[quote]Xodem wrote:
Pleasantly stimulating and not really a huge social issue if you hide it well enough. I've gained 60lbs and no ones said anything except I look really good because I dress to cover it and or hold it in. Men can do similar things, plus just sucking it in to an extent works. The belly can be really sensitive and nice to have around.[/quot


Actually really enjoy having a belly to show off!

I have put on 20 Lbs. recently from my already 225 Lb. + body...and I have been doing the same thing a bit.

Around my wife and some others I want them to notice to get a comment or reaction from them.....I simply ride my pants lower and relax my belly and it virtually floods out and my belly looks hugely Fat. In other situations where I don't want someone to notice I flex my Ab muscles the best I can now and wear looser clothing to kind of hide the size of my belly. It does help flexing my stomach and sucking it in but it actually is getting pretty hard to look normal and it is almost impossible after I eat.....because my belly inflates like a balloon after eating....my excessively large meals these days.

Several people that I wanted to notice has taken several double takes recently but no comments. Which I get because I have seen plenty of ladies that I know that have packed on the Lbs. And I don't really bring it up to them.....just simply enjoy their gaining.

That's so fricken sexy ....when you witness something like that! I love that kind of out of shape eating vulnerability thing!

Was she cute?

I would believe that female Feeders are rare!

I had never been in the market so to speak being that I like women gaining especially my wife and recently and in another relationship Mutual gaining. Although with my wife while she gains I am the one stuffing myself to get fatter....not that she is even aware I think she maybe thinks it is unintentional.

A long time ago I went out with a pretty but "to skinny for me" girl several times on some dates. We would always go out to dinners. She seemed enthused on our first dinner date to discuss ordering and ordered way more than I thought she could finish....suggested appetizers and a big entree for herself. She even asked me to help her finish her entree because she was full which was a little cuddly for a first dinner date. Our second date after dinner again we were talking about how full we were and she had to pat and feel my belly. I had already had a mutual gaining experience a couple years before this with my ex girlfriend but I was clearly much smaller now maybe just a nice lower belly roll while sitting. She then started right in telling me that she liked my belly and that she likes guy's to have a fatter mid section. I told her that I felt like I was pretty thin currently and she said "we can alway's work on that". She was very intriguing but she was just to skinny for my liking sexually. We didn't see each other again.

I think that was probably the only girl I have ever met that was a Feeder and to what degree I am not sure.

Right....I forgot that one! sitting down putting on socks cuts some air off pretty quickly with the belly getting in the way! It feels like when I stand up I should almost being seeing stars!

I always liked the chubbier girls as long as I can remember .....say from the age of 10 yrs. old.

Well before I started dating girls I had a crush on this Neighborhood Mom....she had nice large Breast's, huge butt, Big fluffy upper arms and a nice Fat lower Belly.
There was a time where she packed on a lot of weight and based on my assumption she got up to around 230 Lbs. still wearing skin tight jeans and low cut sweaters and t-shirts she clearly had grown out of. She typically was in the 180 Lb. range. I would have to say she was my first Fat Crush!!!

My girlfriends through High school and then college were always very pretty and slightly chubby/over weight. The type of girls most guy's back then would think were totally pretty but describe as kind of fat.

I remember during High School......the absolute best was when a totally hot girl from school would come back from summer vacation all Tan and have gained a lot of weight or at least noticeable amount. I had a couple of buddies that I was pretty open with what I liked on girls and described them as thick. They were in similar liking except for a few times I would mention how good and thick a girl became and they would say "she is past thick....she got totally Fat now" At the same time I was hoping that same girl would gain way more.

