I’m conflicted about gaining weight, was anyone else in my position, and how did things turn o

Bovine Princess:
I’m very conflicted about gaining weight. For context, I’m a bit chubby right now, not through intentional weight gain, and I’m not super fat. It feels like my desires are conflicting, on one hand, my fetishistic and sexual desires want me to get obese, but my nonsexual desires want me to get fit since I like being active. Plus I worry about fat ruining my face structure.

Was or is anyone else in my position? What did you decide? If you decided to go through with it, was it worth it? Any advice?

I say this a lot but being fit and being fat don't have to be mutually exclusive. They often are but if you take the right precautions you can still stay fairly active while gaining weight. Id recommend trying some weightlifting with a focus on lower body and core strength along with some cardio. If weightlifting isn't something you're interested in I definitely recommend hiking, it's decent cardio and depending on what the incline is like at your local state park it can be a really good lower body workout. Mind you, you will burn more calories going this route so you will have to eat more on average to gain at a decent rate. But that's up to you to decide if it's worth it or not
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Preparing to get fat

Serph:
Id say still continue lifting and maybe a little bit of cardio to carry the weight easier. There are many heavyset people that are crazy athletic despite their size so you dont need to completely abandon that.

JohnT:
I will suggest that to my nearly 600 pound wife, whose belly apron hangs down her knees as she waddles from room to room gasping for breath 🙄

Yes that would be a nice thing to suggest to her, since it seems like mobility is an issue for her. You don't have to lose weight to be healthier. It's possible to help her build up strength and endurance so she has an easier time navigating without the use of mobility aids. Obviously she's at the extreme end of the scale at 600 lbs so she's not going to be crazy athletic like Serph described. But as a loving husband you should want to help make her life easier
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How has your weight gain affected your mobility?


Big Belly Jim:
Good for you. I can't tell you much myself. I have always been big. So I wouldn't noticed much. Other than being out of breath going up stairs, haha

See I've always been really skinny so all of this is an entirely new sensation to md
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Am i missing out on disneyland/disney world?


Kitsune:
I will admit I never went on an intense ride ever in my lifetime. I do want to try one though. Maybe Space Mountain can be my first baby steps. Yeah, I think it turns out I am more of an atmosphere type of person. Hence why Tokyo Disneysea and Hong Kong Disneyland tickle my fancy. If only crowds weren't an issue because once again I get very anxious and fear of getting lost.

SumoSized:
Yeah the crowds are the biggest issue and I've heard they've only gotten worse. You basically have to pay extra for the fast pass system so you don't have to wait in crazy long lines

Kitsune2:
I partially watched a Defunct Disneyland video on that. (my attention span is short lol) If my memory serves correctly, doesn't the Fast Pass get used by a bunch of people to the point it causes more lines?

Honestly probably, there's no such thing as a quick anything at Disney parks. But fast pass is probably still faster than waiting in the normal line
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How has your weight gain affected your mobility?

SumoSized:
For me it's still fairly subtle but it was extra noticeable today. I work retail on weekends for some extra cash, it's not particularly difficult work and and it pays surprisingly well. Today was May the 4th and we had a big star wars promotion in the store. Star wars related items were on sale and people went nuts over them so the store was packed. It was a very tight squeeze to get between people, and i was struggling. We also were selling out of stuff crazy fast so I spent half my shift just walking back and forth from the stock room restocking shelves so my legs were killing me only a few hours into my shift. I also noticed that it's so much easier to completely sit down on the ground to restock lower shelves rather than just bending over.
So now I'm curious to hear other people's stories, how does your added weight affect how you get around in day to day life?

Big Belly Jim:
I worked retail for 8yrs, weight was generally around 280-300lbs. Sitting down to stock shelves was always much easier.

