Aronius, honestly it sounds like you are conflating some specific example of a messed up situation with women in general.
My feeling is, real feeders looking to seriously fatten someone do it in person. Having done that, online seems so.. bland.
I agree with that, plumplittlebabe. One just has to try and keep that in mind, in the meanwhile.

It's not easy to find someone brave enough to start a real in person relationship here, whether a man or woman.
If you're a feedee or feeder anywhere near Virginia who is open minded about polyamory, you should say hi to me.

Just throwing it out there, I'd really love to get to know a feeder, particularly one who is poly friendly.

If there are any female feeders out there this evening who'd like to talk to someone new, just say hi.
