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"It just takes time' Is a viable strategy for finding a feedist partner if you live for 100,000 years

I’ve been trying to fatten up a lady since I was 13. Been into getting fat myself since I was 18. I’m 37 now, and I’ve yet to find love. Dated some great girls over the years, and ALL of them except one were trying to lose weight.

It sucks, it really does. I wish there was some magic answer, but unless you are willing to relocate or connect with someone online, the cards are not in your favor

I think it really depends how you go about it. If you take it slow and let your partner adjust to being a bigger person I think it is possible. I never thought I could let myself go but with the right encouragement I have turned into a total pig. I am fatter than I ever could have ever imagined.

I think it really depends how you go about it. If you take it slow and let your partner adjust to being a bigger person I think it is possible. I never thought I could let myself go but with the right encouragement I have turned into a total pig. I am fatter than I ever could have ever imagined.

Its going to take time but yes. For those who can give love and desire unconditionally they may have as many as 7 actual soulmates...for those unable to..it may be 2 or 3 soulmates. By soulmates, I am speaking about someone you can be your true self with and feel whole. Not like the "Baggage" TV Show.

You can find love but you have to be strategic about knowing where to look for people who are accepting of fat when it comes to region. I was born on the northern east coast of the United States but when I learned from college female associates that they were more accepting of fat; that was when I took a trip to randomly see and that was when I saw for myself that in the deep south; fat is more accepted and then that raises your probabilities. If you don't have this options then you have to develop your skills to vet whom you are talking to. This site and others are loaded with posers online who are anything but offline so the quicker you can find out whom you are talking to and how they see fat the higher your probabilities will be.

Its hard to know for sure if someone is in love with me... or with my fat.
i know that some people are so into gaining or fatness that the minute a girl wants to lose they will drop them
to find love?? seems rare now a days

I don't think the fetish is the issue. People with all kinds of fetishes and kinks find love all the time.

The problem I'm seeing is how people approach the fetish. Mind you, not everyone on this site is like this. A lot of you are perfectly lovely. Still, there is a sizable chunk of people who do not know how to interact with others.

I've personally dealt with people who are terrible conversationalists, too pushy, do not respect boundaries, do not listen, are manipulative, etc. So, when I interact with others, my guard is up. Add to the fact that a lot of us have our own personal traumas? Oy vey

Exactly. You have to put the person first and the fetish last. And on a site where everyone has similar interests, you have stand out from the crowd. That's where that personal connection comes into play.

Don't come into my inbox, give me your government name, and tell me to hop on kik. I don't know you enough to trust you. Instead, take the time to get to know me. Let me get to know you. It's a give and take kind of deal.

There is a huge need for an overall understanding of social skills especially when it comes to online etiquette. When you have so many cultures that are able to converse with each other so freely; certain norms get lost in translation. Then, when you add the constant messages one will receive whether in the messages in the chat (not the general chat but the personal message)that can be offensive because there is a plethora of folks here who don't understand you can't start a personal chat saying: "Hello Fat Ass !" So, you can find plenty of people here who have the same interests it is just that you have to let things germinate naturally but that is predicated on a basic knowledge of social norms because we don't want rudeness to become the baseline of a good community of like minded people because Feabie will eventually germinate to the fat version of Onlyfans due to the amount of hubris and rudeness that permeates that entire site.