Karenjenk:
people sharing pics goes with the territory.
I just assume that if my guy takes pics of me that he is going to share them.... bragging? maybe? pride? ... could be
but if you dont want your pick shared then dont let someone take it.
or dont take it yoruself.
This isnt a popular view for a girl to take but... in this world if you dont protect yourself... no one else will.
I mean, some people have exhibitionist kinks, so I get why some women are fine with people sharing their pictures.
Not judging at all.
But I think I speak for most women (hell, most people) when I say we expect the basic respect of our partners not sharing our spicy pics.
I send my partner plenty of non spicy pics on top of the ones he takes of me. He'll pick from one of those pictures, run it by me, and then shows his friends.
I never told him to do this. This is something he naturally does because he respects me as a person.
Of course, there's risk involved in sending spicy pics even if that person never betrays your trust. But if you cannot trust your partner not to show off your body at its most vulnerable, that's not a person you need in your life.
