1. Been fed IRL - No
2. Ate myself to sleep - Yes
3. Had sex while being fed at the same time - No
4. Stolen food because I'm just a piggy - Yes
5. Been called a fat name in public - Yes
6. Had a stranger pat or poke my belly - Yes
7. Been fatter than my current weight - No
8. Ripped clothes or popped a button - Yes, so many times
9. Broken furniture because of my weight - Yes
10. Seen an actual pig and got turned on - No
11. Fantasized about immobility - Yes
12. Fed until I threw up - Yes, it sucked
13. Got stuck somewhere because of my size - Yes
14. Posted nudes of myself online - Partial nudes, but not full nudes
15. Been fed online - Yes
16. Been told I need to lose weight by a family member - Yes
17. Had a partner who worshiped my fat - No
18. Started rubbing my belly in public - Yes
19. Been called a pig - Yes
20. Been weighed and measured by my partner - No
21. Been in a gaining competition with another gainer - No
1 month
Cjk05:
I have been gaining for over two years now and have gone from 160->360 in that time. The farther my wife and I go the more we realize we are really really turned on by the ideas kf pushing me all the way, but also
Understand how inherently crazy that is.
How have any of you managed to accept those thoughts and integrate them in a way that isnt as extreme?
Dirty talk mostly, talk about being super massive, about immobility, and eating into oblivion, but not actually acting on it. That being said my current partner is not into feedism so this is older advice from a skinnier me ahaha
1 month
New one! I was at the pool this weekend and I wanted to use the waterside, so I started to walk up the stairs, which definitely was way harder than I remembered lol, kids kept running by me when I stopped to catch my breath, and when I made it up there was a big sign of the restrictions (why wasn't it at the bottom??), including a weight restriction of 300lbs... When the attendant caught me staring at the sign, he said "if you dont meet the requirements, you'll need to walk down", which was essentially him kicking me out lol. Officially too fat for waterslides!
1 month
Curiousv:
I wouldn't use weight alone, not even BMI, as people have different body proportions, fitness levels etc. regardless of weight.
I would use relative categories, mostly focused on their effects on daily life.
For 1 to 10 (I intentionally designed this system so that almost everyone fits into 1-6, ideal if you want to create fantasy scenarios with dice). I made this list with women in mind, but you can adjust them to men if you wanted
1: skin and bones, even those who prefer thin would call her too thin. Unhealthy and dangerous. Likely has an eating disorder.
2: thinner than average, but not clinically so.
3: most people would consider this to be normal, and strive to reach this weight if they differ from it.
4: chubby, considered above average weight by most people, but she can still hide the extra weight by carefully chosen clothing and camera angles.
5: definitely fat, and can no longer hide it. Still, the extra weight is not too limiting in most daily tasks and activities. If really attractive and has a great personality, might still be found desirable by those who aren't specifically into fatties (but they see her weight still as a major negative point)
6: obese, the weight starts to impose limits on many activities. People who aren't into fatties start feeling at least somewhat disgusted. Folds appear on different parts of the body regardless of posture, belly can firmly rest in the laps when sitting, some chairs become too tight, some difficulties when picking up things from the floor, basically the biggest size one can get without having either a severe eating disorder or being into feederism, and the biggest size most people will regularly see outside reality TV, or the Internet.
7. fatter than most things are designed for, cannot fit into small cars, into some restaurant booths, and even the largest clothes in supersize clothing stores start becoming too small. I consider the border betrween 6 and 7 to be the border between BBW and SSBBW.
8. still being able to care for themselves, but only with great difficulties. Standing up, or going up a single flight of stairs, or walking more than a few dozen steps, or just standing more then a few minutes are all very exhausting. Basically the biggest size one can have while being able to live completely independently.
9. requires a caretaker for everyday life, but is not completely bedridden. Still, getting up is difficult and might require help.
10. immobility.
I'm a little torn between 6 and 7, I cant fit into restaraunt booths, small chairs, need 2 seats on flights/public transit, can only find fitting clothes at specialty plus size stores or online, and struggle to get off the floor/ground/sofa/bed, but I can drive, and I can walk 1km (about a half mile) in about 30 minutes...
1 month
LilRascl:
I can’t help much with the classes part but if you want to go for it you totally should! You’re allowed to be slower and have less stamina when you’re noticeably much fatter than everyone else - lean into that comfort.
As far as Shein, I know some garments list their actual dimensions in the details. I have friends between 400-530lbs who have found some good stuff that fits well, it just requires that extra amount of searching.
