Why "should" you be confident? If you are you are, if you're not you're not. There is no should
You make it very clear in your profile what you like and what you don't, so a comment like that is very thoughtless.
Take a look at the name of the site, theres plenty of fat women here get told to get fatter, no difference.
Anyone that makes restrictions on hair, end up in the stew. Somethings are not to be messed with.
eliz, will you write me a fat note, excusing me from helping with domestic duties at home?