My second crush had to be my Girlfriend at the beginning of High school that was short and very curvy and always gained weight. We got back together our Senior year and I was pretty open to her about liking gaining and she was very free spirited and gained quite a bit of weight. I would always get her to eat more and more and she would tease me with her stuffings. Being so Free spirited she liked to talk openly and shock people with her gaining. Numerous times embarrassing the heck out of me in front of her friends and me telling them while stuffing her face that I liked her fatter and fatter. Not to mention several times in front of her Mother mentioning when her Mom joked with her about her appetite while she was eating and in front of me, "you better slow down or your going to get as Fat as me" her Mother said....she replied something likeI am going to get Fatter than you and pointed to me and said "he will love it"!

For my Final crush....Today for me with my Beautiful wife with regard to weight gain...I almost feel likeI would love her sooo big and Fat!

I cant remember if I have noticed this before after gaining.

I tend to gain mostly in my belly and it becomes a lot bigger and heavier and cumbersome.

Probably more a question for the gaining men.....Has anyone ever experienced this before? When you bend over at the waist and go to pick up something maybe a foot or so in front of your feet on the ground I almost feel like I have the momentum carrying me to topple over head first because of my belly. It's not extreme but I feel a slight momentum like carrying me over head first.....definitely feel out of balance for lack of a better description.

I am sure some with big enough bellies probably have a hard time even bending over to pick something up if they can at all.

That kind of leads me into a similar discovery! I find sitting up, turning side ways and even getting up taking much more effort.

I was wondering if others can put some thoughts and describe as to what they felt at certain weights etc. and what things gave them challenges and when (Weight wise or belly size).

Mine as follows as of today:


Male: 241 Lbs.
skinniest part of waist full: 41"
Largest part of belly full: 46"

I am wearing mostly 36" Jeans (when stretched out) my belly hangs over waistband.

Slacks 37" just took the waist out a month ago.....still now very snug even standing. If I would wear them slightly lower my belly would spill out over the waistband.....obviously contain belly by wearing a bit higher than my jeans

shorts I have moved into all 38" in closet.
I only have a couple pairs of 40" shorts.....Probably will be soon.

I have 2 pairs of my big 40" slacks in the closet...but when I get to these I look pretty big.....from last time experience. I would say most people that would see me wearing these that now me.....would be shocked and say...Wow....he got Fat!!! Or at least last time that's the look's I got from friends and work acquaintances.

For me it kind of went like this:

At first:

1. Age 25+ Metabolism changed (probably biggest change)
2. Less Exercise
3. gradually more eating
4. Eating the things I used to that are fattening...but didn't burn it anymore


As you get older you have set points in weight that are harder and harder to go below with out extreme exercise and working out.

5. Never get below these set points and tend to gain much easier the older I get
6. Get a little turned on by weight gain and excess eating
7. Start to stuff to see how Full I can get.
8. All of a sudden consume way more at meals and crave fattening snacks.
9. For a period of time never really get full anymore and consume way more calories without even trying.
10. Very hard to stop eating so much ....not to mention craving fattening foods.
11. after a while appetite is out of control and can't even slow it down when you try. If I try at this stage to not eat as much I will get hunger pains.


It takes certain points to get through when you start gaining....but I would say once you get your appetite through them and you are not as active along with age
you will be surprised now how much you can gain. Everyone is different with regards to metabolism and body make up though. Not to mention in my case it takes a long time to loose a belly nowadays and I seem to never go under a certain weight even if I were to try very hard.

These days I never really lose it all! I have not been below 220Lbs. In 3 years or so.....and recently I don't think I got back under 230 Lbs. Before I started gaining again.

I guess all of a sudden I start eating a bit less and I don't stay as inspired. Also, similar to you I start to get a little embarrassed around summer time having a 40" waist pair if board shorts where my belly still hangs over a good 4-6 inches. All three times before I got the kick to try and cut up after gaining and that never really worked....I ate really healthy and tried to get a six pack like my Athletic playing days ....needless to say a 4 pack was almost unachievable with the effort.

This time I am going to lift heavy while still gaining and produce more of a body builder look with a huge Gut. I almost feel that it will be less embarrassing over summer. I will just explain I am calorie loading to get really big and strong. We will see how that works out.