General

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Hell no

It's not cheating.

It IS, however, a waste of time if you don't plan to follow through with anything.

Kind of like going to a swimming pool and never jumping in. What's the point?

No, any time you get turned on by anything that's not your partner is cheating. I'm cheating right now.

if you have to ask... yes

I don’t consider this site, grommr, xtube, tumblr and the like to be cheating unless you follow through with something more than internet chatting or masturbating to porn or other fantasy.

I’m not sure I even consider raunchy sexting cheating as long as both parties know it’s only fun fantasy and will never go further. However, I think the line is crossed with cam2cam, Skype (or whatever it’s called) masturbation. Grommr members are notorious for wanting to wank on camera. My own profile says I don’t do it, don’t want to, can’t do it, so don’t bother asking.

I’m there and here to talk about something we can’t ordinarily talk about irl. In fact a couple of guys I chat with on Grommr said to me first they just want to talk about weight gain, food, clothes.

My Feedee considers it cheating if I eat at MacDonald's or Toby Carvery when I am out at work.