Bovine Princess:
I’m very conflicted about gaining weight. For context, I’m a bit chubby right now, not through intentional weight gain, and I’m not super fat. It feels like my desires are conflicting, on one hand, my fetishistic and sexual desires want me to get obese, but my nonsexual desires want me to get fit since I like being active. Plus I worry about fat ruining my face structure.
Was or is anyone else in my position? What did you decide? If you decided to go through with it, was it worth it? Any advice?
I say this a lot but being fit and being fat don't have to be mutually exclusive. They often are but if you take the right precautions you can still stay fairly active while gaining weight. Id recommend trying some weightlifting with a focus on lower body and core strength along with some cardio. If weightlifting isn't something you're interested in I definitely recommend hiking, it's decent cardio and depending on what the incline is like at your local state park it can be a really good lower body workout. Mind you, you will burn more calories going this route so you will have to eat more on average to gain at a decent rate. But that's up to you to decide if it's worth it or not