I'm assuming you've tried finding somebody and slowly introducing them to it. In my experience people who identify themselves as LGBT are usually pretty open minded
Why do my shouts shout twice lol?? So weird. Anyway, oops I misread..but cali sounds like an amazing destination for you to see an ocean for the first time!
LOL! I hope that's a good thing. I don't think I want to fatten up..for the right woman maybe but I get a lot of people here and on youtube wanting to stuff/fatten me lol