So it goes.. it's a tricky business, finding this in real life. Realistcally, most need to be willing to relocate to have a chance.
My real life experiences have been purely as a feeder, but only because I've not had options.
One thing I've noticed about encouraging a voracious appetite in a feedee is the unfortunate tendency to eat through all the food available and run out, heh.
Morning FF, another day where science works... anecdotal local weather evidence disproving climate change, my butt.