What is the heaviest girl that you have ever dated?
halever:
This is a great thread and really draws me to the FF site because I like to read and learn about my fellow FAs and the amazing BBW inner desires/preferences.
I didn't always know my girl friends weight: I remember a girl who blossomed in middle school to have glorious breasts and a round belly that they rested upon. I always tried to sit next to her on the school bus and pray for curves where I could feel her softness upon me. I couldn't take my eyes off her, and she always offered up a knowing smile of my adolescent lust
In college I worked at a library in the periodicals department. A girl worked there who was very full figured and she had this wonderful habit of squeezing by me back in the storage shelves.... and it took my breath away. She was an actress and because of her larger size played an older woman in a play I saw her in. Later at her place she told me how tight the costume was, and I asked if I could help her out of it - my first brush with experiencing the beauty of a woman of larger size in clothing she thinks she can still fit in, in clothing designed for a societal "norm" that her love of eating has shattered wondrously with expanding pounds of pride.
When I had my first job as a caseworker I met Dena. I really enjoyed speaking with her about her case and asked if I could call her (note: this is pre-cell phone days of no texting and having to compete with room mates for telephone time - God I'm old. So things went well and I asked to meet for a date. She put it off and put it off.... And in the mean time every Friday she would drop off a delicious treat of donuts, cinnamon rolls, cookies at my work place. Finally it came out - she told me that she had gained weight and was 297 pounds. This was the first time I ever knew a woman's weight, so it was just a number and it was almost twice my own weight at the time. We met in the most romantic manner possible (a hotel where she had written the most heartfelt letter saying that it was ok if I withdrew if I found her to fat) with candles and soft music. I felt so drawn to her, breathless at times, savoring her curves and softness. Over the course of our relationship I found that we tended to meet in secluded places (hotels and a cabin up in the mountains) where she loved to cook and feed me. I finally turned the tables to feed her, which kind of shocked her because she was on a path to lose weight to be more "attractive". My actions of being completely aroused when she was scantily clad in tight negligee spoke multitudes about my lust for her. And on weeknights we'd meet for dinner at a restaurant and she always gave me a blowjob in the parking lot, calling it her desert!
As a side note, it was around this time (late '80s) that I discovered BUF magazine which featured women of larger variety and who actually had big bellys on display! I had never been drawn to the standard Playboys or Penthouse, but did purchase quite a few issues where a BBW was featured... thank God we now have the Internet
I moved back East and dated different types of women, not all BBW (which again by the way wasn't a term I knew at this point). I married a woman who was tall and around 160 pounds. When we had our first child she gained 80 pounds and I was so turned on by her belly and hips that she told me the doctor said no intercourse in the final weeks of pregnancy (a crushing blow). She kept the weight and we had another child 14 months later! I told her that her weight gain was beautiful, but she just could not maintain it due to her self image, peer pressure (she had 5 sisters who were the Roman chorus of being "normal" size). Our love life eventually faded in to the mist, and we went our separate ways through divorce 6 years ago.
Shortly thereafter I met a new girlfriend, Connie. She had large breasts and a great belly (where the top half sectioned over the bottom half with massive girth). I was completely turned on, more sexual in the years of our relationship than I had been in the previous decade. But she said that her weight gain was the result of taking anti depressants and that she wanted to lose weight. Again, a woman not truly happy being heavier and despite my clear affirmations and demonstrations of instinctual FA preference, and we broke up.
Which brings me to the past couple of years. It's been a Renaissance period for me as a man in my 50s who can use the web to express my true self, my true draw toward the fully expressed woman, the woman who has savored every morsel of food and drink she loves in abundance and has the widening hips, expanding belly and larger breasts to show for it. The physical attraction to the BBW/SSBBW/Feedee is undeniable for me, and what I really like is reading blogs and threads like this one where I find kindred spirits to share my passion and journey with.....
This is a great thread and really draws me to the FF site because I like to read and learn about my fellow FAs and the amazing BBW inner desires/preferences.
I didn't always know my girl friends weight: I remember a girl who blossomed in middle school to have glorious breasts and a round belly that they rested upon. I always tried to sit next to her on the school bus and pray for curves where I could feel her softness upon me. I couldn't take my eyes off her, and she always offered up a knowing smile of my adolescent lust
In college I worked at a library in the periodicals department. A girl worked there who was very full figured and she had this wonderful habit of squeezing by me back in the storage shelves.... and it took my breath away. She was an actress and because of her larger size played an older woman in a play I saw her in. Later at her place she told me how tight the costume was, and I asked if I could help her out of it - my first brush with experiencing the beauty of a woman of larger size in clothing she thinks she can still fit in, in clothing designed for a societal "norm" that her love of eating has shattered wondrously with expanding pounds of pride.
