaction.

The enormous giant massages his big belly in front of the panties full of drool of his prey that he had previously burped, while relaxing and enjoying the last squirming of the other runt in his belly. he gives one last goodbye burp and a little pat on the stomach. It is a way of thanking its prey for contributing to the functioning of its digestive system. It's the least a predator can do for its miserable prey, right?

it is the only use that a little runt can bring to this enormous giant. It was the best thing he could do with his pathetic life, end up in the stomach juice of a huge giant to give him the necessary nutrients and a thick layer of extra fat on his big belly. And everyone has their role in the game of life. Isn't nature well done?

Now the giant just has to relax and enjoy a little digestive nap after his last satisfied burp of the day, BUUURP (or not)


Text 2

( Vore ) the Giant burps your panties.

BUUURP. I burped your panties out of my big belly, you know that? That means your dirty little runt ass is rubbing against the inner walls of my stomach. Now shut up and continue squirming for me little piece of shit 😡 Haaaa that hit the spot, thank you boy☺️. Ho poor little thing 🥺 Hahaha hmmm ho yeah poor little thing 😈

Text 3

( Vore )

(The giant massages its belly to help its prey digest ) Hmmmmmm, HOOO YEAH, keep squirming in my Big belly runt. You hit the spot, I love that. Good boy.👍
1 week

When did you notice you had an interest in bigger people or weight gain?

Ditzy:
Middle school I suppose.
I didn't chase boys like some of my GFs.did.
I had one boy ask me to a dance and he was so cute as he asked me I said yes.
I was always skinny in school and this boy was borderline chubby to fat but so adorable.
Dancing a slow dance with him holding me and me feeling his fat belly against me was a great feeling.
Soft and plush like a warm pillow on a winter night.
We actually dated thru most of high school.
He broke up with me because I graduated early @ 17.


It,s so cool.
2 weeks

When did you notice you had an interest in bigger people or weight gain?

IGotFat0817:
As a 12 year old kid, I knew I wanted to be big and I was attracted to heavier women. There were cartoons that ignited something within me to become fat. Back in middle school, I hated to admit I liked certain girls who were bigger, not just cuz they were big. I felt ashamed, cuz society was different beast back then (as many people would know). I’ve always been slim & athletic with a fast metabolism. Watching people around me, celebrities, Early YouTube BBW models, and cartoon characters grow; It just did something to me.

As I now am approaching 32 next year, my lifestyle has drastically changed. I replaced a lot of habits with eating. My metabolism can no longer burn off the fat like it used to. I can gain the lost weight back super easily now. I can honestly say I am in love with my sedentary lifestyle. I finally scored another desk job and managed to maintain my gains and build my finances. The last step now is find a new social circle who are bigger than me to help me transition completely. 



Overall, my 12 year old self would be proud of me today and say you shoulda bulked up quicker in your life. 300lbs here I come!


It's incredible how many people saw their fetishes and kinks born because of innocent cartoons they saw during their childhood. Cartoons should never be underestimated. They can wreak havoc on children's minds 😆
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