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I am curious to hear about posts / other people's stories about their own experiences that changed how you thought about / what your fantasy's were, in terms of this community. Please include a link if possible.

For example, I always considered myself purely a admirer / feeder type person. But after reading the story I linked below, I slowly developed a desire to become a feedee. Specifically after marrying a woman, hopefully who I could help gain some weight during our relationship. With our relationship switching dynamics post-marriage.

I always considered getting fat / becoming a feedee as surrendering control / losing control, which would cause me personally anxiety. But after the author, GiantJay's, perspective on his own gain, I started to evolve a new view on it myself. Now I see becoming a feedee, once married at least, as something that is both liberating in a sexual sense and relaxing, that aspect of surrendering control.

fantasyfeeder.com/weight-gain-stories/view/title/my+gaining+story+-+reversal+of+roles/author/Giantjay

What's funny to me is that when I read your title but before I read your post, I was thinking in my head "GiantJay." I read his work before I had come out about this, even to myself really, and before that, I'd only thought about female gaining. And yet I was mesmerized by his writing... I think I liked the role reversal (from what I was used to) and also the bisexual nature of some of his experiences. He's an author that kept me coming back for more and got me hooked on the stories!