100% normal.
There are people, like me, who do the opposite we don't eat.
Everyone experiences depression on another level. It's getting through the fog will help you feel better overall.
1 week
Pearl:
I am not disagreeing about the fact that physical attraction is part of intimacy. WhT i am getting at is the lack of consistency and transparency in how people are engaging on these sites.
A large number of users don’t actually provide any clear or recent photos of themselves upfront, yet still expect others to establish attraction early on or move conversations off-platform quickly. In contrast, many people do share content or photos openly, which naturally creates an imbalance in what each person is working with at the start.
That being said it is hard to establish mutual attraction as there can’t really be mutual if only one side is visible before expectations are formed. And when that visibility only happens later, on offsite chats/text mesages, it can understandably lead to mismatched expectations.
So it’s not about being “shallow” or claiming that people cant make life long connections on here. It's about keeping expectations realistic and realizing that the shift comes from people being taken advantage of because of the inherent unbalance mentioned prior. Additionally, there’s often an expectation that access to kink-related content, attention, or conversation should be freely available, while any form of monetization is criticized as “inauthentic” or “not genuine.” That creates a contradiction where one side’s effort and boundaries are dismissed, while still expecting full access to what they provide.
Pearl all of this is beautifully written and highlights so much about the community at large.
1 week
SnM4BDSMinFL:
Nowadays? Lots of people expect relationships to be transactional. Folks don't have hobbies, we have side hustles. Friendships have been replaced with follows. Communities are fragmented into echo chambers and filter bubbles. Quality of life is unafordable but we can pay $60 to have a stranger deliver some lukewarm hamburgers. We can talk to anyone anywhere yet we trust nobody, suspect everyone, and are more alone than ever.
This is what I am also referring to.
There have been some great points brought up. I personally have seen this site as the last beacon for this community. Dimmensions is gone and that was the beacon for decades.
Is everyone looking for deep meaningful connections here? Absolutely not. However, there is a lot of trust building and trust breaking on the internet. People have the right to be safe and post what they want. Photos or not, a lot in their bio or very little.
My original message was tailored after talking to members over the years about this site.
Back when the internet was born there was a much different approach. Yes transactional connections happened but not at the rate we're seeing today. Could be a culture thing, I don't know.
For the people who have wanted deep connection I have seen them leave. Too many broken hearts, or people not mixing with other personalities.
1 week
Yes to the safe word. It all has to be respectful and your friend should honor that. Maybe have a backup plan if you need to leave early if they are being pushy.
Public feedings, though can be hot, can be uncomfortable. Sometimes people stare but I have found most don't. Now if they mix in belly jiggling and roll bouncing that's when it will feel like a spotlight is on you two.
Stay safe but still try to have fun with this experience if you go through.
1 week
Over the past few years I've seen a gradual decline of people making connections and seen a larger uptick of connections only with paid benefits. More catfish/scammers/bots/hopeful models have joined recently more than ever before.
It seems like the site changes at will, randomly, and the community is no longer being taken into consideration for what kind of changes should come to this site.
These were big red flag downfalls for feabie and now we see what has occurred to that site today. A shell of its former self.
So are we there? What do we need to do to improve this space?
2 weeks
Nofbar:
I would love to eat like that.
BigBallBellyGirl:
I wish I could do this all the time, but I gain FAST. I would be a half ton by year's end!
Though no doubt your fun had impact on your waistline
2 weeks
For me it's 1 🤓
Contrast is a huge drive for entering a relationship with someone but should not be the only reason.
3 weeks
Ok this sounds great!
I have only heard of people unintentionally gaining at these and being scolded by the staff but cheered on by the community. Like they'll eventually lose the weight just some set backs.
Could always waddle into one of these eating some cheesecake on the go and swear you dropped 15lbs this week.
4 weeks
Kx500:
You are a lucky man.
Td0057:
As far as what people are interested in reading, I can only speak for myself but I would like a description of how she ended up gaining, her attitude as she gained, reactions from friends and family, if and when she realized you enjoy her growth and her reaction to that. Anything else you want to share would be great. Enjoy each other!
I just want to remind you, you just resurrected a dead thread, that you found some how, that has not been active in over a year, and the op account has not been active in over a year.
This is forum etiquette 101.
1 month
This was a show? I'm not recalling any tv show that had this premise.
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