Fat experiences

Dan34:
She is facing a lot of mobility and endurance challenges, she struggles to walk for more than 15 minutes without genuinely feeling breathless for at least 30 minutes and being in a lot of discomfort, additionally, her knees always hurt and she is now struggling to climb stairs. She also now has high blood pressure and can no longer do any physical exercise other than walking slowly.

MickRidem:
She's very young and really not as big as the size that these problems normally arise. I'd suggest daily walks and things you can do together to keep her mobility up. Even if she's not worried about "health stuff" this is for *basic functioning.* If she wants to get bigger, I would encourage her to be able to function in daily life as much as possible at the same time.

Dan34:
She is facing a lot of mobility and endurance challenges, she struggles to walk for more than 15 minutes without genuinely feeling breathless for at least 30 minutes and being in a lot of discomfort, additionally, her knees always hurt and she is now struggling to climb stairs. She also now has high blood pressure and can no longer do any physical exercise other than walking slowly.

MickRidem:
She's very young and really not as big as the size that these problems normally arise. I'd suggest daily walks and things you can do together to keep her mobility up. Even if she's not worried about "health stuff" this is for *basic functioning.* If she wants to get bigger, I would encourage her to be able to function in daily life as much as possible at the same time.

Emitrack:
She might enjoy losing the mobility that she’s losing

Emitrack:
Clearly you need to make her feel more comfortable and have her do less so that she isn’t feeling uncomfortable or being in pain from over exertion. Have things nearer to her and perhaps start doing things that she would normally do, ie the weekly shop etc

Dan34:
I’m a male feeder 24 and my gf 22 weighs 317lbs and I would love for her to keep gaining but I am starting to see the health implications of the weight gain, so my question is when should I just accept how big she is and not encourage her to gain more.


Thanks in advance

Dan34:
I’m a male feeder 24 and my gf 22 weighs 317lbs and I would love for her to keep gaining but I am starting to see the health implications of the weight gain, so my question is when should I just accept how big she is and not encourage her to gain more.


Thanks in advance

Munchies:
Experienced extreme feeder here.

Ignore everything that Emitrack has told you. It is some of the worst advice that I have ever seen.

What you two need to do is sit down and talk about things. You both need to discuss the short-, mid-, and long-term goals you have for your feedist relationship. You need to discuss what her limits are, what your limits are, what kind of support she expects , and what you are capable of giving her.

Being the feeder of an extremely large, barely mobile person is not easy. The less she is able to do, the more she will depend on you. How much of yourself are you able to give? Will it have any impact on your relationship? Does she have plans if something happens to you and you are not able to give her your support?

If she isn't happy with the level of mobility she has, do not push her to lean into it. That's a terrible idea, and your relationship will suffer. In fact, as her pain gets worse, she will start to associate you with that pain. It will not end well.

I would highly encourage her to work on her mobility. If walking is too much pain for her, then she should look into aquatic exercise/therapy. The water will ease the pain in her joints and make the process far more pleasant. If she doesn't want to head to the pool since it's getting cold out, she can do sitting mobility exercises as well.

Dan34:
I’m a male feeder 24 and my gf 22 weighs 317lbs and I would love for her to keep gaining but I am starting to see the health implications of the weight gain, so my question is when should I just accept how big she is and not encourage her to gain more.


Thanks in advance

Munchies:
Experienced extreme feeder here.

Ignore everything that Emitrack has told you. It is some of the worst advice that I have ever seen.

What you two need to do is sit down and talk about things. You both need to discuss the short-, mid-, and long-term goals you have for your feedist relationship. You need to discuss what her limits are, what your limits are, what kind of support she expects , and what you are capable of giving her.

Being the feeder of an extremely large, barely mobile person is not easy. The less she is able to do, the more she will depend on you. How much of yourself are you able to give? Will it have any impact on your relationship? Does she have plans if something happens to you and you are not able to give her your support?

If she isn't happy with the level of mobility she has, do not push her to lean into it. That's a terrible idea, and your relationship will suffer. In fact, as her pain gets worse, she will start to associate you with that pain. It will not end well.

I would highly encourage her to work on her mobility. If walking is too much pain for her, then she should look into aquatic exercise/therapy. The water will ease the pain in her joints and make the process far more pleasant. If she doesn't want to head to the pool since it's getting cold out, she can do sitting mobility exercises as well.

Dan34:
I’m a male feeder 24 and my gf 22 weighs 317lbs and I would love for her to keep gaining but I am starting to see the health implications of the weight gain, so my question is when should I just accept how big she is and not encourage her to gain more.


Thanks in advance

Munchies:
Experienced extreme feeder here.

Ignore everything that Emitrack has told you. It is some of the worst advice that I have ever seen.

What you two need to do is sit down and talk about things. You both need to discuss the short-, mid-, and long-term goals you have for your feedist relationship. You need to discuss what her limits are, what your limits are, what kind of support she expects , and what you are capable of giving her.

Being the feeder of an extremely large, barely mobile person is not easy. The less she is able to do, the more she will depend on you. How much of yourself are you able to give? Will it have any impact on your relationship? Does she have plans if something happens to you and you are not able to give her your support?

If she isn't happy with the level of mobility she has, do not push her to lean into it. That's a terrible idea, and your relationship will suffer. In fact, as her pain gets worse, she will start to associate you with that pain. It will not end well.

I would highly encourage her to work on her mobility. If walking is too much pain for her, then she should look into aquatic exercise/therapy. The water will ease the pain in her joints and make the process far more pleasant. If she doesn't want to head to the pool since it's getting cold out, she can do sitting mobility exercises as well.

Emitrack:
I told him that communication was key, but it’s clear he wants her to gain and she wants to and we all know that with that comes reduced mobility, so yes they have to both accept and accommodate that.