So you meet a girl who has all these great quality's, but that still inst enough for you? I suggest you might want to evaluate the relationship as a whole, are these quality's you would put below physical attraction?

Also did you consider that she might really like you, and by losing weight she could actually be trying to seem more attractive to you? If I could offer one piece of advice beyond personal reflection it would be, tell her you find a bit of chub attractive and she shouldn't worry about her weight with you.

I am sorry if I seem harsh, but your "dilemma" does come across as a bit shallow.

LOL at the Aquabats! I think still have my fan club membership card somwhere from back when Travis Barker was in the band!

Oh and on the topic

1. Reverend Horton Heat (seriously awesome live)
2. The Specials
3. The Clash
4. Muse
5. Radiohead

I'd have to say Chocolate Digestive.

I read about a scientific study in the news paper a few years ago, apparently the chocolate digestive coating can withstand up to twice the dunking time in comparison to other buscuits! Oh and it also melts into chocolaty goodness

Obviously you have had some bad experiences recently, which is sad for anyone whether they are from the FA community or not. I hope you will be fine and find someone.

Despite what my profile date will tell you, I've been following the FA community threw various sites for close to 10 years. Theres all ways been a mix of exhibitionists, voyeurs and those looking for love, and in that mix someone is bound to get hurt. I think the community has to be taken with a pinch of salt, its a great place to have to express are selves but its far from perfect.

Its sad to read these stories, especially since there are probably loads of guys here who would like to have been able to actually meet someone within the community.

But cheer up ladies, plenty more fish in the sea. A quick look at the dating section alone shows there the guys out number the girls here by at least 4 to 1.

I am sure you'll find a man whos ready for a real woman!

I'd vote for Itchi the Killer, just for the torture scene involving a naked man, several fishing hooks and boiling oil. Truly disturbing.

I see you have been a member a while and I can't say I know you, but if I was to go purely by what you state in your post, I would as you are an FA and Foodie by the definitions used in the community.


I also, and expect others, find it hard to define my preferences in a single term.

Hope that helps.