Tonight was the first night in quite a few months that I've tried taking a bath and man it was relaxing but I can definitely tell my body has made a few changes in that time. For starters my arms used to rest comfortably at my sides but now they're pushed up by the sides of my belly. And making any sort of adjustments were a pain, I can be pretty indecisive whether I want to lounge more in the bath or sit more upright and every time I did that I had to be very careful not to flood the apartment. And don't even get me started on adjusting the water temperature. I recently discovered I am longer able to do a single sit up so leaning forward to reach the knob was a challenge. Once I'm able to afford a house getting a big bath tub is an absolute must. But who knows maybe I'll put grow that too...

I mean for the average person gaining takes quite a while so you'll have time to decide what's right for you. Maybe try relaxing your diet, don't intentionally overstuff yourself but try to eat more than you normally do. And see if you enjoy the extra padding. If you decide you do then keep going, and I'd you don't a few pounds shouldn't be hard to work off. Gaining isn't for everyone, but if you think you may enjoy it, it might be right for you

My goal is to skirt the line of immobility as much as possible. I have no idea what that weight would be, but I love idea of having some mobility problems but I don't want to be locked in my house forever either

Standing up after sitting on the floor. I have to do it daily at work and it's only gotten more difficult in the one year I've had this job. When I was skinny I could sort of just stand out without really supporting myself but now that I'm 240 lbs I have to use both my hands to leverage my weight off the ground. The one upside is I'm now more comfortable when sitting, before I was so boney it would hurt my hips if I sat on hard floors or concrete benches for too long but now I don't have that problem

Tacos definitely. There's a Mexican restaurant right across the street from my work that I'll go to for lunch. I guarantee several lbs of my gain are from them alone

I think consent is one importand factor but as such, it has limits. For example in my decision to do write in here was informed by one other factor, in addittion to OP's request. I explained this above.

About my take on rape, i might be ignorant of things, but i haven’t actually seen my take criticised (and i mean that, merely starting that its a shitty take isn’t really productive criticism)


My brother in christ do you know what consent means? I've been trying to be lurk in this thread because I figured I had more to learn from this thread than I had to contribute but my god do I need to respond to this. OP was not "arguing" anything. They were posing a discussion amongst women, trans women, nonbinary folks, and any other vulnerable group in the feederism community because as they said in their original post demographically they are more likely to be feedees and as such they need to stay safe from men who commit acts that are sexual assault and in certain cases can be comparable to rape.
Consent to anything feederism related is absolutely mandatory. Force feedings are a form of roleplay and should be seen as such. You are not literally forcing your partner to eat against their will, there should be a safe word involved and if the feedee or hell even the feeder feels uncomfortable they have the right to immediately stop and revoke consent. And secret feedings should be entirely off the table as there is zero consent involved.
There is no "both sides-ing" either of those things. Consent is required and that is what OP wanted to discuss with others in their particular position. Now considering we're both men and are not in any of the groups OP was addressing in their original post let's withdraw from the conversation and allow this forum thread to continue as it was intended to be.

I'm a male feedee so my experience may be different but I thought I'd still share.
For me I've put this kink to the side for relationships. I've never met anyone in real life whos into feederism. I've been with several women who preferred dad bods or bigger men in general. But that was just a preference thing, they weren't into feeding at all. I have also been in relationships were my partner put on "relationship weight" and they enjoyed that. But that wasn't really feederism either.
I'd say if you're having luck scoring dates with chubby or plus size women, pursue that rather than waiting for a ssbbw. Besides you may have better luck than I have finding someone who shares this kink and maybe one of them would like to get to that weight.

I honestly didn't know T could make you gain that much weight but that's amazing. Don't worry about others, it's not healthy to compare people's bodies anyway because everyone is different and everyone puts on weight in different ways and at different speeds. Just enjoy your rapid gain and how affirming it feels to you

I know this is a bit of a doomer post but with the whole situation in Iran seemingly bringing us closer to a war it's been on my mind. If the US outright declares war on Iran would obesity be considered a medical condition that could get you exempt from service? And if so what would the cut off be? Like at what weight would they say "oh they'll lose it in basic training" vs "this guy isn't even worth our time". I know a draft isn't very likely even if we do go to war, but it seems like in the last year or so the worst possible outcome for a lot of major events has happened. So my hopes for this situation aren't very high

You can always play around with inflation or just make stuffings an occasional thing. That way you keep your slim physique but you can still play around with a bigger belly when you want to. I've only ever played with inflation with coke and mentos and a cake shake. But I know air and water inflations are pretty popular too