SumoSized:
It definitely is now, but it wasn't always. Before I'd just kneel down and place whatever I needed to on the shelves. But now that strains my back too much especially on busy days when I'm constantly walking back and forth to the stock room

Big Belly Jim:
Still have a quite a ways to go, haha. many get harder as you get bigger, haha

Oh definitely, I'm still planning planning on putting on another 100-150 lbs minimum. I just like to make these posts asking about people who have already gotten to my goal weight just so I know what to expect when I'm that size
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Feeder to feeder pipeline

Justin1998:
I was just curious if anyone has any experiences starting out as a feedee and getting more interested in the mutual gaining/feedee side of things? That should be be feeder to feedee in the headline*

That was definitely me, though I was really just a FA since I was a teen at the time and wasn't about to do any feedings. Then eventually it sort of clicked when I realized if I was attracted to others who wanted to gain weight, why don't I gain weight myself to see if I liked it. This was also around the time when I first heard other people talk about "dad bods" and I realized most of my friend group were attracted to guys who were on the chunkier side
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Am i missing out on disneyland/disney world?


Kitsune:
I will admit I never went on an intense ride ever in my lifetime. I do want to try one though. Maybe Space Mountain can be my first baby steps. Yeah, I think it turns out I am more of an atmosphere type of person. Hence why Tokyo Disneysea and Hong Kong Disneyland tickle my fancy. If only crowds weren't an issue because once again I get very anxious and fear of getting lost.

Yeah the crowds are the biggest issue and I've heard they've only gotten worse. You basically have to pay extra for the fast pass system so you don't have to wait in crazy long lines
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Am i missing out on disneyland/disney world?

Nofbar:
At least Disneyland has become a big disappointment for me lately. They keep ripping out the stuff I liked and what's left keeps getting stupider.

Kitsune:
Funny enough my dad went there circa the 80's and didn't have a swell time. His only best part was when Snow White winked a him lmao.

I skimmed thru the current Disneyland California rides and I will say they aren't as thrilling compared to the selection in other countries. By the way I like your wolf avatar.

I feel like you go to Disney parks more for the atmosphere than the thrills. The rides aren't super crazy (I'm a total coward and I don't like intense rides so that's actually a plus for me). But the aura the whole park has is fun. It's worth it if you're a big fan of Disney, but not really worth it if you're a thrill seeker

Also I haven't been to Disney in years so I don't know what the modern rides are, but if they're just based on the live action remakes it's probably dumb but idk
1 week

How has your weight gain affected your mobility?

SumoSized:
For me it's still fairly subtle but it was extra noticeable today. I work retail on weekends for some extra cash, it's not particularly difficult work and and it pays surprisingly well. Today was May the 4th and we had a big star wars promotion in the store. Star wars related items were on sale and people went nuts over them so the store was packed. It was a very tight squeeze to get between people, and i was struggling. We also were selling out of stuff crazy fast so I spent half my shift just walking back and forth from the stock room restocking shelves so my legs were killing me only a few hours into my shift. I also noticed that it's so much easier to completely sit down on the ground to restock lower shelves rather than just bending over.
So now I'm curious to hear other people's stories, how does your added weight affect how you get around in day to day life?

Big Belly Jim:
I worked retail for 8yrs, weight was generally around 280-300lbs. Sitting down to stock shelves was always much easier.

It definitely is now, but it wasn't always. Before I'd just kneel down and place whatever I needed to on the shelves. But now that strains my back too much especially on busy days when I'm constantly walking back and forth to the stock room
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How fast heavy cream will effct?

Lovergirl9834:
If you are going from smaller/more on the fit side with a goal of being very fat/gaining rapidly, heavy cream will just fill you up and sit there so you won’t be able to eat more. Put it in a shake, in desserts, in pasta dishes, in cakes, in your coffee, in oatmeal. I used to make a WG shake with a cup of HC, cake mix, appetite maximizer, and Ice cream and drinking that once a day worked wonders smiley

Munchies:
People don't realize some people use heavy cream for weight loss. It's all about how you use it.
I didn't realize it could be used that way, is it a meal replacement or what?
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