When I had my first job as a caseworker I met Dena. I really enjoyed speaking with her about her case and asked if I could call her (note: this is pre-cell phone days of no texting and having to compete with room mates for telephone time - God I'm old
. So things went well and I asked to meet for a date. She put it off and put it off.... And in the mean time every Friday she would drop off a delicious treat of donuts, cinnamon rolls, cookies at my work place. Finally it came out - she told me that she had gained weight and was 297 pounds. This was the first time I ever knew a woman's weight, so it was just a number and it was almost twice my own weight at the time. We met in the most romantic manner possible (a hotel where she had written the most heartfelt letter saying that it was ok if I withdrew if I found her to fat) with candles and soft music. I felt so drawn to her, breathless at times, savoring her curves and softness. Over the course of our relationship I found that we tended to meet in secluded places (hotels and a cabin up in the mountains) where she loved to cook and feed me. I finally turned the tables to feed her, which kind of shocked her because she was on a path to lose weight to be more "attractive". My actions of being completely aroused when she was scantily clad in tight negligee spoke multitudes about my lust for her. And on weeknights we'd meet for dinner at a restaurant and she always gave me a blowjob in the parking lot, calling it her desert!As a side note, it was around this time (late '80s) that I discovered BUF magazine which featured women of larger variety and who actually had big bellys on display! I had never been drawn to the standard Playboys or Penthouse, but did purchase quite a few issues where a BBW was featured... thank God we now have the Internet
I moved back East and dated different types of women, not all BBW (which again by the way wasn't a term I knew at this point). I married a woman who was tall and around 160 pounds. When we had our first child she gained 80 pounds and I was so turned on by her belly and hips that she told me the doctor said no intercourse in the final weeks of pregnancy (a crushing blow). She kept the weight and we had another child 14 months later! I told her that her weight gain was beautiful, but she just could not maintain it due to her self image, peer pressure (she had 5 sisters who were the Roman chorus of being "normal" size). Our love life eventually faded in to the mist, and we went our separate ways through divorce 6 years ago.
Shortly thereafter I met a new girlfriend, Connie. She had large breasts and a great belly (where the top half sectioned over the bottom half with massive girth). I was completely turned on, more sexual in the years of our relationship than I had been in the previous decade. But she said that her weight gain was the result of taking anti depressants and that she wanted to lose weight. Again, a woman not truly happy being heavier and despite my clear affirmations and demonstrations of instinctual FA preference, and we broke up.
Which brings me to the past couple of years. It's been a Renaissance period for me as a man in my 50s who can use the web to express my true self, my true draw toward the fully expressed woman, the woman who has savored every morsel of food and drink she loves in abundance and has the widening hips, expanding belly and larger breasts to show for it. The physical attraction to the BBW/SSBBW/Feedee is undeniable for me, and what I really like is reading blogs and threads like this one where I find kindred spirits to share my passion and journey with.....
I just noticed my original reply was cut off. See it below.
8 years
Fat sex
voluptuouslover:
littlejohnboy:
My friend is the same height as your wife, but almost twice as heavy at almost 400 lbs. As both of our bellies have become bigger, missionary is not as satisfying. Her belly is solid and it makes it difficult for me to get deep inside her.
I can only imagine with that much more belly on both of you. I noticed that as an issue even at our weights......feeling like I wouldn't get as deep inside of her and our fat guts pushing us away at every thrust. Not sure if it is the same for you.....but my arousal grew even though it wasn't from friction it was the struggle of our bellies in the way. My wife actually still loved missionary because she said she liked feeling my weight on her....even though at times she grasped for breath and nudged me at times to move slightly and I would also slide way lower with just a bit of my member in her and my Fat gut would rub against her clitoris causing her to explode.
However, as mentioned here, her on top is amazing. When she is facing me, my belly flattens out and hers covers me. I hold her hands and brace my elbows on the bed. She grinds back and forth and it is amazing.
This is definitely a great position because they can self maneuver there belly easier this way and I know what you mean they kind of lay down on you so you feel there soft, warm and then slight perspiration of the two Fat bellies squishing together after a while and they grind also created clitoral stimulation for them.
When she faces away, she leans back slightly and her ads is up to my chest. Both of these positions make us both cum quickly - which is good because we both get winded from sex.
Yea.....I always want to get her totally off first but The thought for me as an FA even though the deed isn't as long I feel so much more aroused just feeling and knowing that both of us were so much fatter and sex was much more of an erotic struggle.....and yes stamina was a huge problem for both of us....but like I said we were usually stuffed and bloated which didn't help.....it made us feel like we were both so much fatter than we really were because of that.
littlejohnboy:
My friend is the same height as your wife, but almost twice as heavy at almost 400 lbs. As both of our bellies have become bigger, missionary is not as satisfying. Her belly is solid and it makes it difficult for me to get deep inside her.
