Fantasy Feeder

Anyone a smoker?

I have a friend who recently started smoking again after having quit for about 4-5 years. She's in a mid life crisis kind of situation and somewhat a hot mess but looks so sexy enjoying her cigarettes.

The smoking just fits her persona, it's hard to describe. She's still trying to mask it from her daughter and roommate, but it's just a matter of time until her clothes and car begin smelling of smoke.

My first girlfriend was a smoker. We enjoyed lighting up together, especially in the car. I eventually quit but she couldn't, despite me being the heavier smoker. That was years ago but to this day I still enjoy when a woman smokes.

3 years

Newenglander

Fattened in secret

That scenario is incredibly hot!

If I sensed a female coworker had a gluttonous appetite, or saw her disproportionately devouring food, I would definitely enable her by bringing in baked goods or other fattening foods pretty much on a daily basis.

Unfortunately throughout my life most of my female coworkers were doing the opposite - trying to stay slim.

It's been years since I worked in those settings, and the only women I know now who are gaining weight absolutely hate it.

They have no idea how I love what they did or are doing to their bodies and would probably be repulsed if they ever found out.

Wherever you find work, I hope there's someone that does just what you need to fulfill your fantasy. If we worked together, rest assured your clothes would soon be fitting really tight.

3 years

Newenglander

Anyone a smoker?

I gave up smoking nearly 20 years ago, but still find something incredibly hot about women who smoke. Maybe because society says it's wrong so it seems naughty, much like obesity.

3 years

Newenglander

Arbitrary goals besides weight? what are yours?

AskDrFeeder:
I'm not a feedee but I'll jump in anyway. I like functional goals, for example:

1) When you gain weight quickly and become a bit clumsier because you aren't used to your new weight and size, and start bumping into things with your hips and such.

2) I'm conflicted over people gaining so much that it's crippling--even if it's kind of hot I'd feel bad for you. But if it's a _bit_ of a struggle to get out of chairs or climb stairs or walk much faster than a waddle, if it's almost impossible to run, that's cute AF.

3) Appetite goals...if you used to have trouble finishing a cheeseburger with fries and now two quarter-pounder with cheese meals aren't enough, that's amazing.

4) Shamelessness--you used to be too shy to overeat in public. But now you love eating so much that you don't care, or at least don't let it slow you down.

Any one else have such goals?

Proud2bme:
I have definitely become more clumsy since the only way I gain is quickly. Attempting to get in the car while under the carport feels as if it could sell tickets and I am bumping into things I didn't before because my size still feels awkward and this belly goes out so far past my breasts if allowed when I obsessed over trying to keep it flat before.

I have know from the first time Saw the number creeping up that if I allowed myself immobility could become a very real issue if I allowed myself that. Not at all my desire. At the moment, my cardio has slowed so much I need the ac as low as possible to keep from needing a shower after my shower. I am exploring exercise options at the moment because I realize that could be a dangerous slope for me.

The shamelessness. This. In the past I have tried to hide my weight if I ordered what I wanted but most of the time avoiding ordering fattening foods because of what others would think. Now I can go through a drive thru and order more indulgent food than I would dare before with the whole belly out of my pants because I gained too much this week and they're just too damn tight sitting (shirt covering of course). Now i'm not self-conscious of strangers judging what I put in my mouth as I eat a healthy day's calories for breakfast. This has actually been a very real goal for a long time

I would love to see you squeezing into the car and settling in all squished behind the wheel.

3 years

Newenglander

The cuteness factor

My hygienist likely gave no thought to the contact for the same reasons as yours. Despite her not doing as thorough a job as my regular hygienist, it was a treat to feel that cute, short BBW pressed into me. Fortunately, I avoided embarrassment because I was wearing loose fitting carpenter jeans and I doubt she was looking in that direction anyways.

3 years

Newenglander

The cuteness factor

UglyAndUnloveable:
Also -

I am a total sucker for arm fat. You know, those "loops" that mostly women get - like your arm is a Michelin man! They are so pillowy and adorable.

There was this barista not long ago with the most extreme football-sized, flabby arms, I was smiling the whole time I got my coffee. Finally I decided to take a chance and said:

"I just wanted to tell you, I really love your...glasses!"

