Gaining

What & why do we have these fetishes?

I've had this fetish (weight gain) since before puberty. I don't why either. I just love the thought of myself or women/girls gaining weight. I love big, huge bellies either pregnant or otherwise. I can't explain what makes me this way. But I don't really mind. I do have some behaviors that are related. I did deliberately gain fifteen pounds this past summer. I wear bikini cut briefs (mens) and I shave my belly area. I don't have much hair on my body anyway, so it really doesn't stand out. I just prefer no hair. Well that's it, nice thread.
9 years

What & why do we have these fetishes?

When I was 9-ish my mum bought Men in Black 2 for my birthday, I loved the men in black series, but I always got this weird feeling at the start of the second movie when the alien women devours a guy that gives her a huge belly. I always felt like I shouldn't be watching that scene, especially with other people.

So my guess is I was born with a fat fetish, I just didn't realize it was a thing until later on in life.

Also everything promoting "thin" back then.
9 years

What & why do we have these fetishes?

I have been a feeder and fa as long as I can think back. It really defines my sexuality, it is not a fetish for me, but who I'm, it is the most passionate thing I have in my life, it feels more powerful and satisfying than anything else. I doubt very much if you could condition anybody into being a fa or feeder or feedee: In my theory, you either are (and will always be) or you are not (at which point you will never really find it exciting)
My like for feeding has developed and gotten stronger and stronger, and I also realized that I should gain myself and that I'm really a mutual gainer and that being in a relationship where both want to gain and were both have a very natural and happy relaxed feeling towards fat and fattening must be heaven. For me, fat is probably the sexiest thing there is, what it does with our bodies, how it moves, how it feels, in a way it is pure sensuality and also seems to be made out of pure sex ;-)
Funny enough, while running my website for over 15 years now, everybody that I got in contact with, that I could identify as a real feeder or feedee reported that they had fantasies about weight gain as far back as they can remember and that it has always been there.
9 years

What & why do we have these fetishes?

Being fat is partly genetic, so there has to be a certain percentage of the population that is attracted to fat people, or else those genes would have died out.

It makes sense that evolution would create some fat people and some people who want to have babies with fat people because famine and starvation used to be a real danger where the ability to store a lot of fat would help someone survive.
9 years

What & why do we have these fetishes?

Wayy before puberty. Stuffing, ripping, finding new larger clothes. During and after puberty drawing, finding photos (advert for Women en Large comes to mind) five large naked women posing in a natural environment my first porn. The Internet Google search found the hungry feedee, dimensions magazine, big Cutie's, and FF. I have been on here for a long time just under different names. And now an active paying member.
9 years

What & why do we have these fetishes?

Always had a facination with weight growing up. Any kind of change- gaining or losing- caught my attention. Losing probably only to be able to gain over and over. But weight gain fascinated me since as young as 2nd grade. Maybe it was because my mom went on weight watchers and lost about 100 when I was little. Maybe it's a vestigial evolutionary desire to survive the scarce season. Maybe it's my rebellion against how I was raised. Sexuality and what causes fetishes is an interesting topic and I wonder how much of it is "born that way" or as my BF thinks, imprinted
9 years

What & why do we have these fetishes?

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1 day

What & why do we have these fetishes?

Having a vore fetish I spoke to AI and they said i wasn`t hugged enough as a child
12 hours

What & why do we have these fetishes?

I think part of it is gentic and part is just life. Ive had mine sense I was young. I didn't actually know any larger fat people As a child, so that was not an influence. For me I know theres a the spiritual and past life aspect to it for my kinks and what Im attracted to. This is not the space to go deeply into that lore drop. One thing I noticed is that the women on my mom's side of the family have the same attraction to men. Tall, dark hair, perfurably black hair, good cheeck bones, nice chin, supportive, letting women fall into their womenhood, strong, that like tism women. my mother and grandmother did too. I had never seen a picture of my grandpa That was colored, so I never knew his hair color. Found out it was black and thic he was a strong big russian man with a major breeding kink you have to to have that many kids. My grandma was a small tism chunky women. So yeah the breding kink had a gentic aspect for sure and my attraction had to have a part in it too.
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