Why are so many discussions getting locked?
It's everyone's responsibility to keep discussions civil on the internet, not just the moderators. If someone is being an asshole or bigot, it's not your job to police the discussion, confront them...
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Dating women without physical attraction?
@BustingButtons
I think you're giving him a rather uncharitable interpretation. I don't see it the same way.
You're right that you shouldn't assume sex will happen after a date, but that'...
I think you're giving him a rather uncharitable interpretation. I don't see it the same way.
You're right that you shouldn't assume sex will happen after a date, but that'...
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Dating women without physical attraction?
Yes, I do use the word "some" to mean a minority or undetermined number of examples that is not indicative of the group. The problem is, that's not the idea I want to express. That's a differen...
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Dating women without physical attraction?
Ok, here are two articles that each cite multiple studies on what women find attractive in men.
I haven't been explaining to women how women work. I've been giving my thoughts on gendere...
I haven't been explaining to women how women work. I've been giving my thoughts on gendere...
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Soft feeding ideas
Making love while hand feeding them can be gentle.
If you include stuff outside the home, there are some fun feedee date ideas.
Fast food crawls, where you order something at every drive-through ...
If you include stuff outside the home, there are some fun feedee date ideas.
Fast food crawls, where you order something at every drive-through ...
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Dating women without physical attraction?
I'm not sure that "some" communicates what I want it to, because it's just an indeterminate number. For example, some people shower daily. Some people have walked on the moon. There's no indica...
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Dating women without physical attraction?
Yeah, I agree that there are degrees of shallowness like you said, but I was asking to find out what is the bare minimum for someone to be considered shallow at all in your view?
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Dating women without physical attraction?
Wait, so what's your definition of shallow then? Is it being attracted to any physical characteristic or having any fetish?
That all depends on how rare your preferred partner is. It's p...
That all depends on how rare your preferred partner is. It's p...
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Dating women without physical attraction?
The point I was trying to make is that in general, it seems like men have a narrower list of qualities that they find sexy in a partner, while women generally have a wider range of things they ...
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Dating women without physical attraction?
Of course, it's the same way for men too. Attraction alone can't be a base for a relationship, because personality and life goals matter much more when you're eventually going to live together....
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Dating women without physical attraction?
I wouldn't either. I personally don't think someone is shallow if they lose attraction to their partner. Munchies said that.
I don't treat groups like a monolith. I understand that a gro...
I don't treat groups like a monolith. I understand that a gro...
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Dating women without physical attraction?
Shallowness is seen as a bad thing, it's considered a character flaw. Maybe you didn't mean it that way, but when someone points out another's flaws with such direct language, it's always going...
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Dating women without physical attraction?
Ok, so there are only 3 viable options that I see for you.
1. Leave feedism in the realm of fantasy only. If you stopped looking for feedees, I'm sure that you can find a normal BBW. I guara...
1. Leave feedism in the realm of fantasy only. If you stopped looking for feedees, I'm sure that you can find a normal BBW. I guara...
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Dating women without physical attraction?
Honestly, I still think this is your best option. It may be worth examining why it didn't work for you and what you can do differently, rather than giving up. Here's what you can do if you're r...
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Dating women without physical attraction?
I think that for most men, physical attraction to some degree is a prerequisite for developing a romantic connection in the first place. You may enjoy the company of a thin woman with a great perso...
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Mtf transition: the solution for some male fas?
"I myself was not particularly autogynephilic at the beginning"
Timeline doesn't matter. Not everyone has the experience of discovering their "true sexuality", many people genuinely start as one t...
Timeline doesn't matter. Not everyone has the experience of discovering their "true sexuality", many people genuinely start as one t...
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How to meet people online when you're an introvert
Very true, I forgot to mention that. They could be having a bad day from work and want to be left alone. They could be asleep, and then your message gets buried in their inbox. It could have no...
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Mtf transition: the solution for some male fas?
Oh boy, where do I even begin?
Your claim that all straight men have autogynephilia deep down is just completely absurd projection. I promise you they don't. It's wild that you suggest transition ...
Your claim that all straight men have autogynephilia deep down is just completely absurd projection. I promise you they don't. It's wild that you suggest transition ...
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Red pill or blue pill ?
Red pill feeder here.
Back when I was in high school, I probably would have said blue pill, but I've since come to realize that having a fetish is a major enhancement to your sex life. It allows f...
Back when I was in high school, I probably would have said blue pill, but I've since come to realize that having a fetish is a major enhancement to your sex life. It allows f...
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Therapist telling me to lean into a unhealthy lifestyle because it makes me happy
I've been to therapy for depression before. The impression I got is that it's ok to be where you are right now, because you didn't choose to struggle with these problems. If you beat yourself up ov...
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