Anm90p:
So I’m into big BBWs like 300ibs and going (SSBBWs by then)
And I make sure I’m clear about it in my dating profiles, because no one is on here or feabie that’s even close to where I live.
I’m getting hits surprisingly from chubby women and BBWs.
What’a your take? If you don’t love her in her chubby you don’t deserve her in her USSBBW? Or look for bigger?
Thanks
I'm a male feedee so my experience may be different but I thought I'd still share.
For me I've put this kink to the side for relationships. I've never met anyone in real life whos into feederism. I've been with several women who preferred dad bods or bigger men in general. But that was just a preference thing, they weren't into feeding at all. I have also been in relationships were my partner put on "relationship weight" and they enjoyed that. But that wasn't really feederism either.
I'd say if you're having luck scoring dates with chubby or plus size women, pursue that rather than waiting for a ssbbw. Besides you may have better luck than I have finding someone who shares this kink and maybe one of them would like to get to that weight.
13 hours
Mser:
Hey! So, to kinda introduce myself a bit better, I am nonbinary technically, but began testosterone back in august. I struggled with appetite and body image for most of my life, but after starting testosterone, I found my love for gaining weight, mainly from how goddamn hungry I get after a shot lol. I will say, while I feel lucky that, as I find this out, it has been very easy for me to pack weight on thanks to my transition, I feel like I kind of set this unrealistic weight gain standard by posting in a community of people who well… most people aren’t drastically altering their bodies makeup with hormones on. Is it bad to post images on this site in hopes of chatting with people here when I have this stark difference about me in a sense?
I honestly didn't know T could make you gain that much weight but that's amazing. Don't worry about others, it's not healthy to compare people's bodies anyway because everyone is different and everyone puts on weight in different ways and at different speeds. Just enjoy your rapid gain and how affirming it feels to you
17 hours
I know this is a bit of a doomer post but with the whole situation in Iran seemingly bringing us closer to a war it's been on my mind. If the US outright declares war on Iran would obesity be considered a medical condition that could get you exempt from service? And if so what would the cut off be? Like at what weight would they say "oh they'll lose it in basic training" vs "this guy isn't even worth our time". I know a draft isn't very likely even if we do go to war, but it seems like in the last year or so the worst possible outcome for a lot of major events has happened. So my hopes for this situation aren't very high
6 days
You can always play around with inflation or just make stuffings an occasional thing. That way you keep your slim physique but you can still play around with a bigger belly when you want to. I've only ever played with inflation with coke and mentos and a cake shake. But I know air and water inflations are pretty popular too
6 days
That's honestly half the reason I still exercise while trying to gain weight. My fat distribution definitely favors my belly but I want a more rounded figure all over so I use muscle mass to fill in holes in my physique. It's definitely paid off because I'm starting to get more stretch marks on my inner legs and butt. And I've had stretch marks on my arms since before I started gaining fat and only gained muscle mass
2 weeks
Stranger122:
Fun Fact Liqour is extremily caloricly dense
1 shot is about a 100 calories combining that with any mixer and you can reach500-600 cal per glass easy
Standerd LIT is 200 cal
I've also heard that it slows down your metabolism too, because while your body is metabolizing the alcohol it's not as effective at breaking down the food in your stomach so it just stores a lot of that as fat to break down later. Though I could be mistaken, I'm not a medical professional nor a dietician
2 weeks
1) I'm so much more confident with my body. When I first started gaining weight I was so self conscious about how boney I looked. Like you could straight up count my ribs it was that bad.
2) just the weight of my own body is satisfying as hell. Sure it's annoying sometimes when I stand up, but when I'm laying down it'sike having a weighted blanket on at all times
3) reaching new weight goals is just satisfying. I get the same dopamine hit from gaining 5 lbs as I do adding another 5 lbs to a lift at the gym. I can't really explain it that well, but seeing big number go up whether in the gym or on the scale excites my ape brain
2 weeks
Pudgy Ane:
Hey everyone! I’m curious what first drew you to feedism? Was it a particular experience, a feeling, or something you discovered over time?
Also, how has your journey evolved since then? I’d love to hear your stories and what this lifestyle means to you now compared to when you started.
Looking forward to connecting and sharing! 💕
Munchies:
I was very underweight (naturally, not by choice) and I hated it. So I googled "How to get fat." This is how I discovered feedism.
But being a feedee/gainer never suited me. I had more enjoyment watching other people eating or getting fat. So I ended up being an FA and feeder.
Ive had almost the exact opposite experience, I started off as a FA (I've been attracted to chubby people for as long as I've known what attraction is). I was just severely underweight as a teenager so as I started to get my weight under control I really I enjoyed the sensation of gaining weight and decided to continue. It started as lean mass because I was doing a bulk/cut cycle. But now I'm just doing an infinite bulk cycle and I love it. I just wish the weight would stick a little faster
1 month
Arame:
Um…. May I ask why the block feature doesn’t work? I’m still receiving replies from people I blocked literally years ago. That doesn’t make any sense. Is there an admin that I could talk too or something?
I Am Uo:
Replies in the forums? Or in direct message, blocking only stops direct messages
Arame:
So even if you block them, they still comment on your posts? That don’t make sense smh
They aren't your posts tho. On the forum you just create a topic and anyone can respond to it. That's why when someone deleted their original message in a topic they created the topic still remains and people can still carry on the conversation. Blocking is only for people who are harassing you in DM's. And if someone is breaking the rules in a forum post you can report it to the mods and they regularly close forum threads if they become toxic
1 month
Arame:
So,
Apparently social media influencers are continuing their never ending creativity of saying an existing word and putting “maxxing” at the end of it in order to seem like they’ve come up with some revolutionary concept.
Now, they’re trying to rebrand feederism as “Fatmaxxing”. Dear God 🤦🏾♂️. To be fair, I’m 32. So, take my old-head bias with a grain of salt.
What do you all think? Yay or Nay?
Munchies:
I blame the incels on 4Chan.
With that said, I am out of the loop on this one. Who is saying fatmaxxing?
I looked it up and I'm not sure, I saw a few links to X but I refuse to touch that god forsaken platform. The next closest thing I found was a forum on a trans subreddit about trans women intentionally gaining weight to appear more feminine and weighing the pros and cons of it. Which is feedism adjacent, but that's more fighting gender dysphoria rather than a kink thing
1 month
