How long can one gain in a healthy way

Anjou:
Hey...
Long story short I married the man of my dreams, who when I simply said I like hefty guys (he was a slightly plump 190lbs to my 215) and told him about feedism he went hog(lol)wild.
At the same time I started losing weight due to my a1c (although I have always wanted to be thin).
Ngl, that contrast of him gaining and me losing made me horny 24/7. I just loved the feel of his rolls of fat getting bigger and bigger as I got smaller and smaller. I was on cloud nine.
He is up to 362 now to my 105. Ngl, I just look at him now and get a little wet. The fact that he workouts out daily (power lifter) and that I feed him pretty clean, with heavy cream mixed with protein powder being the mainstay when he is on his yearly gaining cycle, I think has allowed him to really only have high blood pressure that we keep in check with meds as a side effect of his 160 lbs gain in 3 or so years.
He has already started drinking a quart of cream because he wants to get to 400 by Halloween.
I guess my question to y’all is how long can one gain like this until health issues arise? Or stay as active as he does?
I told him that he is plenty big for me, but he has 💯 become a feedee and does not want to stop. I just worry that might be to big and have told him so. He did reassure me that he will stop if he has health issues, but tbh I kinda doubt he will at time. He is sooo into this now.
Any advice?


My partner and I are into extreme feedism. So, out of abundance of caution, he gives me full access to his medical records and updates me about every doctor's appointment. He also tells me any time he doesn't feel well for any reason.

Our communication is open and we have no secrets. This way, I know when it's safe to indulge as well as how intense we can be.

I get how you feel. Feeders can have a lot of guilt if our feedees get hurt or sick - even if we aren't at fault or completely to blame. But I cannot stress just how much have mutual trust and communication helps with that.
9 months

Am i overthinking this?

TacticalMilk:
This has happened to me about 3 times in the past year and its gotten to the point if its just a coincidence or if I'm actually right

So ive gone to many dinners and I'm slowly starting to realize that I'm getting to big for most restaurant booths and I either struggle to seat myself or just dont fit at all.

Ive gone to a few restaurants with friends who are pretty skinny so I'm pretty much double triple their size.There were 3 instances where I went with friends and whenever they were going to ask us if we wanted a booth or a table ,I was always to one being directly asked that question.

By the third time that happen,I was beginning to suspect hat they knew I was too big to fit in the booths but I couldn't tell if I was just overthinking. Regardless if the waiter was asking me on purpose or not,I appreciate them trying to accommodate my size

If you are a waiteris or were one before,I would definitely like some responses from you guys


My partner is a belly heavy 400+ lbs. Every time we go out to dinner, the waiter/host always asks if we want a table or a booth.

My partner always picks the booth because the places we go have moveable tables and I don't need much space to spread out.

Also, and I cannot stress this enough, the want you to have a good time. It's better for everyone - especially them - if you have a good time. A happy customer is a pleasant customer and one that is more likely to leave tips and a good review.
9 months

What type of website is this?

Imtryingstuff:
Silly question but is it a kink website, dating website or something else 🤔

Fatluvinguy:
Probably all three. smiley


I'd say it's a kink website. Sure, you can find people to date on here. I certainly found my partner on here. But FF is unlike any dating site I've ever seen. I mean you get 5 DMs a day, and 15 chats for free. And you don't get unlimited blocks. So I won't classify it as a dating site.
9 months

Too fat to masturbate

CallyP:
I’m too fat to do it luckily my nurse and I are close and she relieves me as shes washing me


Hello??????

That's a crime??????

She can lose her job and go to jail for that???????

Why don't you get an intimacy coach? They specialize in helping people with limited mobility and disabilities to have sex or to pleasure themselves.
9 months

Fav feederism memes?

Theyneverscored:
Here's something timely


Okay, fam. As a Kdot fan, this was tight. Even got the vocal affects right.
9 months

Health challenges

Morbidly A Beast:
Facts I plan on it just gotta shake this congestion cough stuff I have goin


Ragweed season doth be upon us.

Stay strong.
9 months

Health challenges

Morbidly A Beast:
It’s amazing how one or two weeks off from a routine changes your stamina. I took a break from my nightly walks and I’m already struggling with basic walking again It probably doesn’t help that I’m sick but it also doesn’t help that I’ve been eating like I haven’t in weeks every meal. But it feels good when I’m just hanging out and sitting


Good news is that when you get off your groove, you can get back on it.
9 months

Extreme dom encourager

Jacobegable:
Never done encouragement before. Just need someone to help push me beyond my limits, so I can gain quicker.


Eh. I'd be more discerning about that.

I'm not casting any aspersions about OP. I don't know him, and I haven't seen any red flag behaviors from him. But you gotta be extra careful about choosing an extreme dom encourager/feeder. Some of us are delightful. However, the majority are absolutely insane abusers.
9 months

Recreating mochi's epic stuffings

Ballbelly909:
I do find the thoughts of a FFA putting through those paces intriguing ….. nice fantasy …

Munchies:
I've done something similar with my partner before. However, it was for a much shorter amount of time. I'd only recommend doing something like that if you enjoy pain.

For the month we did it, his belly was almost constantly at its breaking point. There were a few days when he needed a break or to slow down. We are sadomasochistic, so we enjoyed the immense suffering he experienced.

In the moment, he never wanted to stop, but when I forced him to stop the next month, and the horny died down, he was grateful.

BigBallBellyGirl:
When I did my 90k calorie feast over two days last Thanksgiving, I was incredibly turned on, but I have a high tolerance for pain and also a good dose of masochism. I had a very intense stomach ache, my belly and sides hurt from stretching, my breathing was labored for three days, and my hands swelled up so much I couldn't type on a keyboard. Admittedly, I didn't give my body time to recover, because I kept eating and gained about 50 lb in a month. It's not for everybody, and I generally would advise against it unless someone really really really knew what they were getting into. I was barely able to move throughout the holiday season.

Munchies:
Honestly, I've always considered you to be several order of magnitude more intense than Mochi could ever be. The things you've accomplished are outright impressive.

I'm also impressed by your dedication to find your balance. That's really hard to do, but you are doing it anyway.

BigBallBellyGirl:
It is hard, because not a day goes by that I don't want to eat my way into oblivion. I also miss the thrill of gaining honestly.

However, I've made a bunch of lifestyle changes as far as what I eat and how much. To me, it's what I need to do, not just to avoid another medical emergency, but also in order to stay fat. If I had continued to eat 20,000 calories a day and get bigger and bigger, really bad things would have happened with my heart condition, and I knew that even if I survived another crisis, I would then be in a situation where it would be imperative for me to lose weight. I don't want that either. I'm around 565 to 570, and I'm very happy with my body. I'm under no illusion that I am the picture of health, but if I can keep bringing my blood pressure and cholesterol down and keep building some strength, I can avoid medically necessary weigh loss and continue to enjoy a body that I've worked hard for.


Yeah. You're cool. A world without you is a sad one.
9 months

What causes these odd & creepily persistent profile view records?

Max Stout:
More of the same strangeness…

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…as has been greeting me here for the better part of a year now greeted me here again today, *sigh*.


Not sure why this one person is doing this either. A look at your profile doesn't show anything interesting (no offense). I can also see that you have taken measures to not be searchable. This means that this rando has a direct link to your profile.

Maybe you can ask admin to lock your profile. I know they normally save that for rule violations, but it couldn't hurt to ask. This way, no one but you and admin can see your profile.
9 months