Dutch bbw:
Comments that are a mixture, if that makes sense. Tell me how attractive I look with my fat pig body, how you love my lack of restraint when it comes to food. Mock me and laugh at me when I can't stop eating but make sure I notice it turns you on. I'm a whore, and a sow, but tell me in the sweetest voice.
THIS!!!
I love the dichotomy!
I have a play partner and when he is physically doing something humiliating and hurtful to me he’s so sweet about it.
When he’s doing nice things and making me feel good is when he gets mean.
It’s a fantastic technique, and keeps me on a loop of seeking physical pleasure or emotional pleasure but never getting both at the same time.