Malvineous


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Malvineous 2 months
Why are so many discussions getting locked?
Huh, you must have really misunderstood me.

I never compared myself to you, nor assumed we have a similar experience online, nor insinuated that everyone else should feel the same as me abou...
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Malvineous 2 months
Why are so many discussions getting locked?
Munchies:
Are you in community with any minority groups? I am genuinely curious.[/quote]

I'm Jewish, bi, and diagnosed on the spectrum. Yes, I've been on the receiving end of anti-Semitic and ...
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Malvineous 2 months
Why are so many discussions getting locked?
If someone is being overtly hateful and targeting other members, then yeah, that kind of response is totally warranted. Guys like that deserve it. I do recall seeing a case like that in the past wh...
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Malvineous 2 months
Why are so many discussions getting locked?
Ok, but you're explicitly violating TOS. What you're saying might be true for disorganized communities, but not here. This isn't society at large, and this isn't a place for internet activism. ...
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Malvineous 2 months
Why are so many discussions getting locked?
It's everyone's responsibility to keep discussions civil on the internet, not just the moderators. If someone is being an asshole or bigot, it's not your job to police the discussion, confront them...
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Malvineous 6 months
Dating women without physical attraction?
@BustingButtons

I think you're giving him a rather uncharitable interpretation. I don't see it the same way.



You're right that you shouldn't assume sex will happen after a date, but that'...
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Malvineous 6 months
Dating women without physical attraction?
Yes, I do use the word "some" to mean a minority or undetermined number of examples that is not indicative of the group. The problem is, that's not the idea I want to express. That's a differen...
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Malvineous 6 months
Dating women without physical attraction?
Ok, here are two articles that each cite multiple studies on what women find attractive in men.



I haven't been explaining to women how women work. I've been giving my thoughts on gendere...
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Malvineous 6 months
Soft feeding ideas
Making love while hand feeding them can be gentle.
If you include stuff outside the home, there are some fun feedee date ideas.
Fast food crawls, where you order something at every drive-through ...
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Malvineous 6 months
Dating women without physical attraction?
I'm not sure that "some" communicates what I want it to, because it's just an indeterminate number. For example, some people shower daily. Some people have walked on the moon. There's no indica...
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Malvineous 6 months
Dating women without physical attraction?
Yeah, I agree that there are degrees of shallowness like you said, but I was asking to find out what is the bare minimum for someone to be considered shallow at all in your view?
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Malvineous 6 months
Dating women without physical attraction?
Wait, so what's your definition of shallow then? Is it being attracted to any physical characteristic or having any fetish?



That all depends on how rare your preferred partner is. It's p...
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Malvineous 6 months
Dating women without physical attraction?
The point I was trying to make is that in general, it seems like men have a narrower list of qualities that they find sexy in a partner, while women generally have a wider range of things they ...
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Malvineous 6 months
Dating women without physical attraction?
Of course, it's the same way for men too. Attraction alone can't be a base for a relationship, because personality and life goals matter much more when you're eventually going to live together....
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Malvineous 6 months
Dating women without physical attraction?
I wouldn't either. I personally don't think someone is shallow if they lose attraction to their partner. Munchies said that.



I don't treat groups like a monolith. I understand that a gro...
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Malvineous 6 months
Dating women without physical attraction?
Shallowness is seen as a bad thing, it's considered a character flaw. Maybe you didn't mean it that way, but when someone points out another's flaws with such direct language, it's always going...
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Malvineous 6 months
Dating women without physical attraction?
Ok, so there are only 3 viable options that I see for you.

1. Leave feedism in the realm of fantasy only. If you stopped looking for feedees, I'm sure that you can find a normal BBW. I guara...
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Malvineous 6 months
Dating women without physical attraction?
Honestly, I still think this is your best option. It may be worth examining why it didn't work for you and what you can do differently, rather than giving up. Here's what you can do if you're r...
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Malvineous 6 months
Dating women without physical attraction?
I think that for most men, physical attraction to some degree is a prerequisite for developing a romantic connection in the first place. You may enjoy the company of a thin woman with a great perso...
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Malvineous 6 months
Mtf transition: the solution for some male fas?
"I myself was not particularly autogynephilic at the beginning"
Timeline doesn't matter. Not everyone has the experience of discovering their "true sexuality", many people genuinely start as one t...
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