If you want to meet people here, best bet is to get close to a large metropolitan area... higher population density = more feedists.
I'm pretty sure NC and Virginia are both at the very low end of the list when it comes to states that have active FF members
Don't suppose any of you feeder ladies are anywhere near Virginia Beach? Or able/willing to travel, for the right. feedee?
Allow me to put out there that it's not most guys here who are flakey time wasters... it's most people.