I think it's fun how they break caucasians down into regions. Irish, dutch, german, etc. But for blacks, it's always African-American no matter what country they are from.
Good for you Angie. Whatever works for you is what I say. I'm not perfect either, in fact no human being is. Anyone that says they are would be flat out lying.
Fatgirlangie..I grew up in the south, and have been to your home state. Seen many of good looking men with large ladies. But I suppose it's a matter of finding them.