That’s such a sweet way to put it! I really appreciate hearing that, and it’s great to know someone embraces the beauty of a bigger body. I love being able to offer that feeling of comfort and security. It’s awesome that you’re into cooking and food, I’m all about enjoying meals without stressing about every little detail. Chubby bellies, thighs, and hips definitely come with a lot of softness and warmth, so I’m glad you find that cute!

I totally get where you’re coming from. As a fat guy who loves curvy women, I think it’s all about perspective. It’s funny how size and perception can shift depending on where we are. When I shop at big and tall stores, I feel right at home, but throw me into a mainstream store and suddenly I’m hyper-aware of my size. I think the feeling of being “looked down upon” in certain places like Lane Bryant or Torrid might come from the idea that we’re somehow being judged for not fitting into a particular category, even though these spaces are supposed to be inclusive.

At the end of the day, confidence is key, and being comfortable in your own skin, no matter the environment, is what really matters. We all deserve to feel good when we’re shopping, regardless of our size or where we fall on the BMI scale.

Dallas/Fort Worth, Texas here.

Hey there, I’d like to talk with a slim, slim thick, average or muscular female fat admirer in Texas, preferably in North Texas, but anywhere in Texas or the USA is cool too. I’m happy where I’m at with my weight right now, 450lbs. I’m 5’9 Mexican and have tattoo sleeves. I’m looking for someone to talk to, get to know and see where it takes us! Hope to hear from you soon!