My first experience being turned on by something fat-related was when i was reading mad magazine

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... but remembering moments like that really makes me want to travel back in time and politely remind myself that I'm a lesbian.


It's possible the world wasn't as open and accepting of lesbians as it is now. My first wife ended up being lesbian after we got married. She had always felt that way but the world was prety hostile towards that, so she didn't want to be that way and thought of we got married her desire would just go away but it didn't. It's definitely a much friendlier world now that it was then, in therms of that. And, it was a guy you saw in the cartoon so makes sense it would start there before expanding to included females. The female form IS very beautiful. I can't fault you at all for liking it yourself. :-)
7 years

Any other people really into the idea of a world where obesity is normalized and encouraged?

That would be a very nice world indeed. It reminds me of an article I read LONG time ago, before the whole BBW movement, about a movie that someone was trying to make featuring a world with the fat and skinny roles reversed. People admired fat girls, desired fat girls, people tried to gain weight etc. I was sad it never got made, and I remember it was going to end with two chubby girls on a beach as a skinny girl walks by. One chubby girl says to the other, something like, "What a shame, such a pretty face." in reference to what people used to always say about fat girls, "She has a pretty face."

In reality, I think criticizing people for being skinny is just as bad as criticizing or judging them for being fat, but the point of the movie was to show what it would be like if it was opposite, and human nature is, well, human nature.
7 years

Auto update of weight

I don't know if this has been suggested before, but I didn't see it in scrolling back a few pages. I've noticed that people post updates under the gainers but their profile weight is sometimes very different - especially for those that have been here a while and maybe don't ever think to update their weight. What about letting an update in the gainers update the profile weight too, so when people post a gain, or a loss, the new weight updates on their profile?
This could be automatic for everyone, or maybe a check box on the gainers post would allow a person to not update their profile weight if they didn't for some reason - no idea why, but best not to assume.

There could also be a date stamp of the last time the weight was updated. I have no idea if that would be useful or fun for anyone to see... given the theme of this site, some might find it fun to know the weight listed is very recent vs years ago. ~shrug~
7 years

Buffet plates

The same in the US. Clean plate every time. The servers generally clear the used plates away which mean no one knows just how many plates I've filled unless they are watching - or they are my server LOL
7 years

Someone from here was in las vegas

She wasn't killed by the shooter but died in an accident elsewhere, not that it matter, it's sad no matter how someone dies.
7 years

"i love fat women" t-shirt question

That's a great question. I'm curious too. I'm curious what guys would wear that. I don't generally ware clothes with words on them so I really can't say.

On a similar but different note, ever see pickup trucks with slogans like "No fat chicks or it'll scrape" or "No fat chicks allowed"? Kind of pisses me off when I see that. I thought about making something saying "Big truck for my big girls" or "Big girls welcome, this truck can handle 'em". Something like that.
7 years

Attempting to understand a strange request

I've been around this site for many years and seen a lot of things, but never had the impression that female feeders generally all prefer the same height or size. In general, woman prefer guys taller then them, but that has nothing to do with weight. There are always exceptions and with girls, how they feel around and with you weighs (no pun intended LOL) more than physical traits do, generally speaking. Given the lack of anyone else weighing in, I think no one else had noticed any particularly dominate trend or they'd be voicing it. ~shrug~
7 years

Have you ever suspected that someone was a feeder?

pdt:
Not sure about feeder, but when I met my college roommate�s fianc�e who was like the size of the biggest girl I�ve ever been with, I was like, �My people.�


LOL! It's a great feeling!
7 years

Largest size in stores

Been shopping there for years. I don't know what's in your area but DXL or whatever it is now the closest me. I've always been happy with them - under their previous companies too, before they merged. The biggest difference I think you will see, and I don't know what kind of clothing you buy, so I'm comparing to Walmart, but the the clothes at a Big and Tall shop are generally more expensive but also much better quality. You get what you pay for I guess. Also, the sales people are a little more consultative, sometimes helping me know what looks better on me and what I can try vs places like Walmart where you're pretty much on your own.
7 years

When fat is good for you!

That is awesome to hear! I can totally see where all of those are possible. Kind of ironic in a way. Embracing it is better than fighting it, I guess. I think the whole snoring thing is very interesting. Conventional "knowledge" says that the cure to snoring is to lose weight. How do they explain all the skinny people that snore? I'm glad it worked out so well for her.

I also love when a girl is bigger around than she is tall. I don't know why, but I always find that appealing. I'd love that to be the goal of every girl, to fatten herself so she is bigger around than she is tall. smiley
7 years