There are very, very, very few feeders that are women. Even less looking for a real feederism relationship. Even less that are single. Even less that also use social media.

The overall number is so low as to almost be not worth mentioning.

Good luck.

We broke up. Simple as. They wanted to take the only thing that genuinely made us feel good and sentence us to a life of anhedonia. They didn't love us for being us. They viewed it as a thing to fix about us.

So we ended the relationship. Not much other choice.

Not getting in another relationship unless what we want is on the table.

Orexigenic compounds tend to be related to elements of brain chemistry. Most things of this nature must permeate the blood-brain barrier to have an effect on appetite. As a result, most orexigenic compounds are controlled substances.

Sugar or sweetness while eating is known to enhance already present appetite, but its effects are limited. As does exercise, but we get why people are against that one here. X P

As a result we have little to offer. Unfortunately, gaining is a difficult science to quantify.

The best thing to do for digestive throughput is maintain the health of gut fauna. Chewing more, eating/drinking yoghurt, getting leafy greens and legumes in the diet, these will all help as these all increase the health of the biome in general.

A controversial but true fact is that alcohol kills bacteria, so drinking less hard liquor will help, as well. It also keeps the liver from being taxed as hard, as alcohol is also metabolised via the liver. It is also good you have a doctor who, though conflicted, is helping you practice safely.

Yeah, smoking cannabis can be rough on the lungs, which is why we suggested edibles. Vapes and other tinctures are probably not much better than smoking, because its still resin in the lungs. Unfortunate that concentrates rough you up, but also if you can ask for CBD heavier mixes that might help with that!

Our goal is the same, to go for the really extreme limits, so we have done our diligence in our research.

We don't have experience taking them, but we do have knowledge of how they are used and what they do.

We always, always caution against using prescription medications for appetite stimulation, for multiple reasons.

1. Calories in does not necessarily mean you actually digested them. So increasing digestive throughput and capacity is far more important than increasing the raw amounts of food you eat. The two medications you listed do not help with this specifically.

2. 1st generation anti-histamines, like the cyproheptadine, are known to potentially result in liver problems. These problems are made more likely by and exacerbate the state of Fatty Liver. Fatty Liver is a real concern with extreme, long-term gaining. Complicated even further by the fact that Megace is also metabolised by the liver. Do be incredibly careful here. This tri-combo can be deadly.

C. Cannabis exists, can be consumed via edibles rather safely with very little negative side-effects, and is known to have the orexigenic properties you seek. If you are already acquiring prescriptions, this is likely way easier to get and cheaper.

This is not everything, nor are we a doctor, nor are we saying you shouldn't continue. But we highly recommend caution, care, and alternatives if you can find them in the future. If you wanna go all the way, then know it is a marathon, not a sprint, and trying to sprint there leads almost always in not making it as far as you want. Being generally healthy aside from overconsumption will get you a lot further than seeking a weight gain pill.

Always nervous about these topics being discussed so flippantly because so many cartoons center around underage characters, people get parasocially attached to them, and then never outgrow that parasocial attraction.

The amount of May from Generation 3 Pokémon we see in art is disturbing, considering her canonical age is like 11 or 12.

We discovered ours via the oekaki board artist woot, who drew adults, for adults, in a space we should not have been around, when we were somewhat young. So unlike many people who discovered things through cartoons or drawings, the drawings we initially attached to were *of adults.* So we didn't have this specific qualia, but observe it everywhere.

It's totally fine to acknowledge the origin, but a lot of people actively maintain the connection well past where it is appropriate, a lot of the time.

The fact is this isn't a dating site so much as a fetish appreciation site. So it will always be different, as long as that identity is maintained. Dating is part of that, and why Kita is here personally, but it isn't the totality.

It could be made more clear to newer users that this is not explicitly a dating site. It has functions to facilitate it, but that isn't what it is for.

Part of why Feabie has become such a toxic space is that it is essentially a Dating App/OnlyFans Clone combo. That is where the problems come from. As to how they emerge those problems? Well, they allow a financial incentive to exist within their P2P framework. Users can use the site to engage with feederism from a distance and covertly.

Kita is of the opinion that this covert-ness is the source of the issue, and why we say people need to just learn to deal with the shame in a more healthy way. Being open and proud of the kink, and making spaces where it can be a source of pride (and thus not something to be always hidden and taboo) would do a lot to curb things like beggers and scammers.

Shame is the community killer. Telling people to hide it encourages the shame. People are gonna judge the fetish, that's reality, but resisting and spiting that judgment is way healthier for your mind than acquiescing to the judgment. Kita's perspective as an illeic speaker and a transwoman inform this opinion. Are we mistreated? Yes. But those people are *bad people* for doing so to us. It is much the same with this.

Looking for real, functional advice or experiences about caring for barely mobile to immobile fat people. Not fantasy, actual, real advice.

Not a feeder, but we want to have resources for if we ever find a feeder, unlikely as it is. Have read through the backlogs, and there is some, but a proper compilation of tips via this thread would be nice.

Our goal is immobility or bust, so this would be incredibly helpful for us. We also want to be able to better invision our daily life at that size to prepare in what ways we can.

People make accounts, then delete them or get banned.

That's a liiiittle bit of an exaggeration. The hunger is definitely controllable. It is persistent, tho.