"soft girl"

Munchies:
Yeah, no. That's not even close to what I'm doing.

JN_TumLover56:
Denial huh? That’s usually how it starts with most problems.


I already told you what I'm doing and why. I've told you before that if I was picking on you, it would be a lot more personal and mean. You can scroll through the forums and see what it's like when I am going after someone - usually Nazis, racists, and other flavors of bigots.

I'm not doing that to you. I've never done that to you. You haven't done anything that has warranted that response from me.
7 months

"soft girl"

Munchies:
In this weather????

I think the fuck not!

But in all seriousness, I am very confused as to this whole "I gotta win against Munchies" thing you've got going on. I'm not trying to "win" an argument with you. I wasn't even aware we were having a fight.

From my perspective, this has been a case of me explaining something I know a lot about to someone who has a passing understanding. I feel like you have some kind of beef with me, but it's very one-sided.

Like, what are we doing here? I have no quarrel with you. The list of people I have actual beef with is very short, and you aren't even on the list.

JN_TumLover56:
Ha ha! Well I am Canadian so it doesn’t bother me as much. 😜

All jokes aside thought, I think everyone knows when someone tells them to “touch grass” as in a way to get off the internet and devices and experience the outside world… maybe talk to someone IRL. There’s more to life outside of our devices than it is on the inside. Self-improvement people have preached about this. Heck, I have seen you tell other users to touch grass. You should know that.

Now I respect you and your advice and opinions. But recently it seems like you just haven’t been giving me a break from some of the recent forum discussions. It’s almost like you don’t want people to have a different opinion even if it’s something quite similar to yours.

To save this particular forum discussion from being chaotic, I’ll have to write you a note when I can.


Yeah, no. That's not even close to what I'm doing.
7 months

"soft girl"

Munchies:
You mean like a type A kinda person?

JN_TumLover56:
Ahh… sure you can say that. It’s like when I am saying a “softie” I’m trying to say as to describe someone who is humble and kind or even down to earth. Instead of someone who’s very uptight to a point where they come off as a rough person.

I’m essentially saying something similar to what you said earlier but saying it in my own way y’know?

Munchies:
I see.

Yeah, no the soft girl doesn't exclude those kinds of women.

It should. The lifestyle champions being gentle, delicate, and carefree. But having interacted with a great many of the soft girl girlies, I can confirm most of them are mean.

Like ... meaner than me by a significant margin.

JN_TumLover56:
Seems like I can’t win no matter how much I try to counter you, even if I may have a point. Anyways I’m going to head out to touch grass now. Highly recommend! 💯


In this weather????

I think the fuck not!

But in all seriousness, I am very confused as to this whole "I gotta win against Munchies" thing you've got going on. I'm not trying to "win" an argument with you. I wasn't even aware we were having a fight.

From my perspective, this has been a case of me explaining something I know a lot about to someone who has a passing understanding. I feel like you have some kind of beef with me, but it's very one-sided.

Like, what are we doing here? I have no quarrel with you. The list of people I have actual beef with is very short, and you aren't even on the list.
7 months

"soft girl"

Munchies:
To be in community with someone means to be in fellowship. You don't need to be a woman to be in community with women.

Enas:
Damn it, i dont know if i understand fellowship either xD

Do you mean, i dont often hang out with women, im not in their company, i dont socialize a lot with women?


noun: fellowship

1.

friendly association, especially with people who share one's interests.

Being in community is more than hanging out. Because there are women that are not in community with women. It's not a gender thing.

Instead, it's about understanding the struggles and joys about womanhood. Why we are the way we are. What it actually means to live as a woman - in all the flavors of womanhood.

I'll grant you that you know more than most of the men who responded in this thread. But there are sizable gaps in your understanding.
7 months

Anyone willing to talk to a trans woman

PhoenixChimera:
Thank you, I didn’t expect anyone to respond and have had a difficult few days with the Police and crisis team.


