Someguy98:
So I’ve always been a fan of fatter bodies, but for most of my life it’s been some the perspective of a feeder, but over the past couple years I’ve begun to fantasize more and more about me being the one getting fat. Has anyone else experienced this? I’ve always been super skinny and more or less fine with it but recently it’s like a switch flipped and kinda want to try putting on weight and gaining a pot belly.

Morbidly A Beast:
Congrats on accepting this part of yourself, that’s awesome hope you start enjoying it!

Part of me thinks that the feeder/fat admirerer to feedee/gainer is sexual imprinting from the fetish basically you want to fatten someone so badly you become the one being fattened, but also part of me thinks that deep down people like you always wanted to be fat but didn’t find it in themselves to let themselves go but did so vicariously through a feedee/fat person. It’s intresting for sure

Fivepointno:
You have also multiplied your fat cells so it’s tough to slow down once you start

Iwanttobefat4543:
Well I had a dream once where I was probably 400-500 lbs with a loving boyfriend that treated me well and kept me fed. I think I was shirtless.

Stockylove:
I have always been attracted to big people since birth. I feel like my brain is just wired that way, I am programmed to like "big" men. But when it comes to weight gain, I have a bit of an ambiguous relationship with it. I like big men, but I don't like them if they are too big or even obese, because when weight gain becomes too extreme, I know it can lead to serious health problems and even physical disabilities. I am more attracted to men who are similar to big rugby players (big but massive and muscular at the same time). I think there must be ways to gain weight in a healthy way without destroying your health and being athletic at the same time. I think I would feel too guilty if I had force-fed a fed and he found out he had serious health problems because of his weight gain and that I had contributed to it. I like feeding fat guys, and I have done it before. But for me, it should remain an occasional act and not something regular that could make him gain too much weight. I am turned on by men who have full bellies, who burp and who massage their bellies, not by gaining extra pounds. I have read very sordid and disturbing comments on grommr, from feedees who had sexual arousal to destroy their health and become handicapped by their obesity to the point of losing their physical autonomy and becoming dependent on others or their feeders, or comments from feeders who had sexual arousal to make the feedees fat, humiliate them and celebrate their first "heart attacks in the hospital" as if it were a birthday. In any case, weight gain is like all things, you have to know how to dose and be moderate I think. But I prefer not to take that risk. Especially for someone.

Munchies:
I feel like we feeders do not have this conversation enough. It's all about how fat you can make your feedee. Hardly anyone talks about the fear of hurting your feedee or the guilt that comes from a health scare.

Stockylove:. Feedees/Gainers/Feeders all have to talk openly about what each other wants out of their relationship.
Exactly.

InForIt:
I have and received displeasure. Now live on my own and happy being me.

Sekul:
I personally find it arousing. I love to touch the soft fat on my wife's belly ( she hates being softer and thinks I'm weird for loving it ) and on my own belly. I love how it feels when my belly hangs over my belt when I sit. I still am having a hard time mentally with gaining more due to public acceptance. I did just get back from the store with some binge food and pizza!!
Pizza's done!
How sad we have to live in a society like this.