The Birthday Massacre - Control
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Firstly I'll just say that the word 'feminism' can indeed be a bit nebulous, since there's many different kinds of people who call themselves that. People might disagree with one kind of it, and might agree with another. So the real question is what kinds of feminism do they disagree with, and why.
At the same time, people who don't call themselves feminists are not automatically bad either. For example, some trans people have issues with feminism in general as they feel that the majority of feminists have failed to tackle the issue of Trans-Exclusionary Radical Feminists(TERFs) thoroughly enough, and that they could do more about this vocal, hateful subgroup. These trans people would not necessarily call themselves feminists, but this blatantly does not make them automatically bad.
I myself am an intersectional feminist as I mentioned earlier, and seek to take into account all the inequalities that people face in society rather than just the oppression of women only, which perhaps is a stance not so dissimilar to what people would call 'equalism'. At the same time, I dislike TERFs and their behaviour, I find them to be thoroughly toxic people, which is a sentiment that many other feminists share, and I condemn their actions which include their advocating to 'cure' trans people via therapy. I also condemn the actions of feminists who have said that men can't be raped - they certainly can be, and it's disgraceful to assume otherwise.
That kind of 'men can't be raped' feminism, and that of TERFs - that's not my feminism. And I wholeheartedly condemn theirs.
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dave_1673 has been ordered to cease contact with soniafernandez.
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Since the topic creator has deleted her account, the thread is now being locked.
FreightTrain wrote:
And even then there was a time in the chat where two blokes just decided to push the fat talk about her ACKNOWLEDGING That she isn't into it, and continued to do so anyway...
my jaw is just on the freakin desk... How stupid can you flippin be? "Hey I know you don't liiiiike thiiiiiiiiis buuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuut I'm gonna suggest it anyway because I like it."
Could people report these men along with anyone else who was harassing littlemermaid so that we may warn/suspend them? Thanks. No means
no, and if people can't understand that, and/or completely ignore another person's profile to push their fetish onto them, we
don't want them on our site.
Also, don't forget to cite the '
How to treat other members' sticky to people if they don't know how to behave:
fantasyfeeder.com/cms/infusions/forum/view-thread.php
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diggers1917 wrote:
Out of interest, what are your opinions when it comes to men identifying as feminists (not just as sympathisers/allies etc)? I remember being involved in a conversation with a few feminist and otherwise sympathetic friends on facebook and the conclusion seemed to be that it could be a bit problematic. As a man, calling myself a feminist is a bit like calling myself a great lover or talented composer: it's not for me to say, it's for others to decide or recognise. As it is, I am very sympathetic to feminism and my opinion of people generally increases when they express feminist sentiment.
It's an interesting topic that I've seen discussed around in other areas. I would say it is for others to often decide or recognise - for example some have called themselves feminists but only end up championing men's rights which is a most curious stance for them to take, which often ends up with them labelled as not being a feminist.
On the topic of men being feminists though, I would say from what I have seen that the majority of feminists are fine about it, though some women maintain that men shouldn't call themselves feminists and that it makes them feel uncomfortable. So it can be a bit of a grey area. Just don't keep insisting that you're a feminist to someone that's uncomfortable with it, and it should be fine. You can call yourself an 'ally' there instead.
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Preview video of a new legendary Pokemon,
Hoopa, a Psychic/Ghost type. Seems to be based off a djinn (some may know these as genies):
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sjw123 ignored his mod message and didn't even open it, and continued to look at BigBoobedJew's profile a few more times. One week suspension should make him notice, so I have done so. BigBoobedJew is very grateful for our assistance in this matter.
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Wannabe Princess wrote:
Fair enough I must be mistaken. Still not sure "Gay b*itch" is the best way to describe someone, you probably wouldn't use "hetrosexual bitch"
Mmhm, this. And unlike people working for the NHS, being gay doesn't have anything to do with anti-fat prejudice whatsoever, so it's irrelevant to mention. Would have been better to just have said something like "and my bro is a dick".
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mariegambinii@gmx.com 78.250.223.172 8 Jan 2015 24
This one was first suspected to be fake I guess, considering they put up a pic with what looked like an MS Paint writing of their name on a belly pic. I sent them a request for ID, to which they responded with:
I just sent my pic, but I don't really understand, does everybody have to do this ? Or is it a kind of discrimination or someone reported me ?
I don't take pic of my face so easily, so I want to be sure of the purpose of that demarch
Thanks you for your comprehension
bises
And then provided the below photoshopped photo on the right. They deleted their account before I could however (was sleeping through this), so I guess they got scared and fled.
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