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A member here literally messaged me yesterday telling me I am the SSBBW he has waited for his whole life, he saw a vision that he would be with me, and when I marry him, he will buy me whatever I want if I squash him and his friends.

Absolutely wild to me, because clearly this person has no reading comprehension. I mentioned my husband all the time, in just about every post, and my profile clearly states I am happily married, not interested in a feeder, and only looking for a friendship and community. Reading is fundamental. So is the block function. 🤣

But you don't get it you were totally MEANT to be together! He clearly had a dream about it so it has to be true right? Star crossed lovers! 😂

I'd be offended just if he referred to you as ssbbw instead of ussbbw 😤

there’s been A LOT over the years! (i have never met any of these people in person), here are some of the most memorable - for all the wrong reasons:

one guy wanted to move in with me and tried to make actual plans for this to happen

another guy kept wanting me to eat insane amount’s of food then got upset when i said no.

another guy asked me to be his gf within 10 minutes of chatting.

a girl wanted to introduce me to her bf, got upset when i said he’s not my type then tried for days to convince me that he was my type 🙄😆

And he has the audacity to only call you an SSBBW, you're definitely well into USSBBW!

marraige proposal

I had someone ask for my catheters after they had been changed
I almost puked

Not on here but on a regular dating app, I once got a message from a guy who said he had a much hotter brother-in-law who would be up for a threesome with us. I backed away quickly but I still wonder who was married to who!

I spend a lot of time on all sorts of fetish sites, so I’ve run into quite a few weirdos.

But the biggest nutcase I ever chatted with was on one of those sites. One morning, I logged into FantasyFeeder and saw a message; I opened it, and it was from a guy typing in all caps, calling me an asshole for not replying to his messages (even though I hadn't seen them simply because I hadn't logged in). He kept sending me angry messages for no reason, threatening to smash my face in if I didn't reply quickly (even though I live in France and he’s in England). I checked his profile, and in his bio, he had written in all caps that he was sick of no one wanting to reply to him or show him their belly; he had repeated that same phrase over and over, like a total psychopath—someone who is mentally unstable (which he definitely was). Once I realized he was unhinged, I didn't waste any time on him; I just replied "adios" and blocked him. The next day, I stumbled upon an article about him (since his full name was on his account and I recognized his face from the photos in the article; he was a young man in his twenties who really needed to take a "vacation" in a psychiatric hospital for the safety of those around him).

Here is the article about him—as well as the harassment, lies, and insults he inflicted on his friends. www.blubberbuster.com/my_story/1753837711/

I have absolutely no proof of the veracity of this article (or whether it is only partially true), but the messages he sent me clearly show that this guy is mentally unstable. And if reading this article can save people from Grommr from having trouble with him, then I figure that’s not such a bad thing.

Their account name is the same as the one in the article, and their face is recognizable in the photos.