LoLbreadplease:
I think you meant utterly 😅 but the pun is appreciated around these parts, I'm sure.
eh spelling isn't my strong suit lol
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I took a small break from actively gaining weight, I basically just spent two weeks eating a normal amount of food and because my metabolism is so annoyingly fast I lost around 10 lbs. But somehow in that time I started getting stretch marks on my sides just underneath my armpits. The stretch marks on my love handles which had turned a white/purple color also started to turn bright red at their tips and grew a little longer. I have no idea how this happened since I lost weight. Either way I'm now going to try to gain it back plus a lot more
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James556:
I have always struggled accepting the fact that I am into the idea of women or myself gaining as I really value my body's health and listening to the body's natural hunger signals. So stuffing really puts me off even though it's a fantasy. I also feel like I would want to experience a relationship with a woman into this, but I would also want a genuine connection and for her to value health as well. It makes it difficult to balance and know how to handle it, and meeting or talking to women into lighter feedism and not extreme gaining seems rare. Maybe I'm wrong though.
When it comes to myself my gaining desires fluctuate with arousal and I can one minute want a softer belly and the next I am happy with my abs again which makes it even more confusing. Are there any others out there who feel similar in regards to wanting to know how to navigate this kink and maybe meet others but also value health and the body so much.
This exact situation seems to be fairly common. In fact a lot of people, myself included are going for a muscle chub look. Being healthy and being overweight doesn't necessarily have to be mutually exclusive. Keep up with your workouts like normal and continue to eat healthy foods, just increase the quantity of food you're eating. As long as you eat more than what you burn you'll eventually start to gain weight. If stuffing isn't you're thing just take a grazing approach. Keeps snacks handy around you and eat throughout the day. Gaining while staying healthy is slower but it's definitely possible
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Honestly I feel this daily, somewhere in the back of my mind my body still thinks I'm skinny. I work in a fairly small warehouse and since it was the end of the 1st quarter a lot of our vendors rushed out a bunch of product all at once to meet their quotas so there's a bit of backlog of boxes back there. And my little monkey brain keeps thinking I can walk between them easily but its really a squeeze.
Oh and also I managed to break the wheel off one of our rolly stools and that's the first chair I've broken in a while
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Occamslaser:
has anybody here ended gaining weight due to a medication they were prescribed?
There is a quiet part of me that hopes I'll end up on some med that makes me blow up lol
SumoSized:
There's quite a few of them that will do that, and some crazy people on here have tried taking them even though they're not prescribed but the side effects just aren't worth it. You're best just smoking weed for the increased appetite or alcohol for the slowed metabolism.
TheBoarInside:
Ironic to say crazy people when most of them are psych meds
I mean if you're prescribed psych meds for legitimate reasons then it's best you take them. But there's a different breed of crazy out there who take them for the love of the sport
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Jennacat:
Any advice on how to really start gaining? I feel like I have a hard time stuffing, I can’t eat as much as I thought and get full quicker than I want to. Therefore I can’t really gain. What should I do?
Ff won’t let me message so use kik?
There's a couple ways to help with this
1) capacity training, if you're just getting started eat to your max one day and then the next day try eating just a little bit more. It can be as simple as an extra serving at dinner, or just eating another snack after your stuffing. Try to eat more than you did previously and eventually you'll slowly build up your capacity but it does take time
2) go for more of a grazing method, just eat a bunch of food throughout the day and you won't feel as full and can fit more calories in. Personally this is my go to as after I'm stuffed I can't eat anything for a few hours and end up wasting calories
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Foxyfuzz:
I really don't want this fetish but even so I find myself always thinking about food, purely for the effect it has on making me gain weight. I used to eat nearly nothing per day, but suddenly I seem to just be eating whenever I'm slightly not full, and then eating again until I can't anymore.
It's definitely had an effect and I've outgrown most of my clothes, but I don't know if this is an entirely healthy method of doing this. Was wondering y'alls thoughts.
It's normal to feel conflicted when you're gaining especially if you started out on the thinner side. Id say write out a pros and cons list of reasons you enjoy gaining weight and reasons gaining might not be for you. You also don't have to gain a super huge amount of weight, you might find you're happier on the chubby side but being obese is pushing it for you. It's also possible to dip your toes in some and gain some weight and continue if you enjoy it or go back and lose it if it's not for you.
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Occamslaser:
has anybody here ended gaining weight due to a medication they were prescribed?
There is a quiet part of me that hopes I'll end up on some med that makes me blow up lol
There's quite a few of them that will do that, and some crazy people on here have tried taking them even though they're not prescribed but the side effects just aren't worth it. You're best just smoking weed for the increased appetite or alcohol for the slowed metabolism.
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Sarahishungry420:
Here's one for the Emetophiles
I have been bulimic since I was 9. I remember the first time I did it, I was so full but wanted another rice ball and 4th of july so I made myself throw up and it was like I unlocked a door that let me eat forever. But now at 31 Im dealing with some health problems. Im autistic so I like to binge eat but if I get overly full I can't keep it down anymore. I went to a brazillian steakhouse the other night for a friends birthday and got sick like 6 times every half hour i was running to the bathroom to puke what I just ate. I can't hold down large amounts of food anymore, even normal meals make me sick half the time. Im not doing it on purpose or to lose weight but I just can't hold binges down anymore and it makes me sad, but I was wondering if any guys were into Emetophilia and wanted me to record when I get sick/if stuffing to sickness is itself a fetish for anybody?
I don't have any first hand experience with bulimia so please take my comment with a huge grain of salt. But when I was skinny I would get physically ill whenever I ate a normal amount of food so I was constantly undereating. I ended up just having to take it slow and add a few more calories in each week to teach my stomach how to eat food. I'm afraid you might have to start over with teaching your stomach that lesson. Try to figure out at what point your body starts to reject food and stop eating. Give yourself a few hours to recover before you try snacking or eating a meal again. Try this for a couple weeks and then once your body gets used to it each week try to eat a few more calories per day than you did the week before. It's a slow process but it really helped me when I was struggling with body image issues when I was severely underweight
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Morbidly A Beast:There’s websites online that will do the calculations on how many calories you need to consume to maintain your weight depending on your size and activity level, so long as you exceed this threshold of calories you will gain weight. People say you need 2000 calories per day but that isn’t the math given somones relative size and activity level.
Your body will always burn x amount of calories and you need to exceed that to gain it’s really that simple, that X factor is your metabolism. There’s no trick, unless you have like metabolic or hormonal issues.
And yes it will change as your body changes but you’ll need more calories to maintain your weight at higher weights.
Should you wait? It’s up to you it can be expensive, but worth being a big fatty imo haha
It's called a TDEE calculator and they're invaluable to gaining weight when you have a fast metabolism. I used to think it was impossible because I was just thinking I needed to eat over 2,000 calories a day for the longest time. When in reality I needed to eat another 1,000 calories on top of that to gain weight. It's definitely possible to gain with a fast metabolism if just might take a bit longer and take quite a bit more food
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