Iwanttobefat4543:
Well I had a dream once where I was probably 400-500 lbs with a loving boyfriend that treated me well and kept me fed. I think I was shirtless.
Had a dream my partner was secretly fattening me up without me realizing it.
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Stockylove:
I have always been attracted to big people since birth. I feel like my brain is just wired that way, I am programmed to like "big" men. But when it comes to weight gain, I have a bit of an ambiguous relationship with it. I like big men, but I don't like them if they are too big or even obese, because when weight gain becomes too extreme, I know it can lead to serious health problems and even physical disabilities. I am more attracted to men who are similar to big rugby players (big but massive and muscular at the same time). I think there must be ways to gain weight in a healthy way without destroying your health and being athletic at the same time. I think I would feel too guilty if I had force-fed a fed and he found out he had serious health problems because of his weight gain and that I had contributed to it. I like feeding fat guys, and I have done it before. But for me, it should remain an occasional act and not something regular that could make him gain too much weight. I am turned on by men who have full bellies, who burp and who massage their bellies, not by gaining extra pounds. I have read very sordid and disturbing comments on grommr, from feedees who had sexual arousal to destroy their health and become handicapped by their obesity to the point of losing their physical autonomy and becoming dependent on others or their feeders, or comments from feeders who had sexual arousal to make the feedees fat, humiliate them and celebrate their first "heart attacks in the hospital" as if it were a birthday. In any case, weight gain is like all things, you have to know how to dose and be moderate I think. But I prefer not to take that risk. Especially for someone.
Munchies:
I feel like we feeders do not have this conversation enough. It's all about how fat you can make your feedee. Hardly anyone talks about the fear of hurting your feedee or the guilt that comes from a health scare.
Stockylove:. Feedees/Gainers/Feeders all have to talk openly about what each other wants out of their relationship.
Exactly.
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InForIt:
I have and received displeasure. Now live on my own and happy being me.
You’re a moment in time, make it a great one and one of happiness of being who you are.
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Sekul:
I personally find it arousing. I love to touch the soft fat on my wife's belly ( she hates being softer and thinks I'm weird for loving it ) and on my own belly. I love how it feels when my belly hangs over my belt when I sit. I still am having a hard time mentally with gaining more due to public acceptance. I did just get back from the store with some binge food and pizza!!
Pizza's done!
How sad we have to live in a society like this.
Yes, the stigma of being fat much less making yourself fat is one that messes up a feedee/gainers mind sometimes. Luckily most do what makes them happy by getting fat and or being made to get fat by a feeder partner.
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The answer has to do with how the body stores fat. When men gain weight, the default storage place is the belly. Think of it like the trunk of a car, said Dr. Zhaoping Li, director of the Center for Human Nutrition at the University of California, Los Angeles.
Just like people loading up a trunk for a picnic at the park, "You can put things there; no problem," Li told Live Science.
But if men eat too much and don't get enough exercise, then just like a jam-packed trunk, that belly space is going to run out of room, Li said. Once a man has a full potbelly, the body starts storing fat elsewhere.
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Title: MAKING ME FAT!
Jun 20, 2023 at 4:35 PM
“Ok. when I met my wife 2 years ago I was a very fit 150 I'm 5’8, six pac starting to show, since we’ve been married I have gained 35 lbs my wife openly admits she is trying to make me fat! Now she barters for things like, if I eat 3 cookies I get a 2 minute Blowjob or 5 cookies & 2 scoops of ice cream I get a 10 min back rub and a long BJ. I don't get it I want to look good for her. She said she wants me to be fat so that she looks better by comparison. I’m finding it harder and harder to resist her now and afraid I will get huge because of her using sex to entice me to gain weight.
“ MY QUESTION IS…Is she a feeder or just seriously vain? Perhaps she can’t admit to being attracted to fat.?
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BMI 26 now. Believe it or not I used to be 17 a few years ago before I got into gaining. Used to have 27 inch waist now its 40 inches. If I had a feeder partner I am sure id be pushing at least bmi 40 by now.
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Getobese:
4% of Americans have a fat fetish – making it one of the most common fetishes in the US.
*** 1 in 14 men has a fat fetish Thats (7%) ***
Munchies:
I'm curious as to how you found this out.
. Found it in various articles online.. Here is one link of a url that posted it.
bedbible.com/how-common-is-fat-fetish-statistics/
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Encourager Queer Guy:
I know it's quite common, I am just fascinated by that process and how it happens.
is there a specific incidence that triggers the switch or does it happen over time?
are there signes? is it easy to accept and adapt to the new lifestyle?
is the feeder/FA phase just a form a projection of what will eventually happen?
For me it was a combination of things that got me here. I remember as going to grade school and a classmate had an older brother that was very lean and from 4rd grade to 8th grade he slowly got FAT. I was amazed by it. Then I saw a FAT biker going down the street on a motorcycle and his jelly belly was jiggling. Those are moments burnt into my mind as a beautiful thing.
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Jboabfe:
I pretty much transitioned from fa to gainer. It’s been a process since the teen years, but early on was definitely afraid of getting fat, but admired it, enjoyed the pov content, and then tried some soft core stuffing. Been on and off as a gainer ever since then, I love the idea of getting bigger, finding new things that are more difficult, and just in general having more of that softness for myself. Can only admire it for so long before you need more….
I think many of us that were into fa that transition to gainer have the same story as you. I never ever thought that I would be the one that wanted to get fat or better yet be made to get fat by someone that wanted me to get fat.
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