She lit right up, big smile. Maybe she knew what I meant.

I also want to share that when I was 16, I got my hair cut by a 300-plus pound 20 year old who otherwise didn't regard me as anything but a kid. But her arm flab kept smacking me in the face, and every time it hit me, I was like "um um um um...wow" inside.

Some things stay with you!

Great thread, thank you all for participating.

chubluvr:
This story reminded me, of all things, of a cute dental hygienist from a few years back.
She was as cute as can be, but the best part was that she had a very plump and sexy tummy, so when she was "working on me,"
she was pressing her plump tummy into me. It had the effect of making me look forward to going to the dentist. Imagine that!

voluptuouslover:
Have had this with a dental hygienists as well !😂. I really have it with my 320 lb hairstylist!

Guess this is a thing. One cute fat hygienist probably unknowingly pressed her belly into me several times as she did my cleaning. Unfortunately I only had her once, for reasons unknown to me she did not last at my dentist's office.

3 years

Newenglander

All inclusive resorts

Royal Caribbean used to have excellent buffets all day long and exquisite dinners in the dining room. Carnival had slightly lower quality offerings including a pizza station which might actually work well if the goal is to gain weight.

Both cruise lines had eye candy galore for this FA every single time, especially on the pool decks and at port attractions!

The best part is cruises are like Planet Fitness on pizza day, the judgment free zone. You'll never see anyone ever again, everybody knows it, and nobody cares.

4 years

Newenglander

Other female feedee’s

SSBBW4U:
Hi. I was curious if anyone knows how I could get into modeling?

Big Cuties and Curvage come to mind. I met a popular Big Cuties model several years ago, although I have no idea just how much money there is to be made from modeling. She had a successful career and did not need whatever extra money came from the modeling. This site and Feabie are good places to promote yourself, but there's no money to be made here.

4 years

Newenglander

What do your friends, family, and girlfriend (boyfriend) think about your winning?

katiedid:
My family has definitely noticed.

My mom has been more concerned. (In her defense, I gained pretty quickly, so I can see why she would be.) At first, she didn't say anything. She just encouraged me to keep working out and eating healthy, even though I was stuck inside because of the pandemic. But after a while, when the weight didn't stop, she got more worried. She actually asked me if I was pregnant and just too embarrassed to tell her. Which I then had to awkwardly explain that there was no way I would be pregnant and that I was just "that fat". Since then, she hasn't said much, but I can tell she's not super thrilled with "the new me".

My sister, on the other hand, won't shut up about it. She's not mean. We have a long history of teasing each other about different things. She's four years younger than me, so she's still in college and still very active, so she's in great shape. I used to rub it in when I was faster or better than her at something, so she's loving that she can now do the same with me. She loves to call me "her BIG sister". (Long sigh.)

My dad hasn't said anything. Living in a house with three girls has taught him well. Haha.

I know someone very well, close to your age, and she has gained recently much like you. Her gain is epic and ongoing. Part of it is from emotions, and then the Covid situation worked its magic.

I have known this girl since she was a kid, and let me say she has gained 80+ pounds in her early 20s and looks cute AF.

All the women in her family are BBW so she catches zero shit from them. She's tough on herself because she doesn't care to be 230+ pounds, but she can't seem to reverse it.

Your mom will have to accept you as you are, whether she likes it or not. Make talking about weight loss a non-starter if she brings it up.

As for your sister exacting revenge, playfully teasing you about your gain, OMG this is so hot, not many girls can or will take it w/o getting emotional or angry. You're a good sport!

4 years

Newenglander

What do your friends, family, and girlfriend (boyfriend) think about your winning?

chubbytubbers:
My boyfriend loves the gain. He was pretty chubby so I just ate what he ate and next thing you know my lovehandles are back and I’m eating more than he does. We joke about how chubby I’ve got and my ever expanding muffin top. I went to my aunts house the other day for a family dinner and she asked “what I was going to do about the weight gain” while handing me a plate of food. I was so embarrassed I didn’t know what to say but I knew she’d mention it because I was a lot skinnier the last time I saw her.

Your aunt asking what you were going to do about the weight gain while handing you a plate of food, she already knew the answer!

4 years

Newenglander