In the way..

I thought a lot of women got waxes?

I really know nothing on the topic, but I wanted to encourage you to hopefully find a way. It shouldn't be enough to put you off gaining if you want to gain smiley
9 years

Bouncing back after bad dates

DoctorHarleenQ wrote:
Soooooo all of the dates I've had all ended badly. Part of that was me, part of that was the partners I picked. Now I'm in a place where I could make a fresh start, but I feel like I've been held back by being afraid to repeat the same mistakes.
Add in the fact that I'm a fat panromantic demisexual, and my dating pool is well... smaller.
I'm sorry for complaining, but I've tried to explain this to my real life friends and they don't get it.
Do any ladies or any size have any tips?
Give up being a fat panromantic demisexual. I have no idea what that even is but maybe ditch the labels and just go on dates.

Maybe even go on dates with people you never would end up dating long term. I guess that's cruel to them. But sometimes you can be a bit selfish in life. Treat it like a practice job interview. Without the pressure or expectation I think you could find you get your confidence back
9 years

Favorite things that fas do?

Fawkesy wrote:
This thread has just made me so sad to be single >_<
I've only been in one relationship with an FA but i loved the spooning and belly rubs from behind, although it was always me nearly falling off of the sofa so it wasn't always relaxing as it should be.
I also loved the full body massages, front and back smiley but he only ever did it once or twice smiley

Just a general love of my body is awesome and i miss it.
Now your message Fawkesy has made me sad to be single as well! And wishing to be with you! Oh to be in the UK
9 years

Nz! feed me in wellington?

Please come for a holiday to Melbourne! Just a short trip smiley

I bet your friends would be shocked at how tubby that tummy is getting. They'd probably say something like wow your hair looks good, all the time staring at how soft and round your belly has become!
9 years

Trip to the weight loss centre

CaPheSuaDa wrote:
this sounds like more fun than going to the movies ;D! in fact i'd love seeing a scene like that in a movie.
how did you manage to keep up a straight face?? you think she sensed you were not entirely serious about it? smiley
Keeping a straight face was pretty easy. Society is so filled with people getting told to lose weight i just pretended. And yeah I think she thought she had a customer
10 years

Trip to the weight loss centre

So today with the day off I decided to go the weight loss centre because I find that kind of thing fun.

So free of charge and with no obligation I walked in off the street. Except I had planned this a bit. I was wearing a normal pair of shorts but a tight tee shirt I wouldn't usually wear. Thus giving my a nice outline of my growing belly.

The lovely lady (and she was younger and much prettier than some of the womem who usually work in these places) took me in for a consult.

She asked about my weight gain and I told her how I'd been slowly putting on some pounds for the last few years but had been feeling particularly chubby for the last few months.

She nicely weighed me at an impressive 120 odd kg (around 270lsmiley and took my height and waist measurements. I asked her again to show me where my waist was again so she could get a good look at feel of my tummy. My waist is now comfortably over the healthy limit and my BMI is over 30

I told her my exercise level and she assured me I just must be eating way too many calories.

She's ready to book me in but of course i wont be signing up to lose weight and eat low energy foods.

She asked me my pants size and thought i'd be a 38. I told her I was a 40 when really im a 42 these days. She said it must be hard shopping in fancy shops, and of course it is which is why I stay right away from those places and dress for comfort.

It was a great visit and then I finished it off by going to get a big lunch

Thoughts?
10 years

Calling out the skinny guys!

I'm skinny right? Oh wait maybe not haha
10 years
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