Tubby Marie:
Where you fat when you met your spouse? How much have you put on? Is your spouse ok with weight?
When we first met, my wife was around 120 lbs and I was 165 lbs. As the years went by our love for good food, wine etc. led to a constant but unintentional increase. Now she's around 185 lbs and I am 230 lbs. So together we have put on an average female's weight so far (with a 54% increase she's the "winner" though compared to my 39% weight increase ;-) ). We both love to tease each other about how fat we have become, but we both like the extra weight and the extra softness it created. As is the case with you, there are a number of far more important subjects in our relationship than weight / weight gain though...
