Wow, this is fun! I made up a character who was tired of dieting and talked to a psychiatrist about quitting and getting fat. The shrink tried to talk me out of it at first, but finally gave up and told me to go ahead and get fat, as long as I was kind to myself and accepted myself. Pretty tame stuff by weight-gain story standards, but fun anyway.
2 years
I'm stumped. Had to compose the music for my own weight-gain video. Don't know if it's any good but oh well...
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2 years
MVP76:
Definitely Weird Al Yankovic's "Fat" and "Eat It" should be in it lol
A bit too on the nose for my taste...
2 years
AskDrFeeder:
I'm not talking about just introducing someone to a new thing, I'm talking about the case where you introduce them to a new thing and they get into it. If you don't want to call that "teaching", fine by me but your term doesn't quite work either.
Munchies:
That's basic English, but you do you, boo.
I don't know, sometimes you introduce someone to a new thing and they don't like it.
2 years
AskDrFeeder:
I've heard this story many times. A person has no interest in feedism but is persuaded to try it by their feeder. They gain some and by their partner's reaction realize how erotic feedism can be. It starts to turn them on, and before you know it they appreciate gaining on its own merits. They'll want to continue even if they break up with their partner.
Has this happened to you? Can you add any details? (I've heard of this happening many times but no one seems to be able to describe it very well. )
Munchies:
Why feedees and not feedists?
I digress.
Good question, but I'd rather do one question at a time!
Munchies:
Can't teach someone to participate in a kink they don't want to participate in.
AskDrFeeder:
I think that's usually true, but it does happen sometimes. They'll try it and find they like it. Maybe you don't want to call that "teaching" but it's a thing.
Munchies:
It's not teaching. That is introducing someone to a new thing.
For example, I didn't get into BDSM until a partner introduced it to me. He didn't teach me a thing. I figured out what I did and didn't like while he supported me through my discovery.
There were things he liked that were no-goes for me. Meanwhile, there were things that I enjoyed that he was largely ambivalent about.
Circling back to the original topic, there are numerous ways to be a feedee. As such, you can't be taught. You can explore it. You can go on a journey. But it's something you have to figure out for yourself.
I'm not talking about just introducing someone to a new thing, I'm talking about the case where you introduce them to a new thing and they get into it. If you don't want to call that "teaching", fine by me but your term doesn't quite work either.
2 years
AskDrFeeder:
I've heard this story many times. A person has no interest in feedism but is persuaded to try it by their feeder. They gain some and by their partner's reaction realize how erotic feedism can be. It starts to turn them on, and before you know it they appreciate gaining on its own merits. They'll want to continue even if they break up with their partner.
Has this happened to you? Can you add any details? (I've heard of this happening many times but no one seems to be able to describe it very well. )
Munchies:
Why feedees and not feedists?
I digress.
Good question, but I'd rather do one question at a time!
Munchies:
Can't teach someone to participate in a kink they don't want to participate in.
I think that's usually true, but it does happen sometimes. They'll try it and find they like it. Maybe you don't want to call that "teaching" but it's a thing.
2 years
AskDrFeeder:I have imagined being in a relationship with two slender women who find out I'm a feeder who compete for my affections, each one trying to gain more weight than the other.
Maybe if one falls too far behind we tie her up and force feed her or whatever--there are many variations.
Munchies:Could have sworn you were married. Oh well. Maybe you and your wife are poly.
Ha! I'm divorced. But it's just a fantasy anyway. Even when I was married I had those.
2 years
I have imagined being in a relationship with two slender women who find out I'm a feeder who compete for my affections, each one trying to gain more weight than the other.
Maybe if one falls too far behind we tie her up and force feed her or whatever--there are many variations.
2 years
I've heard this story many times. A person has no interest in feedism but is persuaded to try it by their feeder. They gain some and by their partner's reaction realize how erotic feedism can be. It starts to turn them on, and before you know it they appreciate gaining on its own merits. They'll want to continue even if they break up with their partner.
Has this happened to you? Can you add any details? (I've heard of this happening many times but no one seems to be able to describe it very well. )
2 years
