I was usually twice the size of my feedees. I really like the idea of ​​gaining mutual.

First, I can write how not to do it

The girl had been with me for about a year. She had gained several pounds unintentionally, but it didn't bother her. Only after the next dozen or so (then I was secretly helping her) did she notice that she felt big and heavy.

I played open cards, told her about my secret preferences, about gaining weight, etc. It was too much for her. I was young and stupid not to understand this.

The next time, a few years later, I conducted the conversation more delicately and gave my partner space. It worked. I didn't go into depth with feedee, feeder etc. I just said: I like you at this size, but if you gain weight I don't mind.

Mainly during weighing, it is also noticeable to them when I dress formally - I do it often. I put on the pants and I already know that I need to buy new ones or modify the current ones.

The confident gainer (the empowered)

You’re on the side of gaining that associates being big with being powerful and having a strong presence, you love to eat big and maybe even lift big, and you surround yourself with people like you. Your big body allows you to feel empowered and has given you a confidence that you have always needed to show your true personality. When it comes to relationships you might be on the dominant side or at least you want to be the protective one rather than just fat and passive.

When I was at a party with friends I hadn't seen for a long time. I've gained about 50 pounds since I last saw them. One of my friends' partner was pregnant, so as a joke they put on a baby show for her and me - my belly was actually sticking out.

When I have a cheat day and I buy two sets for myself - just for a good start.

Alternatively, when I tie my shoes, I have to remember to widen my legs so that my belly doesn't hold me back.

I admit that at my highest weight I didn't eat that much every day. 7.5k kcal more as a craving. If I were you, if you want to gain weight, you should think about your meals and eating times - heavy cream is a cheat in the short term.

The hunger and satiety center depends, among other things, on: on the level of glucose in the blood and hormones, e.g. gastrin or somatostatin. There may also be something nurological.

During the first period of weight gain, I went from being a fit person with a lot of fitness (walking in the mountains, etc.) to someone who couldn't walk fast or even walk for a long time.

I gained over 30 pounds in three months, which put stress on my joints. It took me another 2 months for my body to get used to the new weight.

In later years, I didn't gain weight so quickly and the only thing I noticed was that I had to pull my belly out from above my thighs for comfort.

Exactly !! 😄
I remember the Ed, Edd & Eddy episode about sumo.

Good luck! The most important thing is that you feel good about yourself. Fingers crossed.