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Malvineous
6 months
How to meet people online when you're an introvert
Very true, I forgot to mention that. They could be having a bad day from work and want to be left alone. They could be asleep, and then your message gets buried in their inbox. It could have no...
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Malvineous
6 months
Mtf transition: the solution for some male fas?
Oh boy, where do I even begin?
Your claim that all straight men have autogynephilia deep down is just completely absurd projection. I promise you they don't. It's wild that you suggest transition ...
Your claim that all straight men have autogynephilia deep down is just completely absurd projection. I promise you they don't. It's wild that you suggest transition ...
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Malvineous
6 months
Red pill or blue pill ?
Red pill feeder here.
Back when I was in high school, I probably would have said blue pill, but I've since come to realize that having a fetish is a major enhancement to your sex life. It allows f...
Back when I was in high school, I probably would have said blue pill, but I've since come to realize that having a fetish is a major enhancement to your sex life. It allows f...
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Malvineous
6 months
Therapist telling me to lean into a unhealthy lifestyle because it makes me happy
I've been to therapy for depression before. The impression I got is that it's ok to be where you are right now, because you didn't choose to struggle with these problems. If you beat yourself up ov...
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Malvineous
6 months
How to meet people online when you're an introvert
I'm also an introvert that used to have terrible social anxiety. Here are some of the things that worked for me.
- Don't hesitate to send the first message. If you understand that people enjoy h...
- Don't hesitate to send the first message. If you understand that people enjoy h...
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Malvineous
6 months
I talked to an ai chat bot about "taking the plunge" into weight gain
I tried talking to it as a feeder, and it was having none of that. It kept ignoring my wishes and trying to push me into gaining weight. It even offered to be my feeder, lol. I think you may have m...
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Malvineous
7 months
Consensual... abuse?
I did read the whole thread. Personally, I'm not convinced that OP meant what you suggest, since he wasn't clear about that being every aspect of his life, only the sexual dynamic. OP specifica...
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Malvineous
7 months
My dreams and desires have changed since i gave in
I'm curious to know what specific changes you made in your life to enjoy things again. A lot of people seem have difficulty doing that. (Even outside of kink)
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Malvineous
7 months
Consensual... abuse?
Forgot to add this, but Goreans really go the extra mile with eye contact restrictions, certain speech requirements, and even specific body postures when sitting or kneeling. Every moment is microm...
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Malvineous
7 months
Consensual... abuse?
While I agree with many of the points you made, I have to disagree with the overall message, as it sounds discouraging. I've seen a lot of posts on Fetlife of people saying how they made a 24/7 B...
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Malvineous
10 months
Malvineous
1 year
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i am straight, yet turned on by the male gainers.
In addition to what everyone else has said, I think you should know that being "mostly straight" is completely valid, and a lot more common than you'd think.
In a 2013 survey for the National He...
i am straight, yet turned on by the male gainers.
In addition to what everyone else has said, I think you should know that being "mostly straight" is completely valid, and a lot more common than you'd think.
In a 2013 survey for the National He...
Malvineous
1 year
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throwing myself out there…
Ugh, I wrote out this great response that addressed every point Wat made, but there were so many points raised that I can't edit it down to fit in the character limit, lol. The TLDR is that most of...
throwing myself out there…
Ugh, I wrote out this great response that addressed every point Wat made, but there were so many points raised that I can't edit it down to fit in the character limit, lol. The TLDR is that most of...
Malvineous
1 year
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throwing myself out there…
You're listing off all of these negative personality traits, and maybe there's some truth there, but I don't think they're as bad as you say. Depression has killed all of your self-esteem, and so y...
throwing myself out there…
You're listing off all of these negative personality traits, and maybe there's some truth there, but I don't think they're as bad as you say. Depression has killed all of your self-esteem, and so y...
Malvineous
1 year
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slow eaters?
Same here. When I try to rush I get heartburn as well. I think because when you're hurrying, you're not taking enough time to chew, so you end up with more solid food in your stomach that's harder ...
slow eaters?
Same here. When I try to rush I get heartburn as well. I think because when you're hurrying, you're not taking enough time to chew, so you end up with more solid food in your stomach that's harder ...
Malvineous
1 year
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folks , what is the sexiest position a bigger girl can take nudes in? (advice)
Low angle shots are usually pretty great
folks , what is the sexiest position a bigger girl can take nudes in? (advice)
Low angle shots are usually pretty great
Malvineous
1 year
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for women, femme, and non-binary/gnc friends: what would a safe fa space look like to you?
Personally, I'm not bothered with women making a girls only club if they want to. Although, I think the objections Munchies raised are all valid.
Bumble has a mechanism for preventing men from m...
for women, femme, and non-binary/gnc friends: what would a safe fa space look like to you?
Personally, I'm not bothered with women making a girls only club if they want to. Although, I think the objections Munchies raised are all valid.
Bumble has a mechanism for preventing men from m...
Malvineous
1 year
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fat fetish/feederism study
I was filling out the survey until question 10. I agree that there are problems with how it's framed. Seems like your options are either to encourage weight loss, or be manipulative. For me it'...
fat fetish/feederism study
I was filling out the survey until question 10. I agree that there are problems with how it's framed. Seems like your options are either to encourage weight loss, or be manipulative. For me it'...
Malvineous
1 year
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butthurt scams?
My bad. I guess I just assumed because of how active you are on the site. I don't really expect that from regular users anymore. This community has changed a lot in the last decade.
butthurt scams?
My bad. I guess I just assumed because of how active you are on the site. I don't really expect that from regular users anymore. This community has changed a lot in the last decade.
Malvineous
1 year