I can only imagine with that much more belly on both of you. I noticed that as an issue even at our weights......feeling like I wouldn't get as deep inside of her and our fat guts pushing us away at every thrust. Not sure if it is the same for you.....but my arousal grew even though it wasn't from friction it was the struggle of our bellies in the way. My wife actually still loved missionary because she said she liked feeling my weight on her....even though at times she grasped for breath and nudged me at times to move slightly and I would also slide way lower with just a bit of my member in her and my Fat gut would rub against her clitoris causing her to explode.
However, as mentioned here, her on top is amazing. When she is facing me, my belly flattens out and hers covers me. I hold her hands and brace my elbows on the bed. She grinds back and forth and it is amazing.
This is definitely a great position because they can self maneuver there belly easier this way and I know what you mean they kind of lay down on you so you feel there soft, warm and then slight perspiration of the two Fat bellies squishing together after a while and they grind also created clitoral stimulation for them.
When she faces away, she leans back slightly and her ads is up to my chest. Both of these positions make us both cum quickly - which is good because we both get winded from sex.
Yea.....I always want to get her totally off first but The thought for me as an FA even though the deed isn't as long I feel so much more aroused just feeling and knowing that both of us were so much fatter and sex was much more of an erotic struggle.....and yes stamina was a huge problem for both of us....but like I said we were usually stuffed and bloated which didn't help.....it made us feel like we were both so much fatter than we really were because of that.
Oops! Yes we do still enjoy missionary for having our fat bellies smashed together. Another enjoyable position is on our sides facing each other, pushing our bellies together. It is not necessarily for sex, but mostly just for snuggling. When we synchronize our breathing (me out, her in; her out, me in) it feels amazing to have our fat pressed together.
8 years
Fat sex
voluptuouslover:
Don't know if I have the answers you are looking for but wanted to chime in a bit.
My wife being shorter at 5' 3" and weighing around 200 Lbs. at the time with a pear shape with a big ass and hips , big lower belly and huge breasts etc. and myself who grew a big round gut and was at about 260 Lbs. found it quite a bit more difficult to make love in several positions even at our weight and good size bellies. I could only imagine if I gained another 30-50 Lbs. and my wife gained 50-100 Lbs. how difficult it would be to make love with our huge guts getting in the way.Now....it was not only the size of our growing bellies (mainly mine) that posed a problem but how out of shape we became.
With all that said I kind of enjoyed the extra struggle of trying to penetrate her deeper with our newly fattened bellies getting in the way and it seemed to really add to the intimacy. Not to mention many times we needed to slow down and even stop for a bit while we caught our breath for a few seconds which talked and laughed about adding for me to the fattening erotism. I could only imagine it gets tougher the bigger the bellies and the heavier the weights but it certainly didn't help both of us at the time that most of the time we were making love it was in the evening following dinner and many big deserts so we were so stuffed and tired more easily....but then again during this time it seemed like we were always stuffed and fattened to the max.....especially me.
Don't know if I have the answers you are looking for but wanted to chime in a bit.
My wife being shorter at 5' 3" and weighing around 200 Lbs. at the time with a pear shape with a big ass and hips , big lower belly and huge breasts etc. and myself who grew a big round gut and was at about 260 Lbs. found it quite a bit more difficult to make love in several positions even at our weight and good size bellies. I could only imagine if I gained another 30-50 Lbs. and my wife gained 50-100 Lbs. how difficult it would be to make love with our huge guts getting in the way.Now....it was not only the size of our growing bellies (mainly mine) that posed a problem but how out of shape we became.
With all that said I kind of enjoyed the extra struggle of trying to penetrate her deeper with our newly fattened bellies getting in the way and it seemed to really add to the intimacy. Not to mention many times we needed to slow down and even stop for a bit while we caught our breath for a few seconds which talked and laughed about adding for me to the fattening erotism. I could only imagine it gets tougher the bigger the bellies and the heavier the weights but it certainly didn't help both of us at the time that most of the time we were making love it was in the evening following dinner and many big deserts so we were so stuffed and tired more easily....but then again during this time it seemed like we were always stuffed and fattened to the max.....especially me.
My friend is the same height as your wife, but almost twice as heavy at almost 400 lbs. As both of our bellies have become bigger, missionary is not as satisfying. Her belly is solid and it makes it difficult for me to get deep inside her.
However, as mentioned here, her on top is amazing. When she is facing me, my belly flattens out and hers covers me. I hold her hands and brace my elbows on the bed. She grinds back and forth and it is amazing.
When she faces away, she leans back slightly and her ads is up to my chest. Both of these positions make us both cum quickly - which is good because we both get winded from sex.
Give them a try. Hope they work for you.
8 years
Size comparison who prefers to be bigger than their partner and why?
It seems that all the girls I have dated, except for one, have weighed as much or more than I do. I think fat is very sexy. I do hope to some day date a women who is both taller than I am at 6' 2" and at least 100 pounds heavier than my 240 lbs.
8 years
