Fantasy Feeder - The first feederism website

How Fantasy Feeder started it all

Fantasy Feeder has been a cornerstone of the feederism community since 2003. As the first website dedicated solely to feederism, we offered something that didn’t exist before: a welcoming space for people interested in feederism, weight gain and fat admiration. While many sites in the fat community avoided or excluded feederism content, we embraced it fully.

Before Fantasy Feeder, feederism didn’t have a real online home or even a clear identity. Most people didn’t know what it was called, even if they had the feelings or urges. There was no dedicated space, no shared language, and no defined community to turn to.

That changed when Fantasy Feeder launched. Especially in the early days, the members who joined our site played a huge role in shaping the community. Not just socially, but culturally. The very words we use today, like feeder, feedee, BBW, and SSBBW, were coined and popularized right here by users of the site. What started as a niche interest became a recognizable kink and community, with its own language and culture and much of that was born right here.

From game to global community

For those who’ve been with us from the beginning, you might remember where it all began as an online game called “Fatten Your Feedee.” It was the first of its kind, a simple java script game where users could watch feedees grow bigger over time by feeding them. What started as a niche game quickly gained traction, and we realised something. We weren’t alone in our fantasy. There was a huge number of people who were into fatness and feeding, but they had no real way to communicate or find each other online.

So Fantasy Feeder was born — a forum-based platform where people could finally talk about their desires and interests, and more importantly, connect with others and form relationships. Officially starting out in 2003, we've undergone many changes and redesigns over the years. Some long-standing members may even recognize the site designs shown in the image below.

Bigger, better, and fatter than ever

Fantasy Feeder has gone from strength to strength and today, we’re bigger, better, and fatter than ever. None of this would be possible without our amazing members. Thanks to your ongoing support, we’re proud to now have over 70,000 active members worldwide. Your involvement keeps this space alive, and as long as the community wants it, we’re here to stay.

We’ve always aimed to grow with the times, listening to your feedback and evolving to meet the needs of the fat-positive and feederism communities. What started as a simple forum has grown into a fully-featured hub for connection, creativity, and kink. At the start, you couldn’t upload images without emailing them in to the site owner who would add them to the site by hand. Which is a stark change from the site we are today, where you are able to share and celebrate your bigger bodies and your gaining journeys freely and easily.

We also now support earner accounts for those creating fat-related content, helping contributors fund their gainer or feedee lifestyles. By supporting artists, models, and authors within our community, we help fuel creativity and enable more people to share their unique journeys and celebrations of fatness. We have also launched a community shop, supporting fat focused content creators, and even created our own content producing our original 3D animated series like Sommerville and Finishing School.

Our site owner, first member, and feeder: hiccupx

From day one, hiccupx has been the driving force behind Fantasy Feeder. He’s not just the founder, he’s our first-ever member and a lifelong feeder who’s always been open about his love for fat bodies and the joy of feeding. While he handles the not-so-glamorous side of things like site maintenance and development, he’s also right there in the community, chatting, sharing, and making people feel at home.

This site wasn’t built just as a personal project. It was built because there was nowhere else like it. Back when feederism was even more of a taboo and larger bodies were rarely celebrated, hiccupx struggled to find spaces where he could be himself. Other communities didn’t get it, and identifying openly as a feeder often meant getting judged or pushed out even in other online fat spaces.

But he stuck with it because he believed (and still does) that feederism is about consent, connection, and shared pleasure. It’s not about control or shame. It’s about fatness as something to love, admire, and enjoy, and the dynamic between people who feel the same.

Fantasy Feeder grew from that belief. And to this day, hiccupx is still here, still feeding, still coding, and still helping the community grow fatter and stronger.

Beyond fantasy: A home for real feeders and feedees

At its soft, squishy core, Fantasy Feeder has always been about real people. People who genuinely identify as feeders, feedees, gainers, stuffers, BBWs, and BHMs. We exist to create a space where people can connect not just with their fantasies, but with each other — in real, authentic ways. Whether it’s forming friendships and online relationships or turning those connections into real-life romance and intimacy, we’ve seen it all.

Over the years, we’ve received so many messages from members thanking us for helping them find their partners. Some have even gotten engaged or married after meeting here, and honestly, that’s what makes it all worth it. Because without this space, those connections might never have happened.

We’ve gone beyond just being a website. We've helped organize real-life meetups, supported local gatherings, and encouraged members to build lasting friendships and relationships both online and offline. Yes, we’re home to the sexy, indulgent fat content we all crave…but we’re also the heart of the Feederism community. This isn’t just a place to scroll through pics and videos of sexy curves and read weight gain stories; it’s a space to feel seen, desired, to learn about your fetish and kinks, and be part of something BIGGER!

We know what it’s like to feel misunderstood by the outside world to be judged for your size, your appetite, or your attraction to fatness. That’s why we’ve worked hard to build a safe, inclusive space where everyone is free to be themselves without shame or judgment. Whether you’re here to share your weight gain journey, indulge in your fantasys, meet like-minded people, or just explore, you are most welcome, because here, you’re not alone, and you’re definitely not the only fatty in the room!

Fat chat from our members

One of the greatest testaments to our community is the loyalty of our members, some who have been with us for over 23 years. They’ve been here since the very beginning and still love and support the site to this day. Here are a few stories from our longtime members, the true OG's, sharing what Fantasy Feeder has meant to them over the years.



We’re proud of how far we’ve come, and even more excited about where we’re going. The future of Fantasy Feeder is fat, fun, and full of possibilities!