Damn, that sounds scary. I hope you stay safe
7 months

"soft girl"

Munchies:
Yeah ... this is not the place to discuss the finer points of feminism - especially since you think many women lack certain "masculine" characteristics. But then, by your own admission, you are not in community with women. So you're understanding of us is very limited.

Enas:
Most men also lack these characteristics too!
Also, what does "But then, by your own admission, you are not in community with women." mean? (sorry, i just didnt understand what that sentense means 😅)


To be in community with someone means to be in fellowship. You don't need to be a woman to be in community with women.
7 months

"soft girl"

Modulo9:
Not really. My wife does well in the corporate world and will lay down the law like a Mama Bear.

She used to do gymnastics. She was into demanding sports that require physical and mental strength but are considered feminine.

She's likes to eat and she enjoys girlie things. She really likes masculine men and enjoys when I put on tool belt when I do maintenance on the house.

I've encountered quite a few well fed women like her in the corporate world with similar attributes.

I would describe her as a feminist in the streets and with the man she loves a submissive in the sheets. Which I find very hot.

Enas:
Girlboss is something advocated only by liberal, or i shall say bourgeoisie, feminists. To make my point clear, i think liberal feminists are the second worse type of feminism (after TERFs), because it tries to invite women into the rulling class, when the solution is to abolish the rulling class.

Dont get me wrong, i dislike the fact that many women lack certain characteristics that i think everyone ought to have, but are limited as "masculine" only.
Instead, i would really like to be in a relationship with a lady, and for both of us to be equally expected of taking inisiative, to be rationalists, etc. And i absolutely love these, especially inisiative, when it comes to sexual life (maybe to an abusive degree even xD) but i also would really really appreciate it in every day life! And i also appreciate, both sexualy and in general women who are muscular.

Are these things part of a "girlboss" thing? Maybe, on an aesthetic level. But honestly, is there more to it? I doubt.


Yeah ... this is not the place to discuss the finer points of feminism - especially since you think many women lack certain "masculine" characteristics. But then, by your own admission, you are not in community with women. So you're understanding of us is very limited.
7 months

Itchy stretch marks

Munchies:
Well, no. Once you get them, it means you grew faster than your skin could keep up. I've seen some wicked cases of fluid retention that led to stretchmarks.

Sweetfattie:
I can confirm that severe edema sometimes causes stretch marks. Years ago I had a terrible reaction to a medication that resulted in my lower legs and feet blowing up like balloons. That was painful. I’ve also seen stretch marks on teens who had huge growth spurts.

Thanks for the tip, by the way! Shea butter is great stuff.


Ouch, I am glad that got sorted. May you never experience that again.

And you're welcome!
7 months

"soft girl"

Modulo9:
Not really. My wife does well in the corporate world and will lay down the law like a Mama Bear.

She used to do gymnastics. She was into demanding sports that require physical and mental strength but are considered feminine.

She's likes to eat and she enjoys girlie things. She really likes masculine men and enjoys when I put on tool belt when I do maintenance on the house.

I've encountered quite a few well fed women like her in the corporate world with similar attributes.

I would describe her as a feminist in the streets and with the man she loves a submissive in the sheets. Which I find very hot.


I mean, you can be a feminist and a sub at the same time. The two are not mutually exclusive.

A lot of people use feminist as a short hand for dominant, aggressive women. In truth, these are two unrelated things. I've met a lot of sub that are feminist, and many of the anti-feminist women I've run into are dominant and aggressive.
7 months

"soft girl"

Munchies:
You mean like a type A kinda person?

JN_TumLover56:
Ahh… sure you can say that. It’s like when I am saying a “softie” I’m trying to say as to describe someone who is humble and kind or even down to earth. Instead of someone who’s very uptight to a point where they come off as a rough person.

I’m essentially saying something similar to what you said earlier but saying it in my own way y’know?


I see.

Yeah, no the soft girl doesn't exclude those kinds of women.

It should. The lifestyle champions being gentle, delicate, and carefree. But having interacted with a great many of the soft girl girlies, I can confirm most of them are mean.

Like ... meaner than me by a significant margin.
7 months