Ahh tysm! I never thought of my size making it more 'okay' to take breaks/be out of breath, but you're totally right!
I'll re-download Shein and give it another shot, that gives me hope that I'll hopefully be able to find affordable stuff
1 month
Happy - all jokes aside, I've been told that I get really excitable with yummy food/treats, so i hope when people see me one day lounging/sitting, they see me excitedly enjoying more food and the smile on my chubby cheeks emphasizing by large neck/chin fat.
1 month
To be completely honest, I can't really relate to your issues, ive always been chubby, my work is sedentary and I do like to stuff my belly... That being said, I do have some tips:
1.) Snacking- If stuffing isn't your jam, try to snack all throughout the day, anytime you have a free moment, always have skittles or something in your pocket, even go as far as setting reminders on your phone. Ive found my days of biggest intake were actually day-long stuffing sessions, where I never fully ate myself completely out of commission, and took only small breaks between refilling my belly, leaving it full/bloated for the entire day. Obviously you dont have to do it to the extent that I did, but Snacking often will help!
2.) Career - I knew I wanted to be fat/was gaining even back in high school, and I did tailor my career path into business, then HR. I work fully remote but even when I was in office, I had to sit for 8+ hours a day... If you dont particularly care about how much money you make or having passion for your job, id recommend administration work, its highly sedentary, largely WFH, and you can get a certificate in 6 months/1 year
3.) Empty Calories - You kind of cover this as being hard, but ill stress it anyways, empty calories will be your friend, ultra processed foods, full sugar drinks, crackers, cookies, fries, etc... if you dont want to feel overfull but put in weight, empty calories will be your friend.
I hope this helps and best of luck to you!
1 month
AskDrFeeder:
There's a really cute phase, a little bigger than the starter belly, where the belly is just a bit too big to suck in anymore.
It would be cool to have a name for that..."newly unsuckinable"?
I usually think of this as the pot belly stage... but if we want something cuter, maybe a 'honey pot' or 'honey pot belly' ? This being in reference both to continuously filling a belly with sweets that it has a permanent visible effect, as well as a homage to the original fat influencer: Winnie the Pooh (lol)
1 month
1) Ate 52 christmas cookies over a work day... and breakfast, and lunch, and dinner...
2) Drive-Thru Hopping: I used to do this all the time, start at one drive thru, order anything and everything I wanted, eat it all in my car, then drive to a different one! I think my record # was 6 different drive thrus, but I think my biggest orders/stuffings were when I focused on 4: McDonalds, Taco Time (rip Taco Bell in Canada), Dairy Queen and Tim Hortons
3) Ate an entire family sized lasagna in one sitting with pop and garlic bread
1 month
I'm openly asking for encouragement/advice here, so if that's not your jam, please move along 💕
Hey y'all, my skinny friends managed to convince me to sign up for 6 weeks of dance classes with a performance at the end, and I'm kind if freaking out about it...
- Its with a studio I did a drop in class with last year, so I know they are a body positive space (this type of dance requires twerking/booty shaking, so im helped in that department haha), BUT
- I was by far the fattest person in the room then, and I was in the 280lb range... I just crossed 322lbs the other day, so I am even bigger...
- Also I remember struggling to keep up with all the steps and sweating and panting a lot last time, and I know I've lost even more stamina with my 40lb+ gain
- I will be required to buy/source costume pieces, I'm scared that I won't be able to find nicher pieces in my size either at all, or quickly/affordably (I know last season they had the dancers in leopard bustiers (think corset without boning))... Im a size 26, so Shein/Temu aren't really options bc their size 4x usually fit closer to size 20/22 in my experience.... Plus size consignment stores do exist in my area, but idk if they'll have what I need and even if they do, I find they charge the same or nearly as much as Torrid...
For those still listening lol:
- Have yall ever done group fitness with friends? How did you manage to keep up/communicate your needs without feeling shame both to your friends and to your instructors?
- How do I find niche dance performance wear in plus sizes (bigger than size 22) that deliver quickly/to Canada?
- How do I keep my spirits up to keep going when I need more breaks/cant do the same moves, especially if I think (they probably won't bc people are self involved) folks are judging me for being so out if shape, especially people whose opinions I value?
Tbh I do think its super hot that ill be the fattest bitch out there shaking my fat on stage to Rihanna while people watch/cheer, but there's so much I have to get through first to get there and Im so scared ahaha...
1 month
