Koth fandom rant

I won't disagree that the new season has me leery. But at the same time I think this fandom can be TOO serious over a cartoon. :/ Not to mention the hate on Connie who is few of my favorite characters. I just want to start a brawl with that one Redditor who called her a "enm whore." imgur.com/lews-therin-celebrating-after-sealing-bore-nZwmoGw

Yeah, just don't go on r/kingofthehill for the sake of your mental health. I predict someone will say "but a lot of fandoms are toxic!" I won't deny that statement. But I am just surprised to see so much toxicity over a slice of life comedy. And no I am not just referring to the new season.

Unfortunately, I've had bad apples kind of ruin my love of my interests. Such as Littlest Pet Shop and Dear Evan Hansen. Learned the hard way that you don't always need a community to enjoy your favorite pieces of media. Just watching videos (without reading the comment) or looking at fan art is fine enough.

I guess I will regret writing this post. I just wanted to let off some steam. Hopefully Friday is a better day.
15 hours

A kink you have that you bet no one else has?

I don't consider this a fetish but I will say I find it sexy whenever I scratch a boyfriend's back and he enjoys the sensation. Unfortunately, me and my man are in a LDR so it's a fantasy for now. At least I've done it once with a previous guy.
1 day

Having trouble fattening my feedee, she is willing to do content to pay for it

I hear the grass isn't greener on the other side in regards to selling porn content. I guess it's fine if for side income but if for main income then it might impact your guys' mental health and maybe relationship.

Besides, it sounds like your partner is reluctant even if she says yes to it. Not to mention it seems like this was your idea and you sound desperate to do it right away. Please don't force her into this. I know times are tough right now but I doubt this hobby is the answer to pay bills.
2 days

A kink you have that you bet no one else has?

I feel like I am fixated on buckles on fat men. It just makes the midriff more sexy. Not to mention a fat man unbuckling his pants after being so full. I assure some Homer Simpson scenes that involve that scenario was the root to my turn on.


I imagine some other people are into this as well but I don't know if there is a specific name for this kink. I guess it overlaps with weight gain/stuffing.

Edit: I got turned on when I saw that gif I sent!
2 days

Think about it

Luisafer:
I think it would be better to delete my account, bye.

Enas:
Why are you telling us this, here in the forums?

What are you trying to acomplish? Do you want people to give you advice on if you should do it or not?
Honestly, I wouldn't be surprised if people leave because of bad apples like you.
6 days

Think about it

Whatever is best for your mental health. I often delete my account but come back anyways due to the lack of fat space websites and I have some friends on here. I will admit it can be a toxic community but at the same time I do like lurking on here and chatting with individuals.
1 week

No more shoes to tie

I still don't know how to tie my shoes so yes. I solely (pun intended) wear boots, flats, and sandals.
1 week

Ladies safety (trans welcome)

Stuffytummywriter:
still, props for trying! it's important!

The way to go i feel, if you have the energy to try again, is a discord server or some such with the ability to moderate who joins and/or who stays.

Men, much like small children, have not yet learned to self-regulate, so they need strict and impermeable barriers. Some will eventually learn and won't need the barriers anymore. They'll realise they can play with the 1000000 other toys available to them instead of throwing a tantrum over the one that they can't have right now. Or make their own toy just for themselves if they are jealous, instead of destroying the one someone else made.

Really really tired of men not respecting my boundaries and then acting offended when i say sth

Munchies:
The trans men tend to get it what with growing up as AFAB. Enbies tend to get it as well.

One thing that frustrates me is the whole "Boys will be boys" mindset. It absolves men of their agency to be better.

And they can be better. I've seen it. It makes the ones that choose not to be better look terrible.

Enas:
Its not just the "boys will be boys" but the entier culture that just screams narcissism all the time. Even the women who themselves say "I want a bad boy" are helping perpertuate this

ArcticVixen:
I think you are misinterpreting the expression. "Bad boy" is a Western (usually American) trope where a guy in a piece of media is rebellious and seems cool. Such as the characters in the musical Grease. en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bad_boy_archetype

No woman wants to be in a abusive relationship.

Enas:
There is no problem in clasifying even the Nazis as "bad boys", based on what the archetype entails. The two are not contradictory in any way. They posed as rebelious (note the word posed) and, at least in their time, many people considered them as very cool.

And i dont think there is someone who wants to be in an abusive relationship, but it might be the case that people dont always recognize abusive behavior as such, at least not until its too late and they are already trapped.
Unfortunately, you have guys like that who mask themselves as "nice" to lure in victims. I've been groomed by a man in his forties who was those macho types and acted nice at first.

Even when you sent me your horny messages in a DM on my old account I thought beforehand you wanted to have a casual conversation instead of that. It's sometimes hard to recognize red flags when predators hide them very well.
1 week

Ladies safety (trans welcome)

Stuffytummywriter:
still, props for trying! it's important!

The way to go i feel, if you have the energy to try again, is a discord server or some such with the ability to moderate who joins and/or who stays.

Men, much like small children, have not yet learned to self-regulate, so they need strict and impermeable barriers. Some will eventually learn and won't need the barriers anymore. They'll realise they can play with the 1000000 other toys available to them instead of throwing a tantrum over the one that they can't have right now. Or make their own toy just for themselves if they are jealous, instead of destroying the one someone else made.

Really really tired of men not respecting my boundaries and then acting offended when i say sth

Munchies:
The trans men tend to get it what with growing up as AFAB. Enbies tend to get it as well.

One thing that frustrates me is the whole "Boys will be boys" mindset. It absolves men of their agency to be better.

And they can be better. I've seen it. It makes the ones that choose not to be better look terrible.

Enas:
Its not just the "boys will be boys" but the entier culture that just screams narcissism all the time. Even the women who themselves say "I want a bad boy" are helping perpertuate this
I think you are misinterpreting the expression. "Bad boy" is a Western (usually American) trope where a guy in a piece of media is rebellious and seems cool. Such as the characters in the musical Grease. en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bad_boy_archetype

No woman wants to be in a abusive relationship.
1 week

Is anyone here an engineer?

ILuvChubbyChix:
Why are you interested in a degree in mechanical engineering? What do you hope to get from it?
I would write a long thesis about my situation and reasonings. But I am too tired from my job that gives me a paycheck that I shouldn't worry about, according to your beliefs.

Even though it's not very stable and screws up my mental health to the point I am willing to risk spending money on tuition to a more promising career path with better benefits and stability. Also least likely to be automated unlike fruit processing.

However, since you seem to infantilize me from past discussions and don't think I am capable of re-learning a field of study. I might as well just throw my hands up.

P.S If I do actually become a engineer. I can create some Doofenshmirtz-inator device and use it to steal all of your state's oil rigs. That way my state will have cheaper gas and more job opportunities. Then maybe you will be in my shoes for once.
1 week
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