No, that's weird. Sorry. I mean, no one's normal, including me obviously lol, but that is a different kind of strange. I'd guess it to be one of a few things, some of the likelier of which, imho, are:
1. He is trying to get you to do it with him, for any of several reasons, possibly not even thought out..
2. He is trying to manipulate you or your feelings, again for any of several reasons.
3. He doesn't know how to be in a relationship yet and is still testing what is appropriate or acceptable.
4. (Similar to 3) He is testing you or himself.
5. He is socially retarded.

I follow him, and I know he works hard. I will continue, and I hope he finds help.

btw, since you're here, you probably already know this, but the number one suggested change I see around the site mentioned over and over is the ability for users to block selected individuals and/or non-members (even if only for a fixed span of time) from seeing either their profiles, posts, or pictures. I think this might create a much safer feeling environment for some users without really affecting the experience of everyone else, and ironically also create a more friendly environment.

All true, and as always, thanks for all the work you do, it is appreciated and noticed. But why does he have to do all the coding by himself still, 20 years on? I'm sure there must be other people you guys trust with both coding skills and dedication to the cause? Certainly, even if not doubling productivity, increasing manpower must increase your capacity for accomplishing your goals by some measure, right?

It's always a spectrum. Every large group of human beings contains monsters, predators, and people that have mental illness and/or dysfunction. Groups like ours that are so tabooed tend have a moderately higher number visible for several reasons imho:

1. A taboo will tend to push many people that are toward the saner end of the spectrum into the closet in some form.
2. Being tabooed for something inherent to yourself tends to make you both less stable and less willing to follow social norms.
3. The internet is mostly anonymous, and so people have less inhibitions
4. People that are less-inhibited in general also tend to express themselves in places and cultures like this in higher proportion and at higher "volume".

"Feeder" is just another sexual classification, and probably includes just about every type of person imaginable. Certainly the breadth of story and experience material I've read over the last 20 years suggest as much to me. Unfortunately, in a society where excess calories is infinitely more common and thus more commonly dangerous that insufficient calories, weight gain (and, for that matter, fat admiration) is commonly considered unhealthy, and thus anyone willing to forgo such... knowledge... is both exceptionally counterculture and of the opinion that the weight gain of their partner beyond whatever arbitrary point is more important than their health beyond whatever arbitrary point.

Now that the extremes are out of the way, I will say that I self-identify as a feeder, and though infinite weight gain does lead to inevitable death, the truth is neither infinite nor inevitable: It is gray, like almost everything else. Fat, feeding, and even weight gain can absolutely have appropriate and reasonable roles in a loving and otherwise-normal relationship, just like any kind of sexuality, just like bdsm or loving feet or being gay, imho. It is those terms, "reasonable" and "loving" that are the important part. Just like in bdsm, safe, sane, consenual, and have a safe word. And, of course, act like an adult, and learn how to channel your needs in ways and to degrees that are creative rather than potentially destructive.

Personally, I love fat and I love the idea of creating fat on a partner, but I have channeled passions into my own mind to shape myself in sane ways, like being wholly satisfied with seeing fat on a partner, especially fat I've created, without having to constantly create more. Or being able to channel needs into wonderful sites like this, where they can be let out in talking with like minded people, roleplaying, fantasy, or writing stories that are far beyond anything that will be possible in my lifetime. I find that sci-fi and fantasy and speculative fiction in general, even horror (XD), are natural partners with tabooed and potentially morally-ambiguous genres like this one. Reality can be a bitch, but it is something we all live in - best to get used to it and figure out how to get by and be happy without making things worse... and, perhaps, in doing so, even make things better.

Wow. That was a rant, haha

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Ditto. I pay occasionally because I still hold out hope for improvement, and because it's one of the older and largest sites dedicated solely to this culture, but it comes after everything else and the other stuff I donate to because, frankly, at this point it is a donation. I don't pay for any of the services that come with subscribing - I donate to the cause and to support and in the hope that services here will eventually be worth paying for and use a model worth investing in.

That's such fcking bullsht. Men like that should have their dicks amputated.

that's kinda cool. what songs did you find about fattening someone up?

i think half the stories I write have some aspect of that in them. I wonder sometimes if the reason feedism has so many bdsm undertones is only because it is so tabooed, messing with sex and food and control and acceptance all at once. Crazy powerful.

btw, extremely sexy

A chubby girl who lost it all and is now married and intentionally gaining it back. Without a doubt that is the hottest thing I've heard in years.