I’ve been a lurker for awhile but don’t know if I ever introduced myself! I’m trying to be more active and plan to write for FFA/SSBHM fiction.
I’m 34yo and have been married to my BFF and husband for 12 years, together 15 years.
When I first met him, he was a fitness nut due to his father’s upbringing. I, personally, always go for personality over physique so I fell in love with who he is. Finally, I told him my fetish and he was like, “Why didn’t you tell me this earlier?!” Now he gains for me and has once said how he’d love to be 500lbs and keep boys/girls meeting our daughter by his sheer girth at the door(HOT).
I’m here to make friends only and would love to meet more FFAs, ESPECIALLY those that love BHM/SSBHMs being dominate. I love it and it can be kind of annoying always reading fiction that involves the male being submissive.
I also love playing games and sometimes stream it. Otherwise, I have a talk show that usually focuses on the pet grooming industry as I am a part of it and have a lot of contacts. I have a comedian co-host now so we are branching out.
I can still feel self-conscious about revealing I’m a FFA. I’ve only told one person in my family, my little brother(21yo) who is gay because it sounded like he was talking about bears but I misheard him, so he found out my “thing”. Lol. Luckily I can trust him to not say anything to the rest of my family who are very vein.
I also have an original low-fantasy story I’ve been working on for YEARS and the assumed antagonist is a BIG GUY(with his height? SSBHM in weight)in his human form and has a relationship with the protagonist who is shorter and more slim than him.
I also have a Lovecraftian-ish screenplay I’ve been putting off but still slowly flesh out that involves an SSBHM Old One and his son.
I’ve also put little hints of my FFA-ness in my fanfiction for certain anime and it’s great when people are like “I didn’t think I’d like this character fat, but god damnit, you made it so good!”.
Anyway, I’ve loved lurking and I’m trying to put myself out there more and meet people!!!
EDIT: someone asked me what FFA is. When I first started lurking YEARS ago, FFA meant a ‘female fat admirer’ as at the time it seemed appropriate to separate ourselves. Stuff has changed since then so maybe it isn’t used as much.
1 year
