Stayff55:
First of all, don't force it.
In the first case, the girl was short, so even a slight change in weight was immediately visible. She accidentally gained several pounds. When I discovered that I was into it, I told her straight. It was too much for her.
In the second case, the partner was already about 220 pounds and was 5'4". Before meeting her, she weighed about 150, but due to medical reasons her weight increased to almost 250 and then dropped to 220.
Her figure was extremely feminine and then I knew that I couldn't immediately tell her that I wanted her to be bigger. She was a foodie even though she didn't know it. I took advantage of this and tried to cook simple dishes, and on dates we went out to eat. Over time, when she gained a few pounds, I told her that I admired her figure. She thought I wanted her to lose weight. Her reaction when I told her that she was perfect but could gain weight if she wanted was priceless.
She had a talent for it - she liked to eat, and her metabolism made it very easy. After several dozen pounds, our paths diverged. In hindsight, I regret it because she was the only partner who knew so much about me, accepted it, and in return I accepted her.
Anm90p:
I hope you meet someone like that again and it works out for you 🙏🏼
Now it would be more interesting.
I myself went from being a feeder to being feedee.
The thought of gaining weight together is great. Especially when, for example, I am about 300 pounds, my partner is 150, and after 3-4 years I am the skinnier one.
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I am passionate about both fat and weight gain. But gaining weight as a process excites me more.
Body change, possibility of comparison before and after. Trying on small clothes.
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It's nice to read stories like yours.
I haven't weighed over 150 pounds most of my life. When I discovered the community, I made a few people fatter, and eventually I wanted to be bigger myself.
I gained my first pounds 8 years ago. In a few days I will double my starting weight. I wish the same for you.
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There are many calorie requirement calculators on the Internet.
Many factors influence our demand: age, health condition, height, body weight, physical activity, gender, etc.
Free calculators will probably require your weight, height, age and physical activity. When you calculate it, you will +/- know how many calories you need to maintain your weight.
Any additional calories above that may be stored as fat tissue, but this is information on separate topics.
Lifestyle and food culture obviously also influence how much and how you eat.
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It was similar for me. When I moved to another city and gained encouragement, my weight increased.
Although the first 4 years in another city didn't work right away.
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First of all, don't force it.
In the first case, the girl was short, so even a slight change in weight was immediately visible. She accidentally gained several pounds. When I discovered that I was into it, I told her straight. It was too much for her.
In the second case, the partner was already about 220 pounds and was 5'4". Before meeting her, she weighed about 150, but due to medical reasons her weight increased to almost 250 and then dropped to 220.
Her figure was extremely feminine and then I knew that I couldn't immediately tell her that I wanted her to be bigger. She was a foodie even though she didn't know it. I took advantage of this and tried to cook simple dishes, and on dates we went out to eat. Over time, when she gained a few pounds, I told her that I admired her figure. She thought I wanted her to lose weight. Her reaction when I told her that she was perfect but could gain weight if she wanted was priceless.
She had a talent for it - she liked to eat, and her metabolism made it very easy. After several dozen pounds, our paths diverged. In hindsight, I regret it because she was the only partner who knew so much about me, accepted it, and in return I accepted her.
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Every time I reach this state I tell myself: I won't do it again.
Then I forget and want to do it again.
In my case, I order takeout. I eat some in the car and the rest at home. By then I'm already full. I take any drink from the fridge: soda, plant milk or a drink from the order. I pour in as much as I can with a funnel - no more than a liter goes in.
After something like that, the rest of the day is a torture with the feeling that I'm going to be torn apart, and every movement makes me feel like I'm up to my neck in food.
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After gaining the first 35 pounds in three months, the weight stayed at that level for four years. Then another 10 and a half years break. After exceeding 200, the weight increases systematically. Soon 300.
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The accidental gainer (ex-jock)
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When I had a problem with acne, I noticed that giving up sweets for a while helps. It's an individual matter, what influences the appearance of acne more. I gave up sweets for a few years, even though I liked them.
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