Dating/Friendships

Hey there! 29 year old gainer/feedee here from Erie, PA!

Hey recently joined, feeder here, looking to chat with like minded fat fanatics. Always was fit, chubbed up a bit since COVID, would love to hear others stories, journeys etc!

Hi everyone, my name is Alex and I have been lurking here for a couple years but wanted to finally introduce myself.

Firstly, I'm grateful for the existence of this community. When I was growing up and realized that my sexuality doesn't conform to the society's norm, the existence of this website (and the dimensions magazine) was very comforting, and made me realize that I was not alone, and that there were others who shared the same desires.

Right now, I'm based in Warsaw, Poland, but will probably move to NYC for work in the near future. I’d love to connect with likeminded people

Hi there everyone, been lurking on here for a while but finally gained the courage to be active! I'm looking forward to being more active and interacting with more people here!

Heyo, i'm Guilherme, im18, male, amd love to be fed or tô fatten up someone, can be feeder and feedee, and love mutual gain, nice to meet you

Didn’t you say recently you were going to delete your profile because you’re having a hard time finding a feeder?

I’ve been a lurker for a long time but just started to write last year. I write more…. Ahh we’ll say mainstream stuff in another venue, but being an encourager or servant for a gainer has always been a fantasy of mine. My husband’s a BHM and has been an SSBHM so I know how fun fat guys are. 😈

Hey everyone! 19m, long time lurker here who decided to finally get closer to the community. Currently living the dream since the person i love turned out to be into this as well, so im just looking for friends and people to talk to

You sound like a legitimate bro for me🙃

I'm also trans*man and at some point share your interests👋

I’ve been a lurker for awhile but don’t know if I ever introduced myself! I’m trying to be more active and plan to write for FFA/SSBHM fiction.
I’m 34yo and have been married to my BFF and husband for 12 years, together 15 years.
When I first met him, he was a fitness nut due to his father’s upbringing. I, personally, always go for personality over physique so I fell in love with who he is. Finally, I told him my fetish and he was like, “Why didn’t you tell me this earlier?!” Now he gains for me and has once said how he’d love to be 500lbs and keep boys/girls meeting our daughter by his sheer girth at the door(HOT).
I’m here to make friends only and would love to meet more FFAs, ESPECIALLY those that love BHM/SSBHMs being dominate. I love it and it can be kind of annoying always reading fiction that involves the male being submissive.
I also love playing games and sometimes stream it. Otherwise, I have a talk show that usually focuses on the pet grooming industry as I am a part of it and have a lot of contacts. I have a comedian co-host now so we are branching out.
I can still feel self-conscious about revealing I’m a FFA. I’ve only told one person in my family, my little brother(21yo) who is gay because it sounded like he was talking about bears but I misheard him, so he found out my “thing”. Lol. Luckily I can trust him to not say anything to the rest of my family who are very vein.
I also have an original low-fantasy story I’ve been working on for YEARS and the assumed antagonist is a BIG GUY(with his height? SSBHM in weight)in his human form and has a relationship with the protagonist who is shorter and more slim than him.

I also have a Lovecraftian-ish screenplay I’ve been putting off but still slowly flesh out that involves an SSBHM Old One and his son.

I’ve also put little hints of my FFA-ness in my fanfiction for certain anime and it’s great when people are like “I didn’t think I’d like this character fat, but god damnit, you made it so good!”.

Anyway, I’ve loved lurking and I’m trying to put myself out there more and meet people!!!

EDIT: someone asked me what FFA is. When I first started lurking YEARS ago, FFA meant a ‘female fat admirer’ as at the time it seemed appropriate to separate ourselves. Stuff has changed since then so maybe it isn’t used as much.