LuvsChub04:
As someone who was bed bound due to a severe illness 5 years ago it well sux. Having no ability to use the bathroom on there own, not bein able to bathe ect,its horrid. Yes I get the kink/fantasy yet sometimes you need use the part of your brain that isnt kink related.Yet trust me, I have my own kink fantasies that well just wouldn't work in real life..
Being bedridden due to an illness isn't the same as being bedridden due to obesity.
In a sudden accident, you have to leave your life behind.
When it's due to obesity, it doesn't mean something sudden. You even gradually lose the ability to walk, and one day you're lying in bed.
Also, in my case, I was initially unable to get out of bed on my own, and I was still able to take a few steps. Then I would collapse on the bed gasping for air, but I could take a few steps.