I use to care about being liked in this community but I don't anymore. After being on TV more than a few times, trying show the real beauty in feederism its impossible. It's so many fakes an people ruining it u just can't get any ground. I was guilty of ruinning this beautiful, fragile community at one point. This is why I feel I can talk about this. I was thinking or practicing feederism in a unhealthy non logical why which gives feederism a bad look. I was going after every bbw ,ssbbw, or girl with a little belly I seen. Just out of control not realizing it made me look bad an the community I loved. Just like every girl that is plus size not proud of it or into gaining. It also needs to be said ladies just cause u plus size done mean u should be faking being proud or into feederism fir the $$. That's why u have all these models on my 600lbs life. They seen the easy money faked until they started gaining even more on top of taking these fans money because they believe they supporting a real feedee only too see them on tv crying blaming the community. Then stop letting these feedees tell yall u need prove to them u real by supporting them. Stop that is ur hard earn money u giving them if anyone need prove something its the feedees (male or female). Yes I believe feedees should get paid especially if they serious this lifestyle is expensive. But don't be expected just because u say u gaining have some proof . Not pic for 5 years ago when u was small but u big now but ain't gain since then an its been 5 years after that. I just saying things need be more equal then so many feeders won't be getting scammed. Im not liked because I'm only one that will say this. But must feeders are thinking it. Feeders protect ur hard earned money more u don't owe nobody anything if they choose to live thus lifestyle its a choice.

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