Trauma (trigger warning)

There is a level to this.
I have seen depression can go into just about any category.

It's people in general who refuse to want to get out of that hole that can make this lifestyle difficult with a partner.
3 days

What made you realize you're into extreme obesity / immobility ?

FatVixen:
A bit after I got with my husband I knew I still wanted to be as big as I Could. It was a large reminder that hit me. One day when I had to go in the office. I went to the bathroom I saw some ones scooter at the door and walked past it. After I was done I went to wash my hands and I saw the largest women I've seen in person. I have neverver seen some one that wide before and her belly even contain was huge. Her gate was exstreamly heavy when she walked. She was dreses nicely and I complement my dress. She was so pretty and nice. I told her thank you and that her shirt was adorable and looked so nice on her. I could tell. she was wearing some thing of shape wear still she had to be. She was so flattered and had to let me pass to leave. As I was walking out I heard her pant abit she had to turn sideways to get through the door way.

It made me really think how much I wanted to be as large as I could be. 😉 it might have inspired some thoughts that helped me get through some hard times. Imagening being the massive office lady filling her cube and her hot fit stud boss sneaking her snacks on her desknon his breaks. Or getting to work from home and adventually filling the bed with my belly. None of my coeworkers knowing. As I just keep growing larger.


This sounds like the ultimate experience for an awakening of your perfect life. That's amazing!
5 days

Bbw cruises feederism cons

Beachside Farmer:
I think there was only one BBW cruise about 15 years ago. Never been a convention for Feedist. Kelly Kay was the only feedist model at a BBW convention in the 2010's. It didn't happen the next year.

Bellyempire:
Thank you. You know your stuff.


Here is the link to that interview-

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Must preserve it. Kellie Kay was near her heaviest here.
1 week

A skinny dude talks about his preference publicly

JN_TumLover56:
So I’m not sure where a topic like this would go. But I have been thinking, I think that I want to plan on doing a little bit of an essay towards my own personal preference in liking bigger women.

I know that some of you remember me and Munchies bashing heads about this for how I am so worried about myself on what others think. But now I feel almost motivated to publicly talk about in an essay-style presentation. As much as I’ll try to talk a bit about my own experience, I also want to do this right and be a bit more nuanced about it.

I’ll talk about things as to what got me into them, why I find them attractive and even talk a little bit about body positivity AND touch a little bit about the Feedism kink. As well as bring up some of the more deeper realities of the current social climate. This will no doubt be a pretty nerve racking thing that I’ll ever do but if someone isn’t going to do it… who else will?

Anyways if there is something that you’d like me to bring up or anything that would help me out that would be great! Also I’ll be sure to share it with everyone whenever I get to finish it.


Pretty sure Munchies left, unfortunately.

This can be your own blog post then.
1 week

Fat as a choice

JN_TumLover56:
As a dude who is into bigger women I can relate to say that it’s a bit of a pity that we’re getting into an era of the popularity of GLP-1s and how that we’re going back to the times of thinness is the pinnacle of health. Especially when I did felt like some people that I believed who embraced being plus size only to suddenly change and left some people feeling betrayed. Some people will argue that we got to this point BECAUSE of body positivity and how some also say that GLP-1s exposed some of the BP influencers as grifters. Especially now that it’s pretty much easy access for losing weight.

And look if some people have found their happiness from their weight loss either from treatment from a GLP-1 or not, then good on them I won’t shit on that.

Stevia:
Hey if it makes you feel better by any means… I’m still going to be around 200lbs. Even if want to be more healthier, I don’t ever see myself being stick-thin. If that’s what someone wants, cool but if not that’s also cool. We all should choose what we want to be regardless if others think that it’s wrong.


Thank you for planting firm on the couch and enjoying your snacks.
1 week

Bbw cruises feederism cons

Beachside Farmer:
I think there was only one BBW cruise about 15 years ago. Never been a convention for Feedist. Kelly Kay was the only feedist model at a BBW convention in the 2010's. It didn't happen the next year.

Bellyempire:
Thank you. You know your stuff.


Lol I have researched a lot. Kellie Kay did a podcast interview for Sin City Bounty (Las Vegas fat positive radio show) years ago. You can find that episode on YouTube taken from the convention floor.
1 week

Bbw cruises feederism cons

I think there was only one BBW cruise about 15 years ago. Never been a convention for Feedist. Kelly Kay was the only feedist model at a BBW convention in the 2010's. It didn't happen the next year.
1 week

I'm retiring!

Mysteriousraven:
As a female, just gonna leave this here:

I like big guys. Always have, always will! Females into bigger guys exist. We are rare, but we are here!

I just wish more of the lovely men I've met on here that i click well with lived closer. While id eventually like a relationship, i’d be just as grateful to get to chat and be friends with them.
It has been so refreshing, and i mean really refreshing to have met men on here that are kind/caring, compassionate, respectful/considerate, and gentle. If i was able to be in a relationship with one of those gentlemen id consider myself greatly blessed.

OP i hope you take a short break to heal. the search can be exhausting, and have negative things occur, and im sorry that those things did happen. While you dont need a partner in life to be happy, I hope you do continue your search and find someone for you! Wishing you the best of luck!

(Please excuse the grammer. Its late as i type this)


Anyone who claims they can't find someone, refer back to this user. A beautifully written response.

Maybe on these spaces it's "difficult," but I see more thinner women with bigger guys out and about than thinner men with bigger women. It's more common than you think.
2 weeks

Followers list missing

FeedMeCakex:
I can see the recommendations - not something that adds value for me personally but I can see how others might like it.

I still prefer seeing my followed accounts at the top and tbh I think having the recommendations at the bottom is a wasted opportunity because most users will miss seeing it unless they scroll to the bottom of their feed 🤔


100% this. This current rework is not mobile friendly at all. Most users will not scroll to the bottom to see their followers let alone recommendations.

I thought the work this year would have been to modernize chat, as what was reported to us members. These other changes probably could have waited until Chat was fully finished.
3 weeks

Stoned fat whore

100% normal feeling
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