AskDrFeeder:
Based on people I've chatted with, if you stuff to the max more than once a week you're likely to go out of control. E.g. one woman wanted to gain from 130 to 180 pounds. She couldn't gain until she started stuffing herself to the point she couldn't take a deep breath. She did that every day. Then she gained pretty easily. She quit stuffing like that when she got to 180 but was still in the habit of eating a lot and kept on gaining even though she didn't want to. When I chatted with her she weighed around 300 pounds and was still gaining.
J8o8h8n:
So you're saying that it might be a good idea for me to keep at it for a bit and stuff myself more often to increase my appetite and develop a habit of eating more?
If you want to go out of control, yes, it's a great idea. And, while I think it's a bad idea to go out of control, some people love it.
But if you don't want to go out of control keep it down to 3 times a month. And this is just my rough estimate--I don't have any hard data on this. Plus everyone's different. Some people will go out of control easier than others.
2 years
Based on people I've chatted with, if you stuff to the max more than once a week you're likely to go out of control. E.g. one woman wanted to gain from 130 to 180 pounds. She couldn't gain until she started stuffing herself to the point she couldn't take a deep breath. She did that every day. Then she gained pretty easily. She quit stuffing like that when she got to 180 but was still in the habit of eating a lot and kept on gaining even though she didn't want to. When I chatted with her she weighed around 300 pounds and was still gaining.
2 years
AskDrFeeder:Most of this stuff, I've been really working towards making habit. It feels good to know it's paying off!
Judging from your pics it looks like it! Congrats.
2 years
Many people are conflicted about gaining when they start. But as they gain, some of them find their fears dwindling and their enjoyment increasing, until they have a moment where they realize they're definitely getting fat and love it.
I call this a "fatpiphany". (fat + epiphany).
Who has had one? And if you have, or know someone who has, please share any details.
2 years
If I ever start a restaurant, these will be on the menu.
The Pulp Fiction
Tall stack of Blueberry Pancakes with
maple syrup
Eggs over easy
Five sausages
Tall glass of orange juice
Black Coffee
Blueberry pie with slice of melted cheese
The Pan-American
Bacon Cheeseburger
French Fries
Chocolate Shake
Enchilada
Taco
Rice
Beans
Tortilla chips
Flan
The Dr. F
Cheesburger
Fries
Chocolate Shake
Fried Chicken Drumstick
Hot Dog
Cheesecake
Two Chocolate Truffles
Slice of pizza
Banana split
2 years
--Exercise...preferably low-impact, like swimming.
--Don't smoke. Smoking and obesity in combination are riskier than either is alone.
--Avoid alcohol. Alcohol use and obesity in combination are riskier than either is alone.
--You can get fairly cheap blood pressure monitors these days. Check it regularly and maybe moderate the gaining if it gets out of whack.
--The same goes for blood-sugar monitors.
2 years
You don't need to tell people about the sexual part of it. That's none of their business. And anyway, almost everyone has a private kink or two.
Go with the PG version.
Feedees can say: "I find I'm happier if I eat what I want."
Feeders can say: "Oh, [my feedee is] happier if she eats what she wants. So I don't bother her about it."
Now, if you're an Fat Admirer (most feeders are) it may become obvious to people that you're an FA, since you usually date fat people. But you don't have to get into it. If someone asks if you're an FA, you can just say something like "Oh, I don't care about people's weight. It's their character that matters."
2 years
I think it's reasonable to ask.
It's also reasonable to decline or defer such a request.
2 years
Bigdj1977:
Ok, being 220 pounds and potentially gaining some more is in no way shape or form “death feedism”. There are literally millions of people out there who are 220 pounds and gain a little here and there as they get older. Very few of them are likely to self-identify as “death feedists”. Also, feederism isn’t vampirism. Just because you, at one point helped a person gain 60 pounds, doesn’t make you their Sire and responsible for any subsequent actions of theirs.
Of course 220 isn't death feedism. Just saying it could turn into that. As far as feeder responsibility goes...like I said, I'm conflicted about all of it. Glad to hear your opinion on this, but I'm not quite on the same page.
2 years
I would never encourage someone to become a death feedist or get into a relationship with someone who was already. I have to think the end of it would be pretty grim whatever you do.
There is one scenario that I wonder about though: what if my feedee wanted to gain from, I don't know, 160 to 220 and we agree she'll stop there. Then she gets to 220 and loves it so much she doesn't want to stop.
She's out of control...maybe she'll go on a diet at times, but she always blows it and goes back to eating and gaining, even if I help her stay on the diet. At some point it's death feedism even if she doesn't want to call it that. Or maybe she does call it that...she loves eating so much she doesn't want to stop for anything.
I'd feel conflicted. Since I'd encourage her to gain the initial 60 pounds, I'd feel at least partly responsible for her going out of control. Thus I'd feel obliged to see to her comfort, maybe even to the point of making sure she could continue overeating.
I'm really not sure what I'd do in this scenario.
2 years
