Fat experiences

Sometimes it's nice to wear something too tight or a bit too short. One of the great pleasures of fattening up is getting reminders that you're now truly fat, and it can be fun to encourage such remarks by wearing things that imply that you've been porking up lately.

JayDee A lot goes unsaid. Bellies are comforting and kind. People feel this but our society like to hate fat, at least when people are watching. People use health as a reason to hate fat people and fat people try to claim fat is healthy. Irrelevant, only health enthusiasts live their life based on health, that's their fetish, everyone else is just virtue signalling.

Yes I have..... Miss judging the size if a booth were the table doesn't slide and having to ask for a table. Alot of bathroom stalls are becoming a problem. With the doors opening into the stall I'm just about to big to be able to squeeze into them and shut the door. Chairs with arms are almost impossible to sit in comfortably now. And if I. At a cook out or a bonfire I have learned that I have to bring my own chair because unless it's made xl I won't hold my fat ass and I will break it lol. But I don't consider any of this a problem for say. But more of a sign of progress.

I know I've had to deal with all of the above, even though I feel like I'm not THAT big. For example, if I'm somewhere that has older, more well-used furniture, I've always gotta be careful to sit gently or if it's bad enough I look for a different chair. Chairs with armrests tend to be hit or miss. I mean I usually can sit in one, but a lot of times I don't fit very well at all. Bathroom stalls are kinda the same way. When I'm in one of the more narrow ones, it usually feels pretty small since I end up hitting my arms on the walls and things.
Then there's the getting winded part and oh man, does that happen a lot. Especially with stairs. If I go up more than about 10 stairs, I'm probably gonna be out of breath at the top. And forget running for any sort of significant distance.

When I was thinner and trying to stay lean I was so self conscious that I didn't like taking off my shirt. And even after I decided to get fat It still took me a couple of years to get over it.

Finally this summer I overcame my fears and went swimming at the beach with my big belly hanging out over my trunks and it felt really good. There was some big girls out on that little beach section and I was the fattest guy that I saw with a shirt off while I was there. I felt totally accepted and for once I had the mid section that I wanted. No 6 pack belly for me, I would rather have a keg hanging out in front.

I also did better with waves and I was more buoyant thanks to being fat. I can't wait to go out there at 300 lbs and show off my work.

I used to like putting out a positive image, to combat the negativity that is out there. Dressing well, and all that comes with it. I liked the occasional questions of where I shop or occasional compliments as it felt good to dispel the myths of apathy, odorous aromas, bad hygiene etc. along with the looks of disapproval when changing clothes etc.
Over time, being out in public feels more like a nuisance, as much as I have come across patient people, some have lost their minds since 2019. The self-haters, smol-fats and "for your health" crowd add their own negativity; as they act like I'm either competition, a distorted view of themselves or enabling people to live 'unhealthy' without saying a word.
People don't hold doors long like they used to (mobility aids or not), Drivers less accommodating whether expecting myself to cross to the other side or actually having to ask to push the passenger seat forward when common sense would show its a struggle after 2 minutes to get in the back seat.
I liked matinee shows and hours at movie theaters, restaurants, diners as I preferred the extra space; and avoid crowds whenever possible, as over time I got more comfortable being indoors.

I honestly really enjoy being fat in in public. As I grow I tend to wear the same size until I absolutely can't. I love that 9 times out of ten I'm the fattest person any where. I just broke another chair the other weekend around a bonfire. I couldn't get up and had to have 3 people help me get up. That was arousing. Eating 7-10plates at a buffet, after the 5th one you get so many crazy looks. I love it.

Pics when it happens :-)

Its a funny title for a post on a forum
makes it sound like you can be fat in public and not so fat at home?
maybe i read too much into things though.
not hating ... dont be mad.

I sometimes have mini panic attacks when i go out. that may be because of how much my body has changed. or it could just be adjusting after being on lockdown and going nowhere for so long.
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and i guess it depends on where or what kind of public is it.
my BF too me to an arts and craft show.
It was hard to walk around because of my ankle injury.
it did feel nice to be outside
but he its like he kept some kind of food in my hands the whole time.
i have given him way too much control of my life. he got to choose my clothes and THAT was embarrassing.
i would have preferred a long dress. or jean and a big t shirt.
oh well.
i guess its the price for love?

I used to not like people to see how i had changed.
now... its not like i like it or dislike it.
i just try to go with the flow

No, of course not. Every time I go in public, I morph into my super model body builder form.

I am only fat at home.

Obviously.