I think maybe broadening your interactions to include people who are sex positive and kink friendly is a good option. Their tolerance may be much higher than vanilla people and they may be more willing to play with this fetish.
And I know a lot of people with BPD, etc that are in loving relationships to include kinky ones.
Be wise but authentic, hone your relationship skills. Make sure you’re good at setting boundaries and communicating in healthy ways.
Make sure you’re falling for the person and that they’re actually compatible instead of compromising yourself to just have the fetish fulfilled.
And I know a lot of people with BPD, etc that are in loving relationships to include kinky ones.
Be wise but authentic, hone your relationship skills. Make sure you’re good at setting boundaries and communicating in healthy ways.
Make sure you’re falling for the person and that they’re actually compatible instead of compromising yourself to just have the fetish fulfilled.
2 years